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Old 08-10-2016, 02:47 PM   #1
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...the customer doesn't even know what they want. They usually think they do; but they don't. Of course, that's really more of a rumination on the state of Humanity in general, though; rather than simply being a customer issue.

HOWEVER, when you work with the public, that complete lack of self-awareness (whether it is a purposeful affectation or not) becomes so glaringly apparent because <whatever place of business you are working in> is a standalone microcosm of the human species.

Most people really think they know a thing or two. Some may; but the ones who may actually know something are the same ones that know they do not!

People are fascinating. I like to watch how they move about in the world and I really like it when they get to talking so I can see how their minds work. Even the pains-in-the-asses can be just absolutely delightful to observe in the right framework. I honestly miss working with the public.
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Old 12-12-2016, 06:53 PM   #2
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I'd have to agree and say I miss working with the public to an extend however not at this particular time of the year when they are so stressed and frazzled
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Busy busy, this time of the year. What this customer said to me today, took me by surprise, and so did my reaction.

I tweaked a price for a pair of boots, to reorder them. She originally paid less, and I exchanged at a higher price. She says, so if these don't work, will I get my money back on how I originally paid ? I said, just come back to see me, smiling as I said it.

She goes...what if your not here anymore? (This exchange will be back to her next week). I said, Ill be here, I'm not going anywhere.

She then seriously says, "but what if you die?"

"I'm not going to die...what if you die? Why would you say that? We aren't going anywhere"

She back tracked for the next 10 min.

In the end , Hoilday greetings were exchanged and off she went.
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Busy busy, this time of the year. What this customer said to me today, took me by surprise, and so did my reaction.

I tweaked a price for a pair of boots, to reorder them. She originally paid less, and I exchanged at a higher price. She says, so if these don't work, will I get my money back on how I originally paid ? I said, just come back to see me, smiling as I said it.

She goes...what if your not here anymore? (This exchange will be back to her next week). I said, Ill be here, I'm not going anywhere.

She then seriously says, "but what if you die?"

"I'm not going to die...what if you die? Why would you say that? We aren't going anywhere"

She back tracked for the next 10 min.

In the end , Hoilday greetings were exchanged and off she went.
Weird indeed BUT people do just drop dead! Poor Alan, playing hockey with his son one minute, dead the next
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Weird indeed BUT people do just drop dead! Poor Alan, playing hockey with his son one minute, dead the next
I know, but she was more worried over her boots/money, than my life...hmmmmm
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No they aren't always right. I know as a customer I haven't always been right. I've only worked retail as a young kid but was in the back unloasing trucks, so I don't really have any stories.
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I know, but she was more worried over her boots/money, than my life...hmmmmm
Unless you had a personal history with her, there's no reason to expect more. She came to buy something at your store, so it was always about the money.
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...the customer doesn't even know what they want. They usually think they do; but they don't. Of course, that's really more of a rumination on the state of Humanity in general, though; rather than simply being a customer issue.

HOWEVER, when you work with the public, that complete lack of self-awareness (whether it is a purposeful affectation or not) becomes so glaringly apparent because <whatever place of business you are working in> is a standalone microcosm of the human species.

Most people really think they know a thing or two. Some may; but the ones who may actually know something are the same ones that know they do not!

People are fascinating. I like to watch how they move about in the world and I really like it when they get to talking so I can see how their minds work. Even the pains-in-the-asses can be just absolutely delightful to observe in the right framework. I honestly miss working with the public.
So true.

In my line of work,you have to be very observant with each and every customer.Watch how they approach you and strike up a conversation.It usually takes me no more than a few seconds to figure out the mood their in and if they are there to buy something or tell me their life story.If they are my regular customers,I will give them a minute of chit chat because I know they eventually buy.I deal with all types of people and I treat them as they treat me..and it's so much fun when they hand over the green.

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