dating MTF femmes...

Laerkin · 09-04-2010, 02:12 PM

Hey skeeter - I say go for it!

If the two of you have a connection and you have fun, rock on! She's a woman and she's gorgeous, no reason not to at least give it a shot and see where it goes, right?

Good luck and report back on how things go!!!

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Originally Posted by skeeter_01

So...there's this femme that I've been chatting with on yahoo for a couple weeks..we really clicked...we began to talk about possibly dating....she just moved here from another state to attend U of M to study physics...she sent me about 8 different pics and she is absolutely drop dead gorgeous to the point that I thought her pics were fakes...

I fianally had the chance to speak with her on the phone and I was quite suprised at how deep her voice is...so the next day after thinkin' about it I asked her about it...I said..."I have a question about your voice...it's very deep...are you male?"

She told me that she "used to be but have had all the surgeries and am now a woman, I have no male organs...and I don't at all think like a man..."

She asked me if that bothered me and I told her that I honestly didn't know... I'd have to think about it...well..I've thought and thought about it...and at first I was kinda dissapointed but the more I think about it...the more I'm becoming ok with who she is..in fact I can't wait to meet her...

Has anyone else had this experience?...what are your thoughts?

skeet

skeeter_01 · 09-04-2010, 02:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Laerkin

Hey skeeter - I say go for it!

If the two of you have a connection and you have fun, rock on! She's a woman and she's gorgeous, no reason not to at least give it a shot and see where it goes, right?

Good luck and report back on how things go!!!

Thanks so much for the encouragement!!
skeet

Medusa · 09-04-2010, 02:21 PM

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Originally Posted by skeeter_01

Thanks so much for the encouragement!!
skeet

I agree with Laerkin, Skeeter. A woman who was born into a male body is still a woman and if you two have a connection, go for it!
Good for you for getting back out there and dating - Wish you the best!

EnderD_503 · 09-04-2010, 02:30 PM

I've never been in your shoes, but I think you should go for it. We don't all have the luxury of being born into the physical sex that fits our neurological sex. She is no less of a woman than a woman born into a female body. No reason why you shouldn't go for it if you like her.

skeeter_01 · 09-04-2010, 02:33 PM

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Originally Posted by EnderD_503

I've never been in your shoes, but I think you should go for it. We don't all have the luxury of being born into the physical sex that fits our neurological sex. She is no less of a woman than a woman born into a female body. No reason why you shouldn't go for it if you like her.

thanks enderd! i appreciate the feedback brudda..!
skeet

Corkey · 09-04-2010, 02:37 PM

I know you don't need our permission, 'cause you're an adult 'n all, so if you want to date her, it is none of our business and you two have fun.

Logicaly · 09-04-2010, 02:48 PM

Skeeter,

One of the best experiences I have had in terms of dating was when I had the pleasure and opportunity to get to know this amazing lady, she was pre-op at the time, and identified as mtf. She was a gorgeous woman, with a smile that could light up the room, and a laughter that was contagious. We always had a good time no matter where we went and what we did.

She was also the first woman, and person in my life, to accept me for who I am, and that opened the door to so many great opportunities and experiences for me. It has been years since we talked, but one of the last things she said to me, was when she thanked me, for always making her feel like a woman, in which I replied, well you are a woman.

What a person was born as, doesn't matter, it is who they are on the inside. If you have a connection with this woman, and you enjoy each others company, go for it, embrace it, don't let anything else stand in the way.

skeeter_01 · 09-04-2010, 02:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Medusa

I agree with Laerkin, Skeeter. A woman who was born into a male body is still a woman and if you two have a connection, go for it!
Good for you for getting back out there and dating - Wish you the best!

thanks so much medusa!
skeet

09-04-2010, 02:37 PM	#6
Corkey Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Human Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Very Married Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Where I want to be Posts: 8,155 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 47,491 Thanked 29,268 Times in 6,637 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	I know you don't need our permission, 'cause you're an adult 'n all, so if you want to date her, it is none of our business and you two have fun. __________________ "Many proposals have been made to us to adopt your laws, your religion, your manners and your customs. We would be better pleased with beholding the good effects of these doctrines in your own practices, than with hearing you talk about them". ~Old Tassel, Chief of the Tsalagi (Cherokee)

09-04-2010, 02:48 PM	#7
Logicaly Member How Do You Identify?: Transgender Male Preferred Pronoun?: Male Relationship Status: She is the gamer girl to my gamer boy Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: California, Bay Area Posts: 683 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 395 Thanked 1,742 Times in 513 Posts Rep Power: 8641138	Skeeter, One of the best experiences I have had in terms of dating was when I had the pleasure and opportunity to get to know this amazing lady, she was pre-op at the time, and identified as mtf. She was a gorgeous woman, with a smile that could light up the room, and a laughter that was contagious. We always had a good time no matter where we went and what we did. She was also the first woman, and person in my life, to accept me for who I am, and that opened the door to so many great opportunities and experiences for me. It has been years since we talked, but one of the last things she said to me, was when she thanked me, for always making her feel like a woman, in which I replied, well you are a woman. What a person was born as, doesn't matter, it is who they are on the inside. If you have a connection with this woman, and you enjoy each others company, go for it, embrace it, don't let anything else stand in the way. __________________ ~Logicaly~ Geeky guy extraordinaire Always and Forever

09-04-2010, 02:30 PM	#4
EnderD_503 Member How Do You Identify?: Queer, trans guy, butch Preferred Pronoun?: Male pronouns Relationship Status: Relationship Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Canada Posts: 1,329 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,090 Thanked 3,879 Times in 1,022 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I've never been in your shoes, but I think you should go for it. We don't all have the luxury of being born into the physical sex that fits our neurological sex. She is no less of a woman than a woman born into a female body. No reason why you shouldn't go for it if you like her.