The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over.

WickedFemme · 07-01-2010, 03:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Rockinonahigh

Boy have I ever been there,the last time I was at the gbar(the only place hear to meet anyone) I could have been the mom or grandma of nearly everyone in the building..talk about feeling out of place. One of them even had the stupidy to ask if I was in the wrong gbar..nasty little wench.I have dated younger but it never worked,if anyone my age wants to date younger is all there is hear to go out with.U bet im not a stand in till something better comes around.

yikes! I don't even bother with those places anymore... however, If I were single - I am in a better place geographically. I don't much care nor am I even attracted to anyone under the age of 45, I don't care how 'hawt' they think they are - I just can't relate at all nor do I find them physically appealing. I love my butch who is two years older than I - totally hot, mature and always has something to contribute to a conversation.
I hope you find someone

I wish everyone a happy and safe Holiday weekend

Rockinonahigh · 07-01-2010, 03:46 PM

W.F.
Once and a while I get together with friends who still like to go to the gbars when the drag queens are puting on a good show,other than that I stay out of them...to much drama.The way I look at it is if Mrs.Right dose come along she will have to swat me hard to get my attention cause after all ive delt with in dateing im not to shure I would know an honest possablity.

lipstixgal · 07-01-2010, 05:02 PM

Well I did some cleaning today, the guy came around to see the god damn tags for the town. I hate this town Hasbrouck Hts, NJ it is so conservative!! Anyway, I found them and put them on the damn dogs collars so now if they get lost the town can find them and return them to me!! yeah!!

07-02-2010, 04:09 AM

Good morning lovely loft folks.

It's a big day today. Mrs.Incubus is having her long curls chopped off. I'm in mourning already. I know why she needs to do it and understand entirely - a combination of stresses and strains over the last couple of years have left her with thin patches at the back because she's losing too much hair.

When we first met she had started growing her hair out and she had 'pom pom' hair (anyone with naturally curly hair will get that one) but over the last nigh on 4yrs it's grown to be down to her waist. I've always loved her long curls and am rather nervous of her coming home later looking like someone different.

I hope all you sleep heads have a wonderful day once you're up and around!

ruthie14 · 07-02-2010, 04:17 AM

When we first met she had started growing her hair out and she had 'pom pom' hair (anyone with naturally curly hair will get that one) but over the last nigh on 4yrs it's grown to be down to her waist. I've always loved her long curls and am rather nervous of her coming home later looking like someone different.

Hey Incubus.. I went to get a trim and ended of with short hair (not what I asked for) about 5 weeks ago. I hated it at first, but I love it so much now that I went back last night to the same guy and got a trim. Short hair can be cute on a femme.. I know what you mean though. Just look in her eyes, and you will see her as she has always been. She is being very brave. I hope she is ok.

Hope everyone has a great weekend!

Ruthie

07-02-2010, 04:53 AM

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Originally Posted by ruthie14

When we first met she had started growing her hair out and she had 'pom pom' hair (anyone with naturally curly hair will get that one) but over the last nigh on 4yrs it's grown to be down to her waist. I've always loved her long curls and am rather nervous of her coming home later looking like someone different.

Hey Incubus.. I went to get a trim and ended of with short hair (not what I asked for) about 5 weeks ago. I hated it at first, but I love it so much now that I went back last night to the same guy and got a trim. Short hair can be cute on a femme.. I know what you mean though. Just look in her eyes, and you will see her as she has always been. She is being very brave. I hope she is ok.

Hope everyone has a great weekend!

Ruthie

Thank you for that Ruthie.

I think she's ok, she was being very brave when she left this morning.

I know femmes do indeed look gorgeous with short hair; length of hair does not a femme make. Before we met she'd had short 'elfin' type hair and in the pictures from that time she does look fabulous. She will still be my beautiful baby girl and as long as there's just a little something to grab hold of when she's being a naughty girl I'll be a happy bunny

I hope you have a lovely day Ruthie.

morningstar55 · 07-02-2010, 05:08 AM

Good Morning Loft dwellers

im sorry i been kinda neglectful , been taking a bit of a break from the internet well a lil bit.. lol ..... peeking in on my emails and such........
im not playing farmville or farmtown ...... havnt for months now.. just got burnt out on it...
although i still do love playing the scrabble games...... love the word games..

hair..... well mine is short use to be long... miss my long hair.. i dont mind it short these days..... but like it long enough for a lil grabbin meself.. * eg* lol

anyways. im spending another weekend at home.... wooHOOo..... lol
and face painting again this weekend....... omg.. the extra bucks have been a huge blessing.. monday i'll be bk on the road again..
have a great weekend eveyone.. in case i dont get bk here..... LOL
i have been checkin in on FB ...... lol ......... ttfn

07-02-2010, 05:08 AM	#7
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,240 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	Good Morning Loft dwellers im sorry i been kinda neglectful , been taking a bit of a break from the internet well a lil bit.. lol ..... peeking in on my emails and such........ im not playing farmville or farmtown ...... havnt for months now.. just got burnt out on it... although i still do love playing the scrabble games...... love the word games.. hair..... well mine is short use to be long... miss my long hair.. i dont mind it short these days..... but like it long enough for a lil grabbin meself.. * eg* lol anyways. im spending another weekend at home.... wooHOOo..... lol and face painting again this weekend....... omg.. the extra bucks have been a huge blessing.. monday i'll be bk on the road again.. have a great weekend eveyone.. in case i dont get bk here..... LOL i have been checkin in on FB ...... lol ......... ttfn __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

07-01-2010, 03:46 PM	#2
Rockinonahigh Senior Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: makes no diffrence,I know who I am. Relationship Status: single,maybe looking if the right person comes along. Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: shreveport,Louisiana Posts: 4,907 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,682 Thanked 14,933 Times in 3,938 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	W.F. Once and a while I get together with friends who still like to go to the gbars when the drag queens are puting on a good show,other than that I stay out of them...to much drama.The way I look at it is if Mrs.Right dose come along she will have to swat me hard to get my attention cause after all ive delt with in dateing im not to shure I would know an honest possablity.

07-01-2010, 05:02 PM	#3
lipstixgal Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: coupled Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: New Jersey Posts: 3,028 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 201 Thanked 1,690 Times in 1,064 Posts Rep Power: 1494761	Well I did some cleaning today, the guy came around to see the god damn tags for the town. I hate this town Hasbrouck Hts, NJ it is so conservative!! Anyway, I found them and put them on the damn dogs collars so now if they get lost the town can find them and return them to me!! yeah!!

07-02-2010, 04:09 AM	#4
Daktari Guest Tournaments Won: 1 Posts: n/a My Photo Gallery	Good morning lovely loft folks. It's a big day today. Mrs.Incubus is having her long curls chopped off. I'm in mourning already. I know why she needs to do it and understand entirely - a combination of stresses and strains over the last couple of years have left her with thin patches at the back because she's losing too much hair. When we first met she had started growing her hair out and she had 'pom pom' hair (anyone with naturally curly hair will get that one) but over the last nigh on 4yrs it's grown to be down to her waist. I've always loved her long curls and am rather nervous of her coming home later looking like someone different. I hope all you sleep heads have a wonderful day once you're up and around!

07-02-2010, 04:17 AM	#5
ruthie14 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,904 Thanked 1,245 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 5946335	When we first met she had started growing her hair out and she had 'pom pom' hair (anyone with naturally curly hair will get that one) but over the last nigh on 4yrs it's grown to be down to her waist. I've always loved her long curls and am rather nervous of her coming home later looking like someone different. Hey Incubus.. I went to get a trim and ended of with short hair (not what I asked for) about 5 weeks ago. I hated it at first, but I love it so much now that I went back last night to the same guy and got a trim. Short hair can be cute on a femme.. I know what you mean though. Just look in her eyes, and you will see her as she has always been. She is being very brave. I hope she is ok. Hope everyone has a great weekend! Ruthie