"Butch" and "Femme" - Truly Antiquated Terms or More Marginalization?

Bit · 11-23-2009, 12:59 AM

There is no one right way to be Femme, whether it's an adjective or a noun... there's just no one right way.

I'll tell you, Snow, I have seen people that I absolutely adored as sister Femmes decide they absolutely must not actually BE Femmes because they were so dominant. I always wish that I could point to you as a Femme who is dominant when it happens... except that they don't know you at all so it wouldn't make a difference. *wry shrug*

11-23-2009, 12:59 AM	#24
Bit Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stonefemme Relationship Status: married to Gryph Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Wichita, KS Posts: 2,177 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,126 Thanked 3,770 Times in 1,264 Posts Rep Power: 10778871	late night response to a late night rant There is no one right way to be Femme, whether it's an adjective or a noun... there's just no one right way. I'll tell you, Snow, I have seen people that I absolutely adored as sister Femmes decide they absolutely must not actually BE Femmes because they were so dominant. I always wish that I could point to you as a Femme who is dominant when it happens... except that they don't know you at all so it wouldn't make a difference. wry shrug