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What I wont do in a relationship or have done to me is ever expect my other half to not have a voice in the reltionship..I value what she has to say no mater where we may be in the relationship.
As for any power exchanges there is an eb and flow that we should share so not to cause the other to feel less than. Any friendshipe we have had should contenue as long as they dont cause probs with us..if so we should talk it out cause what seems one way may not be what it looks like,but if it causeing probs maybe a bit of a time out from wich ever friend for a bit to see how it works out. Things should be discused when ever it needs to be to keep healthy chanels open. As for sex,we need to be on the same page about what we want but not ever lose the ablity to go with the flow and just injoy the experence how ever it plays out.If either of us have boundries,be minfull of them. |
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Don't walk in front of me, I will not follow
Don't walk behind me, we may both get lost Walk beside me and be my equal
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never EVER poop with the door open and talking to me like we're having coffee at the breakfast bar.
it's too distracting. |
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Don't call me at work telling me how you love and adore me, then deny that you know anything about the unfamiliar cigarettes and freakin' underwear beside my bed when I get home...I don't smoke menthols, I don't wear underwear, and I wasn't born yesterday....grrrrrrrrrrrrr |
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Do not:
Never negotiate, whether it be sex or personal boundaries, future intentions, etc. Negotiation keeps everyone on the same page. Be, or expect to be, someone's world. It's too hard to live our lives as ourselves, much less carry the weight of another. Go to the bathroom in front of me. Been there, done that and it does something to the relationship that I don't like. Familiarity can breed contempt in situations like this. Do the usual deal breakers: lying, cheating, drugging, stealing, stalking, murdering, embezzling, being a controlling pompous ass, etc. |
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The best thing I have learned about relationships...and something I feel to be the most important....comprimise.
It goes a looooooooong way to keep both parties (or in some cases all parties) happy.
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Not for you.....you know that saying save a horse, ride a cowboi
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The one thing I have learned in past relationships is never give someone complete control over you. Now that being said, I am in a total power exchange relationship and my Sir has complete control over me but he earned that right. I respect him and know he will never put me in harms way. So I guess I should rephrase that to never give complete control over me without earning my complete trust first.
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please don't put the lube and the ben-gay next to each other in the nightstand.
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Sex during menses is something *I* must have! I likey the blood! OK back to GTL!
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Hey boy!!! Relationship Status:
counting freckles slowly under Her direction!!! Join Date: Nov 2009
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see this is why i am a lucky boy...dirty little fucker i am but lucky lucky lucky!!!
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