what NOT to do in a relationship.......

betenoire · 07-31-2010, 02:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tranzman

Don't expect your partner to read your mind. Communicate your needs and desires. Statements such as, "Well if you don't know why I am angry, then I certainly am not going to tell you", will not be given attention by me.

For fucking real.

And when I ask what your problem is, absolutely don't say "Forget it. I am stupid and wrong anyway." Because we have never had a conversation in which I told you that you were stupid and wrong - maybe you've had that conversation with some other girl, but don't put that shit on me.

And, plus. You know. If you refuse to tell me what your problem is I am not going to sweet-talk it out of you. All you're doing is pissing me off.

weatherboi · 07-31-2010, 02:47 PM

please do not flush my marijuana down the toilet!!!
it will do no one any good!!!

Julie · 07-31-2010, 03:08 PM

Rule Number 1: Do NOT ever let me TOP You -- It will be over!

Soft*Silver · 07-31-2010, 03:27 PM

AMEN!!! AMEN!!!! AMEN!!!!

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Originally Posted by InfiniteFemme

Rule Number 1: Do NOT ever let me TOP You -- It will be over!

violaine · 07-31-2010, 03:30 PM

forget to apologise-

Billy · 07-31-2010, 03:43 PM

I am not your ex , don't compare Me to them in any way shape or form I am My own person and I make mistakes from time to ...And I am NOT a disabled midget , I can take care of Myself just fine thank you ! Just sayin

And if you have been in jail for printing checks or you are the gate keeper to the aliens , or the crazy cat lady , or you can drink a keg by yourself befor dinner and then some please SEE THE DOOR !

betenoire · 07-31-2010, 03:46 PM

I DID NOT BECOME THE CRAZY CAT LADY INTENTIONALLY, BILLY! REPORTED!

Graham · 07-31-2010, 06:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by weatherboi

please do not flush my marijuana down the toilet!!!
it will do no one any good!!!

OMG say it ain't soooooooooooo!!!!

Gayla · 07-31-2010, 06:36 PM

There is more than one crazy cat lady. So far, I've known two and I don't think Billy and I have anyone in common.

IrishGrrl · 07-31-2010, 06:57 PM

Please do not give me a detailed run down about the amazing shit you just took.

Do not rush me to orgasm while fucking me

If I say I need time to think, please dont follow me around the house.

I dont mind harmless flirting, but DO NOT oggle other women all night

Please do not call me to talk, then go on a 20 minute spiel about something ADORABLE your cat did. Then go on for another 20 min's about your OTHER cats!

Never, EVER lie to me, even if it's gonna hurt.

If you are pissed off, or upset about something, talk about it. Passive agressive behavior will get you the boot.

Dont do the running man on the dance floor while we are out with our friends.

If you burp or fart say excuse me.

I may not act like a lady, but dont forget that I am one, and treat me accordingly

The_Lady_Snow · 07-31-2010, 07:00 PM

DO NOT introduce me as your latina girlfriend and wiggle your eyebrows at your friends.....

betenoire · 07-31-2010, 07:09 PM

Absolutely do not expect me to spend all of my spare time making words at you. Sometimes nobody has anything to say - and that is OKAY. It is fine to not have anything to talk about. But don't get upset and presume something is wrong when I can't keep up a constant stream of inane chatter.

Jesse · 07-31-2010, 07:10 PM

Do not "out" me. I don't tell folks what's in your pants, and I see no need for you to tell them what is or isn't in mine! I am 52 years old and as such am perfectly capable of outing myself to whomever I wish to be outed to.

Rockinonahigh · 07-31-2010, 07:18 PM

Do NOt play me against someone else.
or never let me catch u in our fav resturant at OUR table with some biker then tell me he was an old friend...im not stupid..esp when u 2 have been all over each other..it shows.
When we first meet,dont expect a one night stand..not my style.
Understand sex wont happen till im shure about our feelings about our relationship..I want us to get to know each other before that happends.
If u are a booze head or druggie get help or keep walking.
If u cant manage ur money dont even think about touching mine.
Be nice to my fur kids..if the good feelings are mutual fine if not bye bye.
My son is one of the most accepting persons I know who gets along with nearly every one,dont think u will ever get between us and diss either of us about the other..u will lose.
When we are dateing and arent exclusive,see anyone u want,when we are an ithem I will not be one of ur stable of studs in every town..I am not a toy boi.

Arwen · 07-31-2010, 09:21 PM

Do not use me as your emotional punching bag.
Do not expect me to make you my be-all/end-all unless you do the same for me (and then we really need to talk because that's a bit much, capiche?)
Do not drag negativity into every situation. No, the world is not out to get you.
Do not talk other people down and say things about them you wouldn't have the cajones to say to their face.
Do not refuse to talk about the important stuff.
Do not overanalyze the unimportant stuff.
Be willing to be flexible on what's unimportant and what's important.
Do not jerk me around and then expect me to be happy when you want to go out again. I'll be busy--promise.

I promise to do the same for you.

Billy · 07-31-2010, 08:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by IrishGrrl

Please do not give me a detailed run down about the amazing shit you just took.

Do not rush me to orgasm while fucking me

If I say I need time to think, please dont follow me around the house.

I dont mind harmless flirting, but DO NOT oggle other women all night

Please do not call me to talk, then go on a 20 minute spiel about something ADORABLE your cat did. Then go on for another 20 min's about your OTHER cats!

Never, EVER lie to me, even if it's gonna hurt.

If you are pissed off, or upset about something, talk about it. Passive agressive behavior will get you the boot.

Dont do the running man on the dance floor while we are out with our friends.

If you burp or fart say excuse me.

I may not act like a lady, but dont forget that I am one, and treat me accordingly

Alrighty then ...........

IrishGrrl · 07-31-2010, 09:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Billy

Alrighty then ...........

You are training right UP!!

*hauling ass*

07-31-2010, 03:46 PM	#7
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07-31-2010, 07:09 PM	#12
betenoire Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Satan in a Sunday Hat Preferred Pronoun?: Maow Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: The Chemical Valley Posts: 4,086 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,312 Thanked 8,740 Times in 2,565 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Absolutely do not expect me to spend all of my spare time making words at you. Sometimes nobody has anything to say - and that is OKAY. It is fine to not have anything to talk about. But don't get upset and presume something is wrong when I can't keep up a constant stream of inane chatter. __________________ bête noire \bet-NWAHR\, noun: One that is particularly disliked or that is to be avoided.

07-31-2010, 07:10 PM	#13
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07-31-2010, 09:21 PM	#15
Arwen Joy Seeker How Do You Identify?: Smartly-Flavored Preferred Pronoun?: Goddess Relationship Status: Mrs. Syzygy 1/9/14 Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Joyville, NM (aka Land of Enchantment) Posts: 10,140 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,636 Thanked 28,108 Times in 6,412 Posts Rep Power: 21474862	Do not use me as your emotional punching bag. Do not expect me to make you my be-all/end-all unless you do the same for me (and then we really need to talk because that's a bit much, capiche?) Do not drag negativity into every situation. No, the world is not out to get you. Do not talk other people down and say things about them you wouldn't have the cajones to say to their face. Do not refuse to talk about the important stuff. Do not overanalyze the unimportant stuff. Be willing to be flexible on what's unimportant and what's important. Do not jerk me around and then expect me to be happy when you want to go out again. I'll be busy--promise. I promise to do the same for you. __________________ I wrote a book, y'all! *FREE* Tarotscopes Seek Joy, y'all. Eschew hate. 9Words: A Poetry Challenge \| Do you like me?

07-31-2010, 02:47 PM	#2
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07-31-2010, 03:08 PM	#3
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07-31-2010, 03:43 PM	#6
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07-31-2010, 06:36 PM	#9
Gayla Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Kinky Butch Top Preferred Pronoun?: I'm not picky Relationship Status: She makes me dance like a fool and forget how to breathe. Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: SF CA Posts: 3,229 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 877 Thanked 7,077 Times in 1,966 Posts Rep Power: 0	There is more than one crazy cat lady. So far, I've known two and I don't think Billy and I have anyone in common.

07-31-2010, 06:57 PM	#10
IrishGrrl Member How Do You Identify?: Queer Femme Leatherdyke Preferred Pronoun?: She/her Relationship Status: In a relationship/non-monogamous Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Fort Worth, TX Posts: 877 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 276 Thanked 1,209 Times in 366 Posts Rep Power: 2427288	Please do not give me a detailed run down about the amazing shit you just took. Do not rush me to orgasm while fucking me If I say I need time to think, please dont follow me around the house. I dont mind harmless flirting, but DO NOT oggle other women all night Please do not call me to talk, then go on a 20 minute spiel about something ADORABLE your cat did. Then go on for another 20 min's about your OTHER cats! Never, EVER lie to me, even if it's gonna hurt. If you are pissed off, or upset about something, talk about it. Passive agressive behavior will get you the boot. Dont do the running man on the dance floor while we are out with our friends. If you burp or fart say excuse me. I may not act like a lady, but dont forget that I am one, and treat me accordingly

07-31-2010, 07:18 PM	#14
Rockinonahigh Senior Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: makes no diffrence,I know who I am. Relationship Status: single,maybe looking if the right person comes along. Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: shreveport,Louisiana Posts: 4,907 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,682 Thanked 14,933 Times in 3,938 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Do NOt play me against someone else. or never let me catch u in our fav resturant at OUR table with some biker then tell me he was an old friend...im not stupid..esp when u 2 have been all over each other..it shows. When we first meet,dont expect a one night stand..not my style. Understand sex wont happen till im shure about our feelings about our relationship..I want us to get to know each other before that happends. If u are a booze head or druggie get help or keep walking. If u cant manage ur money dont even think about touching mine. Be nice to my fur kids..if the good feelings are mutual fine if not bye bye. My son is one of the most accepting persons I know who gets along with nearly every one,dont think u will ever get between us and diss either of us about the other..u will lose. When we are dateing and arent exclusive,see anyone u want,when we are an ithem I will not be one of ur stable of studs in every town..I am not a toy boi.