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Old 06-23-2010, 02:32 PM   #1
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Dear Belle

Please keep us posted on your babie's recovery. She's is so lucky to have such a loving Mommie!!!

Will be keeping her in my thoughts and prayers for a swift recovery and home to you as soon as possible..
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If it makes you feel better, make arrangements to go visit one time right after her surgery just so that you can see for yourself that she is doing okay after the surgery. The separation will likely be harder on you than it is on her, as she will get lots of loving.
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Please keep us posted on your babie's recovery. She's is so lucky to have such a loving Mommie!!!

Will be keeping her in my thoughts and prayers for a swift recovery and home to you as soon as possible..
Thank you sweet Abigail. I will keep you posted. Thank you for keeping us in your prayers.
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If it makes you feel better, make arrangements to go visit one time right after her surgery just so that you can see for yourself that she is doing okay after the surgery. The separation will likely be harder on you than it is on her, as she will get lots of loving.
I believe you are right Tranzman, I don't think i could stand it not knowing if she was ok. That week I will probably post a lot I'm assuming there will be little sleep...lol. Thanks for your thoughts.
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Belle~

One more thing about Shitzu's you may or may not know. They are prone to kidney problems. We learned this the hard way when ours ended up having to have a stint put in his kidney.

I will be keeping you and Bella in my prayers
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One more thing about Shitzu's you may or may not know. They are prone to kidney problems. We learned this the hard way when ours ended up having to have a stint put in his kidney.

I will be keeping you and Bella in my prayers
I believe i did read that prior to adopting her but honestly hadn't thought any more about it. Thanks for that. I will keep watch on it. I am a nurse but i'll tell you, just like with my kids, when a sickness hits home, it is terrifying no matter what the training. Thank you for your sweet thoughts.
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BFF...this is going to be harder on you than it is on her. She will be scared for a little while until she gets use to the sounds and smells, but her purpose there will happen, and then she will be sedated and her recovery will stretch out the hours until she can come home to you.

I agree with Random about separation not being a bad thing. When my daughter was little and in preschool, oh she tantrumed when I dropped her off. She didnt want me to go. The teacher finally had to take my arm and pull me out of the room because I was so caught in my daughter's tears. The teacher said the same thing...my daughter had to learn I was going to come back. And the only way you can teach that was to leave and then, come back.

I have started a little prayer book...it stays on my alter until I begin the prayers of the day. You and Bella will be in it today...
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BFF...this is going to be harder on you than it is on her. She will be scared for a little while until she gets use to the sounds and smells, but her purpose there will happen, and then she will be sedated and her recovery will stretch out the hours until she can come home to you.

I agree with Random about separation not being a bad thing. When my daughter was little and in preschool, oh she tantrumed when I dropped her off. She didnt want me to go. The teacher finally had to take my arm and pull me out of the room because I was so caught in my daughter's tears. The teacher said the same thing...my daughter had to learn I was going to come back. And the only way you can teach that was to leave and then, come back.

I have started a little prayer book...it stays on my alter until I begin the prayers of the day. You and Bella will be in it today...
Love to you BFF and boy do i miss you. I guess some of us are just harder with the seperation thing than others huh. I did the same when my oldest went to kindergarden the first day, I hung out in the hall and finally the teacher asked me to leave. I guess I've always had these issues. LOL.

Anyway, thanks to you and your prayer book. Means so much to me. Love you honey....
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Princess have the surgery. My little one she is 2 years old had her spay at like 6 months old and she was fine, had pain meds and everything. I know that it will be hard but you have to be strong for the furbaby. I have two dogs and I love them to death. I would do anything for them!! I will keep you in my prayers as well as your little one
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Princess have the surgery. My little one she is 2 years old had her spay at like 6 months old and she was fine, had pain meds and everything. I know that it will be hard but you have to be strong for the furbaby. I have two dogs and I love them to death. I would do anything for them!! I will keep you in my prayers as well as your little one
Lipstixgal, thank you for your words of encouragement. I will do whatever i have to do for her. That is my number one priority no matter how many life years it takes from her momma. lol. Thanks for keeping us in your prayers....
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Love to you also, BFF! I wasnt around because my puter was having work done on it. I am back now...

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Love to you BFF and boy do i miss you. I guess some of us are just harder with the seperation thing than others huh. I did the same when my oldest went to kindergarden the first day, I hung out in the hall and finally the teacher asked me to leave. I guess I've always had these issues. LOL.

Anyway, thanks to you and your prayer book. Means so much to me. Love you honey....
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:laughing: Well hopefully you will refrain from chewing up the furniture when your baby is away. lol Separation anxiety is painful and can be expensive. - Jesse

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I am sorry to hear that your pup needs this surgery, but I will tell you from past experience, its well worth it.

I had a chow/collie mix who suffered from the same thing and it was just miserable for him until the surgery.

Recovery was really minimal, albeit he was a much larger/older pup than yours. The only one issue I can remember was the halo knocking about the house.

Best to you - I am sure she will be fine.
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Very very true. I'm imaginning that her chew toys will come in handy while she is away. LOL.
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princessbelle,

I do understand your concerns. Keep in mind that puppies are incredibly resilient. Remind yourself you are doing what is best for her.

Keep us posted on how she is doing ... and try to stay away from her chewy toys! *grin*

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I do understand your concerns. Keep in mind that puppies are incredibly resilient. Remind yourself you are doing what is best for her.

Keep us posted on how she is doing ... and try to stay away from her chewy toys! *grin*

Prayers to the Good Spirit for both of you.
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Brock, your words profide me much comfort. I like to the idea they are resilient. You are right. I have to remind myself she is a puppy. Gosh I just love her so much. Maybe I'll just buy myself some animal crackers and wait to get my manicure that week until AFTER she comes home.

Thank you so much.
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