How about butch and butch?

JDeere · 06-25-2017, 12:27 AM

Anyone else open to this? I am curious to see the ratio of butch/butch to butch/femme!

firegal · 04-14-2018, 12:26 PM

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Originally Posted by JDeere

Anyone else open to this? I am curious to see the ratio of butch/butch to butch/femme!

Butch/femme has been my history. For me its like "Baskin and Robbins" 31 flavors..... most folks love ice cream... but we all dont pick the same flavor..And you can savor more than one flavor

homoe · 04-17-2018, 10:31 AM

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Originally Posted by FireSignFemme

Once I came home from work and caught my partner, who was butch and my ex, also butch, doing the do in the living room. On the hide-a-bed. So yeah it's out there. You just have to work to find it.

Oh dear.............

JDeere · 04-18-2018, 02:40 PM

I have joined a group on facebook for butch/butch. Lets just say its quite different.

BermieSwim · 07-15-2018, 12:01 AM

Well I just read, I think, several years worth of discussion on this topic and I've been a butch all my life and have always been attracted to butch. I did learn one thing that surprised me though... I had no idea my 40 years of butch on butch relationships was shunned in any way. Why am I just hearing of this now??? LOL

Breathless · 07-15-2018, 03:40 AM

I recall about 12 years ago.. a friend of mine was on the butch threads.. part of the mailing out group on a different site, and she was interested in a butch that was also in the group.. and they had to keep it hush as to not get kicked out of the group. Personally I think it's crazy.. we (generally speaking) are so hard on each other and ourselves.. Love is Love in my books, and if you are lucky enough to find it... embrace! enjoy! celebrate! and fuck those who can't get past their own judgements.

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Originally Posted by BermieSwim

Well I just read, I think, several years worth of discussion on this topic and I've been a butch all my life and have always been attracted to butch. I did learn one thing that surprised me though... I had no idea my 40 years of butch on butch relationships was shunned in any way. Why am I just hearing of this now??? LOL

Brisa · 07-15-2018, 07:24 AM

I see Butch/Butch couples around all the time...it has been more common than you think....

homoe · 07-15-2018, 08:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Breathless

I recall about 12 years ago.. a friend of mine was on the butch threads.. part of the mailing out group on a different site, and she was interested in a butch that was also in the group.. and they had to keep it hush as to not get kicked out of the group. Personally I think it's crazy.. we (generally speaking) are so hard on each other and ourselves.. Love is Love in my books, and if you are lucky enough to find it... embrace! enjoy! celebrate! and fuck those who can't get past their own judgements.

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JDeere · 07-15-2018, 04:35 PM

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Originally Posted by BermieSwim

Well I just read, I think, several years worth of discussion on this topic and I've been a butch all my life and have always been attracted to butch. I did learn one thing that surprised me though... I had no idea my 40 years of butch on butch relationships was shunned in any way. Why am I just hearing of this now??? LOL

Ive heard of it being frowned upon for many years. It's a shame actually because it shouldnt matter who you love, people can shove their judgements up their arse as far as im concerned.

Greco · 07-15-2018, 05:49 PM

Life is very, very short.

If a person cares about what other people think
of their decision for a lover, or any decision for
that matter, than that person will be on
a roller-coaster ride of emotions for the whole of
their precious life.

I've learned that it's about energy. I "dance" with
femme submissives. My energy and they simply
fit, snugly...smiling.

Would I take a butch submissive? I would if she
had what I "dance" to; that butch
has not appeared in my life.

Do I care what anyone else thinks? No.

So, JDeere, love and be loved, fuck the rest.

Greco

06-25-2017, 12:27 AM	#1
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07-15-2018, 12:01 AM	#5
BermieSwim Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: she/her ... hey you Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2018 Location: Western MA Posts: 20 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 19 Thanked 32 Times in 12 Posts Rep Power: 644253	Butch/butch Well I just read, I think, several years worth of discussion on this topic and I've been a butch all my life and have always been attracted to butch. I did learn one thing that surprised me though... I had no idea my 40 years of butch on butch relationships was shunned in any way. Why am I just hearing of this now??? LOL

07-15-2018, 07:24 AM	#7
Brisa Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Female Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Beach Haven NJ Posts: 3,476 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 900 Thanked 933 Times in 442 Posts Rep Power: 5197530	Brisa I see Butch/Butch couples around all the time...it has been more common than you think....

07-15-2018, 05:49 PM	#10
Greco Senior Member How Do You Identify?: GNC, not Trans, REAL. TIME. ONLY. Preferred Pronoun?: REAL. TIME. ONLY. Relationship Status: REAL. TIME. ONLY. Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: In a good life. Posts: 3,200 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,160 Thanked 6,616 Times in 2,285 Posts Rep Power: 0	B/b B/f Life is very, very short. If a person cares about what other people think of their decision for a lover, or any decision for that matter, than that person will be on a roller-coaster ride of emotions for the whole of their precious life. I've learned that it's about energy. I "dance" with femme submissives. My energy and they simply fit, snugly...smiling. Would I take a butch submissive? I would if she had what I "dance" to; that butch has not appeared in my life. Do I care what anyone else thinks? No. So, JDeere, love and be loved, fuck the rest. Greco

04-18-2018, 02:40 PM	#4
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,833 Times in 9,708 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	I have joined a group on facebook for butch/butch. Lets just say its quite different.