Showing scars: what are your relationship fears?

introverted1 · 04-18-2018, 07:16 PM

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Originally Posted by girl_dee

i have a huge fear of letting go completely, and becoming completely happy, living the dream, and truly seeing my happy ever after with the butch of my dreams, only to have the rug pulled out from under me for reasons beyond my control. *shudders*

This. This is my fear exactly.

girl_dee · 04-19-2018, 07:37 AM

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Originally Posted by introverted1

This. This is my fear exactly.

yes yes... i am glad someone understands... , i fear letting go and being totally confident that it will be the happy ever after that i didn’t think existed

cathexis · 04-19-2018, 03:46 PM

Fear of abandonment--Big Time.

Finally able to let go of control, but also can grab it back
when necessary.

girl_dee · 04-19-2018, 03:47 PM

i’ve lived a tough life, i fear being judged on it.

Signmypapyrus · 04-19-2018, 07:10 PM

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Originally Posted by cathexis

Fear of abandonment--Big Time.

Finally able to let go of control, but also can grab it back
when necessary.

Yes, yes, and yes.

04-19-2018, 03:46 PM	#3
cathexis Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Trotskyist, Anarcho-syndicalist Preferred Pronoun?: They, Them, Their, Sir Bitch Relationship Status: open Join Date: Sep 2016 Location: Great White North! Posts: 4,332 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,812 Thanked 4,705 Times in 1,604 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	Fear of abandonment--Big Time. Finally able to let go of control, but also can grab it back when necessary.

04-19-2018, 03:47 PM	#4
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,829 Times in 13,908 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	i’ve lived a tough life, i fear being judged on it.