A Community Request

Nat · 06-17-2010, 12:00 PM

A fluffer is a sort of stage hand (or mouth) - for porn. A person whose job is to keep the actors from going soft between scenes (or while they are waiting their turn). At least that's my impression.

Fancy · 06-17-2010, 12:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Nat

A fluffer is a sort of stage hand (or mouth) - for porn. A person whose job is to keep the actors from going soft between scenes (or while they are waiting their turn). At least that's my impression).

OMG I had no idea.

And all this time I was imagining reheating (fluffing) the clothes in the dryer.

Ryobi · 06-17-2010, 12:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Nat

A fluffer is a sort of stage hand (or mouth) - for porn. A person whose job is to keep the actors from going soft between scenes (or while they are waiting their turn). At least that's my impression).

I can assure you, they aren't stagehands but, you are right about what a fluffer's "job" is.

Gemme · 06-17-2010, 03:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Nat

A fluffer is a sort of stage hand (or mouth) - for porn. A person whose job is to keep the actors from going soft between scenes (or while they are waiting their turn). At least that's my impression.

Yep. Gotta keep those boys upright and tight!

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Originally Posted by Dude

maybeee instead of warnings, posting offenders could be given a blank screen with
a Tony Orlando and Dawn medley to simmah them down with. I say a half hour on repeat just might do the trick.

William Hung? That would cure me.

Random · 06-17-2010, 03:50 PM

A couple years ago Eve used her apt as an analagy and it sort of stuck with me.. (I'm incredibly protective of my home space)

There are people who wait at the door while you grab your purse, there are people who come in a sit on the sofa, there are people who can get something from the fridge, and then there are the people who can lay on your bed...

With me... If you try to go from waiting at the door to sitting on my bed while I put my shoes on without doing th work.. Well, that's going to get you being met at the movies and not being even invited to my house..

For me.. it's all about stages and respecting someone's space...

Gemme · 06-17-2010, 04:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Random

A couple years ago Eve used her apt as an analagy and it sort of stuck with me.. (I'm incredibly protective of my home space)

There are people who wait at the door while you grab your purse, there are people who come in a sit on the sofa, there are people who can get something from the fridge, and then there are the people who can lay on your bed...

With me... If you try to go from waiting at the door to sitting on my bed while I put my shoes on without doing th work.. Well, that's going to get you being met at the movies and not being even invited to my house..

For me.. it's all about stages and respecting someone's space...

I've given out too much rep again, so I can't rep this to you privately (and I was going to say something anyway, soo....)....

I love this analogy. Thank you and Eve for it. The physical space may only be a few yards but for every yard someone would get closer to me, there is quite likely weeks or possibly months of familiarity behind it.

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Random Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: back in the land of trees and snow Posts: 2,072 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,017 Thanked 5,327 Times in 1,378 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	A couple years ago Eve used her apt as an analagy and it sort of stuck with me.. (I'm incredibly protective of my home space) There are people who wait at the door while you grab your purse, there are people who come in a sit on the sofa, there are people who can get something from the fridge, and then there are the people who can lay on your bed... With me... If you try to go from waiting at the door to sitting on my bed while I put my shoes on without doing th work.. Well, that's going to get you being met at the movies and not being even invited to my house.. For me.. it's all about stages and respecting someone's space... __________________ ~Volunteer~ "It gets in your blood"