what NOT to do in a relationship....... - Page 13

Jesse · 07-31-2010, 07:10 PM

Do not "out" me. I don't tell folks what's in your pants, and I see no need for you to tell them what is or isn't in mine! I am 52 years old and as such am perfectly capable of outing myself to whomever I wish to be outed to.

Rockinonahigh · 07-31-2010, 07:18 PM

Do NOt play me against someone else.
or never let me catch u in our fav resturant at OUR table with some biker then tell me he was an old friend...im not stupid..esp when u 2 have been all over each other..it shows.
When we first meet,dont expect a one night stand..not my style.
Understand sex wont happen till im shure about our feelings about our relationship..I want us to get to know each other before that happends.
If u are a booze head or druggie get help or keep walking.
If u cant manage ur money dont even think about touching mine.
Be nice to my fur kids..if the good feelings are mutual fine if not bye bye.
My son is one of the most accepting persons I know who gets along with nearly every one,dont think u will ever get between us and diss either of us about the other..u will lose.
When we are dateing and arent exclusive,see anyone u want,when we are an ithem I will not be one of ur stable of studs in every town..I am not a toy boi.

Julie · 07-31-2010, 07:19 PM

Do not ask me for my truth
and then punish me for giving it
If you pretend everything is okay in the world when it is not
Do not expect me to know -- I am not a mind reader

The_Lady_Snow · 07-31-2010, 07:20 PM

DO NOT ever let my leather fall from your hands onto the floor....

adorable · 07-31-2010, 07:30 PM

Don't take love for granted.

Love is a VERB - it is something you do. Be open. Be giving.

Don't be selfish. It's impossible to love that way.

Enchantress · 07-31-2010, 07:30 PM

Never, ever, take something that I've shared with you in confidence (regarding my life, experiences, feelings etc..) and throw it back at me, in a twisted, not what I told you way (when you're angry). It is the personification of trust breaking. And, if this occurs, you will never hear another meaningful thing from me again.

SuperFemme · 07-31-2010, 07:33 PM

do not be afraid of death.

Jesse · 07-31-2010, 07:34 PM

IF you happen to be doing the laundry...your red panties in with my white socks or tees is a BIG no-no!

Lynn · 07-31-2010, 07:42 PM

Don't give me ultimatums or tell me what I will not be doing, "or else."

Don't think that I need you more than I love myself.

Don't be afraid or unwilling to accept love and affection to the same degree that you like to give it.

Don't start thinking that I'm better than you (I'm not), or that you don't deserve me (you do). It can only end badly.

Don't treat other people or animals badly and then expect me to trust you to treat me well.

Zimmeh · 07-31-2010, 07:43 PM

Tranzman,

I am using your post and this is nothing about you, but my ex did this to me. If I want complete strangers to know about my sex life, I may tell them, but please for the love of life, don't tell your friends anything. I am a private person..And don't go threadstalking me and then use what you find against me, especially if it is from almost three years ago...If you don't have trust in me, then I don't have trust in you.

Zimmy

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Originally Posted by Tranzman

Do not "out" me. I don't tell folks what's in your pants, and I see no need for you to tell them what is or isn't in mine! I am 52 years old and as such am perfectly capable of outing myself to whomever I wish to be outed to.

The_Lady_Snow · 07-31-2010, 08:00 PM

DO NOT yank forward when I am inserting an 18 gauge needle into your back.

IrishGrrl · 07-31-2010, 08:09 PM

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Originally Posted by The_Lady_Snow

DO NOT yank forward when I am inserting an 18 gauge needle into your back.

But what if it REALLLLY hurts?!

Soft*Silver · 07-31-2010, 08:45 PM

dont set me up for failure by deeming yourself unworthy of me while simultaneously acting as tho I am beneath you. In other words, dont transfer your issues onto me....

dont fuck with my reality

more importantly, dont fuck with my serenity

Billy · 07-31-2010, 08:53 PM

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Originally Posted by IrishGrrl

Please do not give me a detailed run down about the amazing shit you just took.

Do not rush me to orgasm while fucking me

If I say I need time to think, please dont follow me around the house.

I dont mind harmless flirting, but DO NOT oggle other women all night

Please do not call me to talk, then go on a 20 minute spiel about something ADORABLE your cat did. Then go on for another 20 min's about your OTHER cats!

Never, EVER lie to me, even if it's gonna hurt.

If you are pissed off, or upset about something, talk about it. Passive agressive behavior will get you the boot.

Dont do the running man on the dance floor while we are out with our friends.

If you burp or fart say excuse me.

I may not act like a lady, but dont forget that I am one, and treat me accordingly

Alrighty then ...........

Billy · 07-31-2010, 08:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by IrishGrrl

But what if it REALLLLY hurts?!

Its going to hurt more , just sayin . And I believe you would not move when told not to

IrishGrrl · 07-31-2010, 09:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Billy

Alrighty then ...........

You are training right UP!!

*hauling ass*

The_Lady_Snow · 07-31-2010, 09:17 PM

DO NOT yell red when I am halfway in a swing, it will land.

IrishGrrl · 07-31-2010, 09:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Billy

Its going to hurt more , just sayin . And I believe you would not move when told not to

Because of course I always do what I"m told.

snicker*

Arwen · 07-31-2010, 09:21 PM

Do not use me as your emotional punching bag.
Do not expect me to make you my be-all/end-all unless you do the same for me (and then we really need to talk because that's a bit much, capiche?)
Do not drag negativity into every situation. No, the world is not out to get you.
Do not talk other people down and say things about them you wouldn't have the cajones to say to their face.
Do not refuse to talk about the important stuff.
Do not overanalyze the unimportant stuff.
Be willing to be flexible on what's unimportant and what's important.
Do not jerk me around and then expect me to be happy when you want to go out again. I'll be busy--promise.

I promise to do the same for you.

SuperFemme · 07-31-2010, 09:43 PM

do NOT make fun of my family.

07-31-2010, 07:10 PM	#241
Jesse Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Transguy Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Central West Coast of Florida Posts: 5,204 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 34,866 Thanked 17,784 Times in 3,940 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Do not "out" me. I don't tell folks what's in your pants, and I see no need for you to tell them what is or isn't in mine! I am 52 years old and as such am perfectly capable of outing myself to whomever I wish to be outed to. __________________ “You’re so hard on yourself. Take a moment. Sit back. Marvel at your life: at the grief that softened you, at the heartache that widened you, at the suffering that strengthened you. Despite everything, you still grow. Be proud of this.”

07-31-2010, 07:20 PM	#244
The_Lady_Snow MILLION $$$ PUSSY How Do You Identify?: Kinky, Raw, Perverted, Uber Queer Alpha Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Iconic Ms. Relationship Status: Keeper of 3, only one has the map to my freckles Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: La Reina del Sur Posts: 22,488 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 32,231 Thanked 80,080 Times in 15,669 Posts Rep Power: 21474874	DO NOT ever let my leather fall from your hands onto the floor.... __________________ "If you’re going to play these dirty games of ours, then you might as well indulge completely. It’s all about turning back into an animal and that’s the beauty of it. Place your guilt on the sidewalk and take a blow torch to it (guilt is usually worthless anyway). Be perverted, be filthy, do things that mannered people shouldn’t do. If you’re going to be gross then go for it and don’t wimp out."---Master Aiden

07-31-2010, 07:34 PM	#248
Jesse Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Transguy Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Central West Coast of Florida Posts: 5,204 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 34,866 Thanked 17,784 Times in 3,940 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	IF you happen to be doing the laundry...your red panties in with my white socks or tees is a BIG no-no! __________________ “You’re so hard on yourself. Take a moment. Sit back. Marvel at your life: at the grief that softened you, at the heartache that widened you, at the suffering that strengthened you. Despite everything, you still grow. Be proud of this.”

07-31-2010, 07:42 PM	#249
Lynn Member How Do You Identify?: Unabashed Feminine Lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: Her, She Relationship Status: Married! Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Upstate NY Posts: 689 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,499 Thanked 2,413 Times in 504 Posts Rep Power: 9668975	Don't give me ultimatums or tell me what I will not be doing, "or else." Don't think that I need you more than I love myself. Don't be afraid or unwilling to accept love and affection to the same degree that you like to give it. Don't start thinking that I'm better than you (I'm not), or that you don't deserve me (you do). It can only end badly. Don't treat other people or animals badly and then expect me to trust you to treat me well. __________________ In the flush of love's light we dare be brave And suddenly we see that love costs all we are and will ever be. Yet it is only love which sets us free. Maya Angelou Wedding Photos: https://www.facebook.com/media/set/?...1&l=22b092b98c

07-31-2010, 08:00 PM	#251
The_Lady_Snow MILLION $$$ PUSSY How Do You Identify?: Kinky, Raw, Perverted, Uber Queer Alpha Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Iconic Ms. Relationship Status: Keeper of 3, only one has the map to my freckles Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: La Reina del Sur Posts: 22,488 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 32,231 Thanked 80,080 Times in 15,669 Posts Rep Power: 21474874	DO NOT yank forward when I am inserting an 18 gauge needle into your back. __________________ "If you’re going to play these dirty games of ours, then you might as well indulge completely. It’s all about turning back into an animal and that’s the beauty of it. Place your guilt on the sidewalk and take a blow torch to it (guilt is usually worthless anyway). Be perverted, be filthy, do things that mannered people shouldn’t do. If you’re going to be gross then go for it and don’t wimp out."---Master Aiden

07-31-2010, 07:18 PM	#242
Rockinonahigh Senior Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: makes no diffrence,I know who I am. Relationship Status: single,maybe looking if the right person comes along. Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: shreveport,Louisiana Posts: 4,907 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,682 Thanked 14,933 Times in 3,938 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Do NOt play me against someone else. or never let me catch u in our fav resturant at OUR table with some biker then tell me he was an old friend...im not stupid..esp when u 2 have been all over each other..it shows. When we first meet,dont expect a one night stand..not my style. Understand sex wont happen till im shure about our feelings about our relationship..I want us to get to know each other before that happends. If u are a booze head or druggie get help or keep walking. If u cant manage ur money dont even think about touching mine. Be nice to my fur kids..if the good feelings are mutual fine if not bye bye. My son is one of the most accepting persons I know who gets along with nearly every one,dont think u will ever get between us and diss either of us about the other..u will lose. When we are dateing and arent exclusive,see anyone u want,when we are an ithem I will not be one of ur stable of studs in every town..I am not a toy boi.

07-31-2010, 07:19 PM	#243
Julie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Angel * Femme * Lesbian * Girl * Woman * Slut * Bitch * Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: No longer a Virgin Bride to Dreamer ~ May 17th, 2014 Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: New York Posts: 4,674 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 17,676 Thanked 18,160 Times in 3,633 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Do not ask me for my truth and then punish me for giving it If you pretend everything is okay in the world when it is not Do not expect me to know -- I am not a mind reader

07-31-2010, 07:30 PM	#245
adorable Member How Do You Identify?: Sarcastically Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Unavailable Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Home of the Yankee's Posts: 752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,708 Thanked 2,644 Times in 590 Posts Rep Power: 12725119	Don't take love for granted. Love is a VERB - it is something you do. Be open. Be giving. Don't be selfish. It's impossible to love that way.

07-31-2010, 07:30 PM	#246
Enchantress Senior Member How Do You Identify?: A complex confection. Preferred Pronoun?: Miss Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: The land of milk and honey. Posts: 2,169 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 741 Thanked 3,420 Times in 1,200 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Never, ever, take something that I've shared with you in confidence (regarding my life, experiences, feelings etc..) and throw it back at me, in a twisted, not what I told you way (when you're angry). It is the personification of trust breaking. And, if this occurs, you will never hear another meaningful thing from me again.

07-31-2010, 07:33 PM	#247
SuperFemme Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Permanently Banned 10/24/2010 Preferred Pronoun?: She. Relationship Status: Married (one of 18,000) Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Atascadero, CA Posts: 4,933 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,309 Thanked 7,108 Times in 2,327 Posts Rep Power: 0	do not be afraid of death.

07-31-2010, 08:45 PM	#253
SoftSilver Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: rose cottage Posts: 5,592 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,948 Thanked 15,907 Times in 4,062 Posts Rep Power*: 21474857	dont set me up for failure by deeming yourself unworthy of me while simultaneously acting as tho I am beneath you. In other words, dont transfer your issues onto me.... dont fuck with my reality more importantly, dont fuck with my serenity __________________ Pole bachit, a lis chuye. The field sees, the forest hears

07-31-2010, 09:17 PM	#257
The_Lady_Snow MILLION $$$ PUSSY How Do You Identify?: Kinky, Raw, Perverted, Uber Queer Alpha Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Iconic Ms. Relationship Status: Keeper of 3, only one has the map to my freckles Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: La Reina del Sur Posts: 22,488 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 32,231 Thanked 80,080 Times in 15,669 Posts Rep Power: 21474874	DO NOT yell red when I am halfway in a swing, it will land. __________________ "If you’re going to play these dirty games of ours, then you might as well indulge completely. It’s all about turning back into an animal and that’s the beauty of it. Place your guilt on the sidewalk and take a blow torch to it (guilt is usually worthless anyway). Be perverted, be filthy, do things that mannered people shouldn’t do. If you’re going to be gross then go for it and don’t wimp out."---Master Aiden

07-31-2010, 09:21 PM	#259
Arwen Joy Seeker How Do You Identify?: Smartly-Flavored Preferred Pronoun?: Goddess Relationship Status: Mrs. Syzygy 1/9/14 Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Joyville, NM (aka Land of Enchantment) Posts: 10,140 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,636 Thanked 28,119 Times in 6,414 Posts Rep Power: 21474862	Do not use me as your emotional punching bag. Do not expect me to make you my be-all/end-all unless you do the same for me (and then we really need to talk because that's a bit much, capiche?) Do not drag negativity into every situation. No, the world is not out to get you. Do not talk other people down and say things about them you wouldn't have the cajones to say to their face. Do not refuse to talk about the important stuff. Do not overanalyze the unimportant stuff. Be willing to be flexible on what's unimportant and what's important. Do not jerk me around and then expect me to be happy when you want to go out again. I'll be busy--promise. I promise to do the same for you. __________________ I wrote a book, y'all! *FREE* Tarotscopes Seek Joy, y'all. Eschew hate. 9Words: A Poetry Challenge \| Do you like me?

07-31-2010, 09:43 PM	#260
SuperFemme Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Permanently Banned 10/24/2010 Preferred Pronoun?: She. Relationship Status: Married (one of 18,000) Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Atascadero, CA Posts: 4,933 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,309 Thanked 7,108 Times in 2,327 Posts Rep Power: 0	do NOT make fun of my family.