The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over. - Page 77

Luckydwg07 · 09-01-2010, 12:47 PM

Stopping in to say Hello...Hope everyone is having a good day!
Any plans for the weekend?

Jude · 09-03-2010, 07:50 PM

If you experience it directly, it's the truth. The same thing blindly believed is a lie.

friskyfemme · 09-03-2010, 11:33 PM

Hello Lofters,

I am going to have a Reiki session tomorrow by my BFF. Then i am going to work on finishing my walkthrough closet. Then relax and enjoy my long weekend.

Hope ya'll have a safe and relaxing weekend. Countdown to fall!

Sweepea · 09-04-2010, 01:06 AM

I went out to the bar tonight---everyone was so young. I felt out of place... which I was, since I don't drink or dance.

I had to get out of the house and figured my friends 50th B-day party would be a good reason to go to the local watering hole.

I should have kept my butt home. lol

That's all I have to say about that. HUMMM.

lipstixgal · 09-04-2010, 04:47 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sweepea

I went out to the bar tonight---everyone was so young. I felt out of place... which I was, since I don't drink or dance.

I had to get out of the house and figured my friends 50th B-day party would be a good reason to go to the local watering hole.

I should have kept my butt home. lol

That's all I have to say about that. HUMMM.

I feel for ya sweepea everyone is so young at those bars, you really do feel out of place. I don't go anymore except when there is a Butch-Femme social they I go because there are people my own age!!

On to other things Good Morning, dogs got up early today and wanted to eat and go out to potty but I headed back to bed once the one dog settles down, he's hyper so he needs time to settle back down!!

MysticOceansFL · 09-04-2010, 06:57 AM

I used to attend butch and femme dances here in Tallahassee but that was years ago now it's just dancing at a local place in town on special holidays which is great but I don't see many single femme's there around my age range!

cuddlyfemme · 09-04-2010, 03:07 PM

Hi Lofters!!! I hope everyone is good. Its been a month or so since I've been around but have been busy around the house. I hope everyone is having a good evening!

ruthie14 · 09-04-2010, 03:12 PM

Last night went to a bday party

The rest of the weekend I am dog and cat sitting.. and reading. Went to the library and got out 3 books .

No money so not going to some of the things my friends are going too. Double trouble.. cant go (asbury park nor sisterspace sigh) and so my friends are out of town so I can't go out with them either. DAMN

Oh well... I will get lots of reading in!

Galahad · 09-04-2010, 04:00 PM

I'm in the same boat Ruthie. Long holiday weekend and empty pockets. Still it's great to relax,take naps, get lots of housework and the dog bathing done. I'll get my homework done days ahead for a change.

lipstixgal · 09-04-2010, 05:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Galahad

I'm in the same boat Ruthie. Long holiday weekend and empty pockets. Still it's great to relax,take naps, get lots of housework and the dog bathing done. I'll get my homework done days ahead for a change.

I'm in the same boat people no money either so its homework and watching movies on tv and relax!! Have Jewish holidays to contend with..going to take a hot shower and then get ready and go which is good to get out of the house!!

cuddlyfemme · 09-04-2010, 05:22 PM

Include me in the boat with no money

morningstar55 · 09-04-2010, 07:55 PM

peeking in .........
hey ya Lofters...... just arrived home...

will have to catch up on some postings i see....... heh.

.

Galahad · 09-05-2010, 12:03 AM

We need a bigger boat.

I really like the tiny dog on horseback photo Morningstar. I'll fix a cup of hot chocolate now. Lipstickgal, have a sweet New Year.

ruthie14 · 09-05-2010, 10:13 PM

HI folks.. feeling lonely tonight. Hardly ever happens... but bc of money concerns i am not doing what i would prefer to be doing this weekend. Finally have the house to myself for the week, a 3 day weekend, and all my friends are busy with thier lives. Happy for them... but sad for me. Feeling my "single state" a whole lot tonight.

Hope everyone is having a great holiday weekend!!
Ruthie

Jude · 09-05-2010, 10:45 PM

Just wondering if there are any local people within the "grown up" crowd here. (Wash, DC, suburban Maryland, Northern VA). If I could find a handful, I'd have a party and serve veggie chile.

Seems like most of the people here are from the South, West or even further South.

Maybe I'll have to retire to Florida to have my poker party (those sweltering summers tho).

Hope you all enjoy the long weekend. It's beautiful in DC -- "cool" days to bring summer to a close.

ruthie14 · 09-05-2010, 11:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jude

Just wondering if there are any local people within the "grown up" crowd here. (Wash, DC, suburban Maryland, Northern VA). If I could find a handful, I'd have a party and serve veggie chile.

Seems like most of the people here are from the South, West or even further South.

Maybe I'll have to retire to Florida to have my poker party (those sweltering summers tho).

Hope you all enjoy the long weekend. It's beautiful in DC -- "cool" days to bring summer to a close.

Hello Jude... I am from south Jersey. I will have to look up Bethsida and see how far it is from here. *waving hi*

morningstar55 · 09-06-2010, 05:22 AM

mawning Lofter dwellers.....and peekers

its down right chilly here in ol buffalo Neww yawwwk this morning.
hope everyone had a relaxin and fun weekend... i know i did..

lipstixgal · 09-06-2010, 05:59 AM

good morning Lofters!! Having a quiet early morning here in NJ with cooler temps but soon it will be warmner I hope!! don't really like it so cool..dogs are walked, fed and are ready to take a nap with the nice quiet here...

skeeter_01 · 09-06-2010, 06:10 AM

good mornin' loft dwellers! it's going to be a beautiful day here in ann arbor and i'm gonna miss most of it cause i was lucky enough to pick up an extra 4 hours here at work...so i'll be here 7am-7pm makin' that holiday pay!! life is GOOD!

LotusFlower · 09-06-2010, 10:39 AM

Hi,

I am from Philadelphia.

- Lotus Flower

09-01-2010, 12:47 PM	#1521
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09-03-2010, 07:50 PM	#1522
Jude Member How Do You Identify?: I'm Fluid (comfortable being me) Preferred Pronoun?: "Hey Jude" Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Bethesda/Chevy Chase (suburbs of Wash DC) Posts: 100 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 129 Thanked 146 Times in 55 Posts Rep Power: 104572	If you experience it directly, it's the truth. The same thing blindly believed is a lie. __________________

09-03-2010, 11:33 PM	#1523
friskyfemme Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: precious Relationship Status: down to earth Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Arizona Posts: 332 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 395 Thanked 370 Times in 152 Posts Rep Power: 828	Hello Lofters, I am going to have a Reiki session tomorrow by my BFF. Then i am going to work on finishing my walkthrough closet. Then relax and enjoy my long weekend. Hope ya'll have a safe and relaxing weekend. Countdown to fall! __________________ Love and Light, FF

09-04-2010, 01:06 AM	#1524
Sweepea Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Highland CA Posts: 19 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 14 Thanked 31 Times in 8 Posts Rep Power: 80	I missed my 30's I went out to the bar tonight---everyone was so young. I felt out of place... which I was, since I don't drink or dance. I had to get out of the house and figured my friends 50th B-day party would be a good reason to go to the local watering hole. I should have kept my butt home. lol That's all I have to say about that. HUMMM.

09-04-2010, 06:57 AM	#1526
MysticOceansFL Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch, Preferred Pronoun?: People call me by my nic name. Relationship Status: Not Single, Not Desperate. Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Florida Posts: 3,833 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,645 Thanked 4,033 Times in 1,720 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	I used to attend butch and femme dances here in Tallahassee but that was years ago now it's just dancing at a local place in town on special holidays which is great but I don't see many single femme's there around my age range! __________________ Faith is not belief without proof, but trust without reservation. It is said, " Some lives are linked across time..... Connected by an ancient calling that echoes through the ages "......

09-04-2010, 03:07 PM	#1527
cuddlyfemme Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Femme Preferred Pronoun?: her/she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: South Carolina Posts: 2,271 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 717 Thanked 2,452 Times in 1,270 Posts Rep Power: 11496123	Hi Lofters!!! I hope everyone is good. Its been a month or so since I've been around but have been busy around the house. I hope everyone is having a good evening!

09-04-2010, 03:12 PM	#1528
ruthie14 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,904 Thanked 1,245 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 5946335	Last night went to a bday party The rest of the weekend I am dog and cat sitting.. and reading. Went to the library and got out 3 books . No money so not going to some of the things my friends are going too. Double trouble.. cant go (asbury park nor sisterspace sigh) and so my friends are out of town so I can't go out with them either. DAMN Oh well... I will get lots of reading in!

09-04-2010, 04:00 PM	#1529
Galahad Member How Do You Identify?: do I have to? Relationship Status: single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: I.E. Southern California Posts: 425 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,300 Thanked 339 Times in 151 Posts Rep Power: 1446604	I'm in the same boat Ruthie. Long holiday weekend and empty pockets. Still it's great to relax,take naps, get lots of housework and the dog bathing done. I'll get my homework done days ahead for a change.

09-04-2010, 05:22 PM	#1531
cuddlyfemme Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Femme Preferred Pronoun?: her/she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: South Carolina Posts: 2,271 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 717 Thanked 2,452 Times in 1,270 Posts Rep Power: 11496123	Include me in the boat with no money

09-04-2010, 07:55 PM	#1532
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,240 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	peeking in ......... hey ya Lofters...... just arrived home... will have to catch up on some postings i see....... heh.. __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

09-05-2010, 12:03 AM	#1533
Galahad Member How Do You Identify?: do I have to? Relationship Status: single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: I.E. Southern California Posts: 425 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,300 Thanked 339 Times in 151 Posts Rep Power: 1446604	We need a bigger boat. I really like the tiny dog on horseback photo Morningstar. I'll fix a cup of hot chocolate now. Lipstickgal, have a sweet New Year.

09-05-2010, 10:13 PM	#1534
ruthie14 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,904 Thanked 1,245 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 5946335	HI folks.. feeling lonely tonight. Hardly ever happens... but bc of money concerns i am not doing what i would prefer to be doing this weekend. Finally have the house to myself for the week, a 3 day weekend, and all my friends are busy with thier lives. Happy for them... but sad for me. Feeling my "single state" a whole lot tonight. Hope everyone is having a great holiday weekend!! Ruthie

09-05-2010, 10:45 PM	#1535
Jude Member How Do You Identify?: I'm Fluid (comfortable being me) Preferred Pronoun?: "Hey Jude" Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Bethesda/Chevy Chase (suburbs of Wash DC) Posts: 100 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 129 Thanked 146 Times in 55 Posts Rep Power: 104572	Any people in Washington DC, Maryland, Northern VA??? Just wondering if there are any local people within the "grown up" crowd here. (Wash, DC, suburban Maryland, Northern VA). If I could find a handful, I'd have a party and serve veggie chile. Seems like most of the people here are from the South, West or even further South. Maybe I'll have to retire to Florida to have my poker party (those sweltering summers tho). Hope you all enjoy the long weekend. It's beautiful in DC -- "cool" days to bring summer to a close. __________________

09-06-2010, 05:22 AM	#1537
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,240 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	mawning Lofter dwellers.....and peekers its down right chilly here in ol buffalo Neww yawwwk this morning. hope everyone had a relaxin and fun weekend... i know i did.. __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

09-06-2010, 05:59 AM	#1538
lipstixgal Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: coupled Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: New Jersey Posts: 3,028 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 201 Thanked 1,690 Times in 1,064 Posts Rep Power: 1494761	good morning Lofters!! Having a quiet early morning here in NJ with cooler temps but soon it will be warmner I hope!! don't really like it so cool..dogs are walked, fed and are ready to take a nap with the nice quiet here...

09-06-2010, 06:10 AM	#1539
skeeter_01 Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: Hey you! Relationship Status: Sleeping single in a double bed.. Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: ann arbor, michigan Posts: 195 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 288 Thanked 477 Times in 130 Posts Rep Power: 3007276	good mornin' loft dwellers! it's going to be a beautiful day here in ann arbor and i'm gonna miss most of it cause i was lucky enough to pick up an extra 4 hours here at work...so i'll be here 7am-7pm makin' that holiday pay!! life is GOOD! __________________ Texting while driving is a real KILLER!!! ‎"It takes hundreds of nuts to hold a car together...but it takes only one nut to scatter them all over the highway..." Jeff PARAMEDIC

09-06-2010, 10:39 AM	#1540
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