The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over.

ruthie14 · 06-29-2010, 04:12 AM

Thanks folks.. Idk.. I thought we were hitting it off. I questioned her bc her words and her actions were telling me 2 different things. Anyway.. onward. *shrug*

Anybody have any career ideas? I need to change what I am doing. I don't make enough and I am 48 ... need to start trying to save something. Everything I have been able to come up with in the last 2 years either takes too much college... too hard on my back... don't have an apptitude for.. or there is no job market for. I need to figure out something soon. Thanks.

lipstixgal · 06-29-2010, 05:03 AM

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Originally Posted by ruthie14

Thanks folks.. Idk.. I thought we were hitting it off. I questioned her bc her words and her actions were telling me 2 different things. Anyway.. onward. *shrug*

Anybody have any career ideas? I need to change what I am doing. I don't make enough and I am 48 ... need to start trying to save something. Everything I have been able to come up with in the last 2 years either takes too much college... too hard on my back... don't have an apptitude for.. or there is no job market for. I need to figure out something soon. Thanks.

RUTHIE, there is a job market in healthcare. Nursing, medical assistant like I did and should have done nursing instead!! Will go back after I graduate from school want to make some money first. but you can't go wrong with the healthcare field its booming, just my .02 cents worth. Anyway, good morning lofters have a great day everyone!! sets out tea

and coffee

06-29-2010, 05:21 AM

G'day Lofters one and all.

I hope everyone had a fantastic weekend, there's been some proper sunshine and temperatures here in the UK for the last couple of weeks so Mrs.Incubus and I have spent the weekend whipping the garden back into shape and enjoying getting nekkid in the sun - the most enjoyable way of getting one's vitamin D!

Oooooh the vagaries of dating, keep kissing frogs Ruthie because eventually you'll find a lovely froggy to share a lily pad with.

Andrew, Jr. · 06-29-2010, 11:55 AM

Good Afternoon All!

I hope everyone is enjoying themselves today. I just wanted to jump on by here and say hello.

Ruthie,

Please ignore that person. You are a gem! Never forget that. Some lucky guy will be thrilled to have you on his arm!

Andrew

miss entycing · 06-29-2010, 12:08 PM

afternoon everyone

got home safe and sound from the cross country drive to Seattle...
tired, road weary and emotionally drained, but no speeding tickets, not sure how that happened, lol..... !
(have I mentioned how much I LOVEEEEE my new Camaro?)

hope everyone has been doing well, and has had a good past week-

Rockinonahigh · 06-29-2010, 03:46 PM

Afternoon everyone,hope ur day is going well.IT"S raining hear....yes!!! Every sence last night its been thundering,lightning,blowing wind and feels so good standing out in.Yep,I did that..even my fur kids injoyed a walk in the rain.

ruthie...I know how u feel about the probs in dateing as well as ppl showing one thing and saying another,we have all had this happen in one way or another.Beleave me finding out now is better than later.

cuddlyfemme · 06-29-2010, 04:03 PM

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Originally Posted by EntycingFemme

afternoon everyone

got home safe and sound from the cross country drive to Seattle...
tired, road weary and emotionally drained, but no speeding tickets, not sure how that happened, lol..... !
(have I mentioned how much I LOVEEEEE my new Camaro?)

hope everyone has been doing well, and has had a good past week-

hey sweetie, its great to see you back. i know what you mean about loving your new camaro...i love it too lol

ruthie14 · 06-29-2010, 05:14 PM

ok ... "She" and i had left it as friends right. So today I invite her to a 4th of July party I'm having on Sat. She turns me down, so I ask her... we are still gonna see each other as friends yes? She gets sarcastic... mean actually... and NO not friends. Really? she was the one who wanted to be friends again... OMG .. She was hurtful.. I am better off without her.. but ouch.. it still hurts. I am having trouble with "this" version of her and the one I saw the rest of the time. Dodged a bullet for sure.. Jeeze I sure can pick them.

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ruthie14 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,904 Thanked 1,245 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 5946335	Thanks folks.. Idk.. I thought we were hitting it off. I questioned her bc her words and her actions were telling me 2 different things. Anyway.. onward. shrug Anybody have any career ideas? I need to change what I am doing. I don't make enough and I am 48 ... need to start trying to save something. Everything I have been able to come up with in the last 2 years either takes too much college... too hard on my back... don't have an apptitude for.. or there is no job market for. I need to figure out something soon. Thanks.

06-29-2010, 05:21 AM	#3
Daktari Guest Tournaments Won: 1 Posts: n/a My Photo Gallery	G'day Lofters one and all. I hope everyone had a fantastic weekend, there's been some proper sunshine and temperatures here in the UK for the last couple of weeks so Mrs.Incubus and I have spent the weekend whipping the garden back into shape and enjoying getting nekkid in the sun - the most enjoyable way of getting one's vitamin D! Oooooh the vagaries of dating, keep kissing frogs Ruthie because eventually you'll find a lovely froggy to share a lily pad with.

06-29-2010, 11:55 AM	#4
Andrew, Jr. Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Me Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Unavailable Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Over the Rainbow in a House Posts: 5,072 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,004 Thanked 5,249 Times in 2,216 Posts Rep Power: 0	Good Afternoon All! I hope everyone is enjoying themselves today. I just wanted to jump on by here and say hello. Ruthie, Please ignore that person. You are a gem! Never forget that. Some lucky guy will be thrilled to have you on his arm! Andrew

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Rockinonahigh Senior Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: makes no diffrence,I know who I am. Relationship Status: single,maybe looking if the right person comes along. Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: shreveport,Louisiana Posts: 4,907 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,682 Thanked 14,933 Times in 3,938 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Afternoon everyone,hope ur day is going well.IT"S raining hear....yes!!! Every sence last night its been thundering,lightning,blowing wind and feels so good standing out in.Yep,I did that..even my fur kids injoyed a walk in the rain. ruthie...I know how u feel about the probs in dateing as well as ppl showing one thing and saying another,we have all had this happen in one way or another.Beleave me finding out now is better than later.

06-29-2010, 05:14 PM	#8
ruthie14 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,904 Thanked 1,245 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 5946335	ok ... "She" and i had left it as friends right. So today I invite her to a 4th of July party I'm having on Sat. She turns me down, so I ask her... we are still gonna see each other as friends yes? She gets sarcastic... mean actually... and NO not friends. Really? she was the one who wanted to be friends again... OMG .. She was hurtful.. I am better off without her.. but ouch.. it still hurts. I am having trouble with "this" version of her and the one I saw the rest of the time. Dodged a bullet for sure.. Jeeze I sure can pick them.