The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over.

Luckydwg07 · 06-28-2010, 06:43 PM

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Originally Posted by ruthie14

I am such an idiot. Apparently I have trouble figuring out if someone is interested in me or not. Been dating this one woman... told me she was interested.. Asked me for dates... flirted.. etc etc.. now she tells me she is not "ready for a relationship". Is she? or is she just NOT interested. We found each other on a dating site for heavens sake. WTF... do I have a sign on my head? Having a stiff drink. My head says its her issue... but the rest of me is thinking there is something wrong with me. I give up.

I've met you Ruthie.....aint nothin wrong with you girl

Some people are just punks Ruthie & don't know their own mind or they are leading people on by have several to pick from the online dating pool and thinks its one of those bachelor shows on tv. Just plain rude!!

ruthie14 · 06-28-2010, 06:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Luckydwg07

I've met you Ruthie.....aint nothin wrong with you girl

Some people are just punks Ruthie & don't know their own mind or they are leading people on by have several to pick from the online dating pool and thinks its one of those bachelor shows on tv. Just plain rude!!

You have no idea how much I needed to hear that tonight. Feeling pretty blue.

Thanks honey

MysticOceansFL · 06-28-2010, 06:53 PM

Just dropping bye to say hello and that I hope everyone is having a great week!

cuddlyfemme · 06-28-2010, 06:55 PM

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Originally Posted by ruthie14

You have no idea how much I needed to hear that tonight. Feeling pretty blue.

Thanks honey

(((((Ruthie))))))

Wryly · 06-28-2010, 07:00 PM

Hey all!
It was a fun and busy weekend - just now able to get on a computer.
Weekend in the country - visiting old friends and making a bunch of new ones. Lots of laughs around the fire. good times.

Ruthie - I know how you feel. It seems I can never figure out what the heck is going on! I hope things work out for you.

06-28-2010, 06:53 PM	#3
MysticOceansFL Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch, Preferred Pronoun?: People call me by my nic name. Relationship Status: Not Single, Not Desperate. Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Florida Posts: 3,833 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,645 Thanked 4,033 Times in 1,720 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	Dropping bye Just dropping bye to say hello and that I hope everyone is having a great week!

06-28-2010, 07:00 PM	#5
Wryly Member How Do You Identify?: bemused butch Preferred Pronoun?: polite ones, please Relationship Status: single butch Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: my little butch house Posts: 988 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,789 Thanked 1,568 Times in 620 Posts Rep Power: 14094254	Hey all! It was a fun and busy weekend - just now able to get on a computer. Weekend in the country - visiting old friends and making a bunch of new ones. Lots of laughs around the fire. good times. Ruthie - I know how you feel. It seems I can never figure out what the heck is going on! I hope things work out for you.