Is it better?

[Gayandgray]

Originally Posted by Kätzchen

I don't know that either situation is a good place to be in. I sometimes think that the duality of the English language sets us up with interesting ways of problem solving complex situations that may not always have our best interests at heart.


Is it better (IIB): to make tentative plans on a consistent basis or make no plans because you prefer in the moment spontaneity?

I myself tend to make tentative plans majority of the time.
IIB to try to make amends with someone after many years or just forget about it?