The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over.

Rockinonahigh · 07-03-2010, 11:03 AM

Morning lofters,happy 4th to u all.Not doing much at the momnet but laundry and watching syfy.Im feeling sort of poorly with a case of bactreial infartion in my guts and antibiotice bout to do me in...how I got this I will never know..no fun .

naturlover_52 · 07-03-2010, 04:00 PM

Sorry that you aren't feeling well Rock...Yes stomach stuff can be the worst. What a way to spend the holiday.
I am just here at home Just woke up from a nap a bit ago...was doing some cleaning in the yard and my back started bothering me. I have a disk in my low back that is degenerating...which causes pain.
Take care all and have a great week end.

lipstixgal · 07-03-2010, 04:25 PM

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Originally Posted by naturlover_52

Sorry that you aren't feeling well Rock...Yes stomach stuff can be the worst. What a way to spend the holiday.
I am just here at home Just woke up from a nap a bit ago...was doing some cleaning in the yard and my back started bothering me. I have a disk in my low back that is degenerating...which causes pain.
Take care all and have a great week end.

Sorry you are having back pain any kind of pain can be an annoyance for sure, feel better soon.

dark_crystal · 07-03-2010, 07:01 PM

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Originally Posted by ruthie14

Morning everyone..
Doing something nice for myself everyday to boost my spirits. Dyed my hair last night.. Get a hair cut tonight... etc etc. Little things.. but they help. Planning a party for this weekend... Will be fun.

that is a wonderful idea Ruthie...i should try it

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Originally Posted by Legendryder

Well, I am a 46 yo single Butch. And I plan on staying single. I do not have time to put into what is required to have a good and stable relationship. Trying to have one would not be fair to either party. So, I just do not date, and have not for almost 8 years. Until I am finished with my schooling, however long that takes, and am into a solid working enviornment, it is not going to happen. I am happy with what I am doing, and it have given me an opportunity to really learn myself, and there is just nothing wrong with that. Besides, I have Bob. He is more than a handful anyhow.

i know how you feel...i am taking some time off too and working with a counselor to try and leave behind some of the baggage i have been carrying...maybe in a year or so i will be fit for human consumption lol

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Originally Posted by Wryly

Looks like I'm going to be on the road again this weekend - going to pick my sister up from her visit and then I'm taking a nephew to one of Toronto's northern suburbs.

you are always runnin around all over the place!!!!

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Originally Posted by lipstixgal

Hi Incubus, how is your day going?? Is it evening there yet across the pond?? I have been going for the younger women at least that is what has been coming my way in the last couple of months. Its nice to know that even if you are in your 50's you can still get women younger then yourself. I, Myself am in my 50's but look about 35 so maybe that is why!! Anyway, going to get a tad of coffee for the afternoon and a bite to eat too. tummy rumble.[/I]

i just turned 40 in May but i am soooooo not interested in anyone younger than me and prefer at least ten years older...however ppl say i look about 25 and if i date a 50y/o butch ppl usually think i'm the daughter lol...but i think that is kinda good b/c you can get away with a lot more pda that way lol

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Originally Posted by Rockinonahigh

W.F.
Once and a while I get together with friends who still like to go to the gbars when the drag queens are puting on a good show,other than that I stay out of them...to much drama.The way I look at it is if Mrs.Right dose come along she will have to swat me hard to get my attention cause after all ive delt with in dateing im not to shure I would know an honest possablity.

i like to DANCE so i would still go to bars if anyone would take me

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Originally Posted by lipstixgal

Well I did some cleaning today, the guy came around to see the god damn tags for the town. I hate this town Hasbrouck Hts, NJ it is so conservative!! Anyway, I found them and put them on the damn dogs collars so now if they get lost the town can find them and return them to me!! yeah!!

my poor 16 y/o doggie had to get a baf and mani/pedi today...him going to spend the night wif his grandparents tomorrow so him need to be at his best!

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Originally Posted by Incubus

It's a big day today. Mrs.Incubus is having her long curls chopped off. I'm in mourning already.

i am contemplating a radical chop job...my hair is thick and wavy and to my waist...i am considering something along the lines of the flapper bob? you know what i mean? look at my photos and tell me what ya'll think, ebberyone...

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Originally Posted by Cowboi

Good Morning!!! Happy 4th to all. Have a fun, safe weekend!!

Happy 4th Cowboi!!!! Same to you!

Rockinonahigh · 07-03-2010, 07:36 PM

I still injoy a night out at the gbar,just not fond of not haveing as much fun as I once did.The place had some of the best queens around for a show twice a week..now not so much,either they got tired of it,got run off for not meeting the standard of the head queen or found a better place to be.If I had someone to go out with I to, would go out more than I do...ever come to Shereveport?? Or I could add wherever u r inTexas to my travel plands after im done with the back surgery or what ever they do with it.
This intestinal thing I have is better but now the doc has taken me off all the meds till I see him monday morning..the antibiotics were giveing me a prob I dont need.

Jet · 07-03-2010, 08:16 PM

Just had dinner awhile ago, and I'm watching Edge of Darkness for about the 4th time.

no plans for the 4th.

Have a good one.

friskyfemme · 07-03-2010, 10:48 PM

Hello Lofters,

Hope you have a great weekend!

Cowboi · 07-04-2010, 06:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Rockinonahigh

I still injoy a night out at the gbar,just not fond of not haveing as much fun as I once did.The place had some of the best queens around for a show twice a week..now not so much,either they got tired of it,got run off for not meeting the standard of the head queen or found a better place to be.If I had someone to go out with I to, would go out more than I do...ever come to Shereveport?? Or I could add wherever u r inTexas to my travel plands after im done with the back surgery or what ever they do with it.
This intestinal thing I have is better but now the doc has taken me off all the meds till I see him monday morning..the antibiotics were giveing me a prob I dont need.

I live in Monroe. I wouldnt mind getting together with some folks to hang out!!!

07-03-2010, 04:00 PM	#2
naturlover_52 Member How Do You Identify?: soft butch/bi Preferred Pronoun?: she and her are just fine....Sweetcheeks hey you Relationship Status: seeing someone long distance but soon will be both in Ca love her very much Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: So Calif East San Gabrielle Valley aka the land of shake and bake Posts: 108 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 85 Thanked 89 Times in 44 Posts Rep Power: 3426	loft Sorry that you aren't feeling well Rock...Yes stomach stuff can be the worst. What a way to spend the holiday. I am just here at home Just woke up from a nap a bit ago...was doing some cleaning in the yard and my back started bothering me. I have a disk in my low back that is degenerating...which causes pain. Take care all and have a great week end.

07-03-2010, 07:36 PM	#5
Rockinonahigh Senior Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: makes no diffrence,I know who I am. Relationship Status: single,maybe looking if the right person comes along. Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: shreveport,Louisiana Posts: 4,907 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,682 Thanked 14,933 Times in 3,938 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	D.C. I still injoy a night out at the gbar,just not fond of not haveing as much fun as I once did.The place had some of the best queens around for a show twice a week..now not so much,either they got tired of it,got run off for not meeting the standard of the head queen or found a better place to be.If I had someone to go out with I to, would go out more than I do...ever come to Shereveport?? Or I could add wherever u r inTexas to my travel plands after im done with the back surgery or what ever they do with it. This intestinal thing I have is better but now the doc has taken me off all the meds till I see him monday morning..the antibiotics were giveing me a prob I dont need.

07-03-2010, 10:48 PM	#7
friskyfemme Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: precious Relationship Status: down to earth Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Arizona Posts: 332 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 395 Thanked 370 Times in 152 Posts Rep Power: 828	Hello Lofters, Hope you have a great weekend! __________________ Love and Light, FF

07-03-2010, 11:03 AM	#1
Rockinonahigh Senior Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: makes no diffrence,I know who I am. Relationship Status: single,maybe looking if the right person comes along. Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: shreveport,Louisiana Posts: 4,907 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,682 Thanked 14,933 Times in 3,938 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Morning lofters,happy 4th to u all.Not doing much at the momnet but laundry and watching syfy.Im feeling sort of poorly with a case of bactreial infartion in my guts and antibiotice bout to do me in...how I got this I will never know..no fun .

07-03-2010, 08:16 PM	#6
Jet Timed Out - TOS Drama How Do You Identify?: .. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: .. Posts: 3,471 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 292 Thanked 2,647 Times in 1,293 Posts Rep Power: 0	Just had dinner awhile ago, and I'm watching Edge of Darkness for about the 4th time. no plans for the 4th. Have a good one.