Trans and Relationship's

Soon · 06-12-2010, 02:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Sam

This is exactly what im trying to find out to be quite honest, although i feel straight i still date within the community because i feel the women understand better and they can decide if they want to be with a transguy or not.

Liam, i get the fluctuating within the community. I try to stay connected.

So, you choose femmes b/c they understand YOU better.

Don't femmes have inherent qualities that stand alone and distinct from their potential of understanding transmen?

I'm not trying to come off with snark; I just would like to know what it is about queer femmes that transguys are attracted to that doesn't have anything to do with themselves.

Removing the potential *understanding* that queer femmes may have for transmen, aren't they different and attractive in ways that a straight woman is not?

Dylan · 06-12-2010, 02:15 PM

And to think

I wondered if I could/should participate in the thread, since I'm not single and the question was posed to single transmen

Dylan

Sam · 06-12-2010, 02:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Dylan

And to think

I wondered if I could/should participate in the thread, since I'm not single and the question was posed to single transmen

Dylan

Ok so i should have left out "single" my mistake.

Dylan · 06-12-2010, 02:34 PM

June,

Fragile is definitely not a word I would use to describe you.

I just find it interesting that out of nine posts on a question posed to transmen in a trans thread, three of the responses are by cispeople, and two of the posts are asking for explanations while the other one talks about how cispeople feel about trans people in queer space.

It's Just Ironic To Me Especially When Added To The Fact That I Asked The OP If It Would Be Out Of Line If I (as a coupled transperson) Was Welcome To Post,
Dylan

Sam · 06-12-2010, 02:35 PM

Im sorry for singling out transguys, it was not my intention.

And this is a community and EVERYONE is welcome in this conversation

Dylan be nice lol

sometimes threads heat up, sometimes they die off. im sick of having this conversation with a one sided lesbian that is NOT on the planet but texts me off the wall cause i was interested in HER ex. and i just need input here.

thread is open to EVERYONE. keep it clean

"HowSoonIsNow" i like snarkieness. bring it on.

Liam · 06-12-2010, 02:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Sam

im sick of having this conversation with a one sided lesbian that is NOT on the planet but texts me off the wall cause i was interested in HER ex.

Gosh Sam, block her, no one needs that kind of negativity in their life!

Soon · 06-12-2010, 02:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Sam

"HowSoonIsNow" i like snarkieness. bring it on.

I really don't do snark. So, no, I won't be bringing any!

I asked the question with sincerity.

Apologies for posting in a thread that was not asking for my opinion--I usually read closer and don't intrude upon others' spaces. I blame it on not reading the OP closely enough, then seeing June's post and, mostly, my own compulsion to post when I read your words about femmes understanding you better than straight women and the fact that I have wondered about this subject myself.

Thank you, Sam, for responding to my question/post.

Sam · 06-12-2010, 02:44 PM

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Originally Posted by HowSoonIsNow

I really don't do snark. So, no, I won't be bringing any!

I asked the question with sincerity.

Apologies for posting in a thread that was not asking for my opinion--I usually read closer and don't intrude upon others' spaces. I blame it on not reading the OP closely enough, then seeing June's post and, mostly, my own compulsion to post when I read your words about femmes understanding you better than straight women and the fact that I have wondered about this subject myself.

Thank you, Sam, for responding to my question/post.

You can post here anytime. i like the difference of opinions, that is what makes us unique.

i know you were sincere, i just went on with the snark comment. im sorry. didnt mean to offend you

Sam · 06-12-2010, 02:24 PM

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Originally Posted by HowSoonIsNow

I'm not trying to come off with snark; I just would like to know what it is about queer femmes that transguys are attracted to that doesn't have anything to do with themselves.

I cannot speak for anyone except myself, i date and have relationships with femme's because that is who i am attracted to. High Maintenance, girlie girl type women.

Opposing the question to dating within the community, lol i usually get told to leave the "lesbian" community alone and go out and find a straight woman.

Then im told that i "look" too male. So i best get moving on.

I chuckle to myself, cause these are tweeners that have issues and like to cause drama.

I just want to live my life, keep friends and tread lightly with the community.

06-12-2010, 02:15 PM	#2
Dylan Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Permanently Banned 10/2010 Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: She thinks all my jokes are corny Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Great State O' Posts: 880 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,027 Thanked 1,838 Times in 500 Posts Rep Power: 0	And to think I wondered if I could/should participate in the thread, since I'm not single and the question was posed to single transmen Dylan

06-12-2010, 02:34 PM	#4
Dylan Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Permanently Banned 10/2010 Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: She thinks all my jokes are corny Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Great State O' Posts: 880 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,027 Thanked 1,838 Times in 500 Posts Rep Power: 0	June, Fragile is definitely not a word I would use to describe you. I just find it interesting that out of nine posts on a question posed to transmen in a trans thread, three of the responses are by cispeople, and two of the posts are asking for explanations while the other one talks about how cispeople feel about trans people in queer space. It's Just Ironic To Me Especially When Added To The Fact That I Asked The OP If It Would Be Out Of Line If I (as a coupled transperson) Was Welcome To Post, Dylan

06-12-2010, 02:35 PM	#5
Sam Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Permanently Banned 2/11/2011 Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: I'll let you know Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 1,131 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,101 Thanked 668 Times in 363 Posts Rep Power: 0	Im sorry for singling out transguys, it was not my intention. And this is a community and EVERYONE is welcome in this conversation Dylan be nice lol sometimes threads heat up, sometimes they die off. im sick of having this conversation with a one sided lesbian that is NOT on the planet but texts me off the wall cause i was interested in HER ex. and i just need input here. thread is open to EVERYONE. keep it clean "HowSoonIsNow" i like snarkieness. bring it on.