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Old 04-09-2017, 04:10 AM   #1
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i have been thinking about this thread, its so super delicious. i do feel that this question is not for me, as i don't feel sexy is what i am.

Gosh i <3 all of you.

i realize that i do not think of myself as sexy at all. i DO think all of you are. Each one for different reasons. i love hearing about your sexy self.

i don't really *do* makeup very often. (is Burt's bees lip balm make up? It IS tinted), i don't do heels, lingerie or anything like it. Give me a white crew neck Tee to sleep in and i am in my comfy place (maybe that is sexy in itself?)

But if i did have to reach for something i would say when when my energy is confidence, assertiveness, boldness, almost to the point of cockiness, ..... in my favorite Levis, and leather clogs, on a low humidity day (BIG hair)

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Old 04-09-2017, 09:13 AM   #2
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i have been thinking about this thread, its so super delicious. i do feel that this question is not for me, as i don't feel sexy is what i am.

Gosh i <3 all of you.

i realize that i do not think of myself as sexy at all. i DO think all of you are. Each one for different reasons. i love hearing about your sexy self.

i don't really *do* makeup very often. (is Burt's bees lip balm make up? It IS tinted), i don't do heels, lingerie or anything like it. Give me a white crew neck Tee to sleep in and i am in my comfy place (maybe that is sexy in itself?)

I disagree, dee. I do think you have sex appeal and I think it's absolutely sexy for you to be comfy in your white tee. I actually like that look for us girls anyway.

But if i did have to reach for something i would say when when my energy is confidence, assertiveness, boldness, almost to the point of cockiness, ..... in my favorite Levis, and leather clogs, on a low humidity day (BIG hair)

Femme Swagger.

Ooooh, Levis. See? That's exactly what we mean and is most definitely femme swagger! Good on you!
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The day's certainly nowhere near over but I can tell you that I felt extraordinarily sexy when I left the gym this morning. My hair was up in a bun, I was sweaty and my face red but damn, did I feel good. Confident, strong and totally capable of kicking ass. When I feel those things, I am sexy.
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Old 04-27-2017, 10:35 AM   #4
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Like MsTinkerbelly and Soft*Silver, my spouse is not in good health at all. She is 74 and struggles everyday just to get up and do basic tasks. I'm going to be 48 in June and I'm so busy working fulltime and caring for her that I have pretty much forgotten how to feel sexy! I used to be very feminine when we first got together, always all made up, nails done, super ladies my hair, etc. yet I always had my tomboy side. Ever since my butch became disabled it seems like the feminine side of me sort of slipped into the background. Here lately though, I'm trying to get more in touch with my inner femme.
I've lost a little weight and I now feel sexy when I'm fresh from the shower, lotioned up, smelling lightly of coconut, wearing a teeshirt dress around the house. Or when I paint my toenails a baby pink or baby blue and my hair is up in a ridiculously high messy bun. Then I feel very sexy.
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Sometimes it's my own bedhead that does it for me!

Padding to the coffeepot in bare feet with my ever-present red toes and that crazy mass of red hair billowing all huge and wild and wavy, I feel really sexy yawning and stretching the sleep away and greeting the day as a ferocious and wildly-satisfied thing.

I guess you could say that satisfying sleep (even if short) and bedhead are a sexy feeling!
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you know...feeling powerful IS amazingly sexy for me. When I would ride my 1200 lb mare and she was all full of herself and yet listened to ME, and the sweat on the inside of my thighs against the saddle warmed me, and the sweat coming down off my helmet burnt my raw cheeks, DAMN I felt sexy. When I would slide off her, and feel the thud of my boots hit the ground and she would bow her head and rub against me, DAMN I felt sexy.

Its all in feeling in control of your own power...I do love that feeling

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The day's certainly nowhere near over but I can tell you that I felt extraordinarily sexy when I left the gym this morning. My hair was up in a bun, I was sweaty and my face red but damn, did I feel good. Confident, strong and totally capable of kicking ass. When I feel those things, I am sexy.
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Service is sexy.

I know it's not for everyone but I love that thing where you brush your teeth again and reapply lipstick and fuss with your hair one last time before they get home from work.
And then you take off his shoes for him and maybe bring something to drink while you list off what is happening for dinner.

I love the feeling of "you relax now because I've got you". <3
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Today it was just the right amount of bright green eye shadow. Really perked me up.
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I feel sexy when I spend some time to pamper myself or put on clothes I feel comfortable in, also when I receive positive vipes from my friends, when accomplishing something, when facing fears - something in that direction. Thinking about it, maybe "sexy" is not the right expression then, better ones might be "awesome" or "appreciated"...
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