Question for everyone

sweetbutch26 · 09-19-2010, 05:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Organicbutch

She will find you when you are her are both ready. In the meantime relax and have fun. She will come running with a 2X4 and bop you upside the head. You will know it is her.

i'll know she is the right one when i see stars if she bops me

storyofmylife · 05-01-2011, 05:36 AM

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Originally Posted by sweetbutch26

i'll know she is the right one when i see stars if she bops me

Lol!....

Tcountry · 05-01-2011, 06:01 AM

It is for sure possible for a soulmate to be a spouse tho.
Sunshine & I frequently tell each other "get out of my head"...but it is so much deeper than that.
When u can sense what the other is feeling...
When you call & it just so happens to be perfect timing...
When you are apart & it feels like part of you is missing...
When you hug for the first time & feel as tho that is exactly where you belong...

Yet I do understand.
I understand being absolutely skeptical....until you have it.
Cause then...there is not a doubt in your mind.

redrose · 05-01-2011, 06:10 AM

I do believe in soulmates,,, I believe we could only have just one in this lifetime...
She's the one who can see me crystal clear ...

05-01-2011, 06:33 AM

Yanno, I've felt I've had real special connections with a good handful of girls along the way...soulmate-ish stuff going on, that knowing what they're going to say, the freaky 'i was just gonna call you too' stuff. Then ya find way down the line that they weren't really what you thought.

However, I've found two fantastic women thus far in my 47yr life who I consider to be my soulmate, my true family. They will always be in my life, we will always care deeply about each other no matter where we end up. One I've had to let go of to see if she comes back - however she's not gone away yet!

I still share a house with the woman who I consider the great love of my life, I wasn't ready for her when I had her and lost her as a partner which was no bad thing really, we should never have been lovers. We're 'siblings', that's what we should have been from the start but I love her deeply and always will.

The soul-mate thang is pie in the sky, white picket fence thinking but there will always be those extra special people in our lives that will make us believe in abstract concepts and fairy dust.

Quintease · 05-01-2011, 06:55 AM

If soul mates exist, then mine is now

I'm not convinced however, were I to have met him 5/10/15 years ago, would he have been the right person then? 5 years ago I thought I'd met the love of my life. 10 years ago I didn't wish to settle down with anyone, I was too busy running and 15 years ago I would never have understood his gender struggles.

I believe that the right person comes at the right time, but are they your soul mate? If life waits for love, then maybe.

little_ms_sunshyne · 05-01-2011, 07:59 AM

I didnt use to believe in soulmates or fairytales. I didnt like how what I thought was "love" felt. When I first met T, something happened. We hadnt even met yet and there was this ridiculous connection. A connection that scared me. The day came when T stood outside my home and as I appoached all of a sudden the world felt as if it stopped! We were frozen! It was unlike anything I had experienced before. T, the skeptic, stood there silent for quite a bit. I tell hym all the time that hy looked at me as if though a Smurf was approaching lol Everything just seemed to fit into place. A true moment of Serendipity. Now, anytime hy has to leave I feel like a piece of me is missing. Anytime my day is at its worst, my phone rings and it is hym calling. Hy understands me like no one else does. WE ARE OPPOSITES! But what is opposite about one only seems to compliment the other even more.

It may not always be a lover that is your soulmate. Perhaps it is a best friend or a companion.

Perhaps, soulmates don't exist. But if they don't, I dont want to know. lol I take comfort in knowing that there is someone out there for everyone that brings them this type of happiness.

storyofmylife · 05-01-2011, 06:25 AM

I enjoyed reading everyone's feedback!

For me.........

spending almost or a lifetime and in some case,sadly , till death do us part with unconditional devotions and to know that our love was a gift from God above.

05-01-2011, 06:01 AM	#3
Tcountry Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Country Boi Preferred Pronoun?: call it as u see it Relationship Status: Completely...complete ;) Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Either at the beach or in the pool Posts: 1,665 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,929 Thanked 4,287 Times in 1,181 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	It is for sure possible for a soulmate to be a spouse tho. Sunshine & I frequently tell each other "get out of my head"...but it is so much deeper than that. When u can sense what the other is feeling... When you call & it just so happens to be perfect timing... When you are apart & it feels like part of you is missing... When you hug for the first time & feel as tho that is exactly where you belong... Yet I do understand. I understand being absolutely skeptical....until you have it. Cause then...there is not a doubt in your mind. __________________ "You don't Find life worth living; You MAKE IT that way"

05-01-2011, 06:10 AM	#4
redrose Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: at peace Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Philippines Posts: 291 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 62 Thanked 252 Times in 123 Posts Rep Power: 276024	I do believe in soulmates,,, I believe we could only have just one in this lifetime... She's the one who can see me crystal clear ... __________________ ... death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal ... http://youtu.be/N0SgLJEtaok

05-01-2011, 06:55 AM	#6
Quintease Member How Do You Identify?: Rainbow femme Preferred Pronoun?: princess Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 514 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 508 Thanked 1,817 Times in 417 Posts Rep Power: 10560327	If soul mates exist, then mine is now I'm not convinced however, were I to have met him 5/10/15 years ago, would he have been the right person then? 5 years ago I thought I'd met the love of my life. 10 years ago I didn't wish to settle down with anyone, I was too busy running and 15 years ago I would never have understood his gender struggles. I believe that the right person comes at the right time, but are they your soul mate? If life waits for love, then maybe. __________________ It is not worth an intelligent person's time to be in the majority. By definition, there are already enough people to do that.

05-01-2011, 06:33 AM	#5
Daktari Guest Tournaments Won: 1 Posts: n/a My Photo Gallery	Yanno, I've felt I've had real special connections with a good handful of girls along the way...soulmate-ish stuff going on, that knowing what they're going to say, the freaky 'i was just gonna call you too' stuff. Then ya find way down the line that they weren't really what you thought. However, I've found two fantastic women thus far in my 47yr life who I consider to be my soulmate, my true family. They will always be in my life, we will always care deeply about each other no matter where we end up. One I've had to let go of to see if she comes back - however she's not gone away yet! I still share a house with the woman who I consider the great love of my life, I wasn't ready for her when I had her and lost her as a partner which was no bad thing really, we should never have been lovers. We're 'siblings', that's what we should have been from the start but I love her deeply and always will. The soul-mate thang is pie in the sky, white picket fence thinking but there will always be those extra special people in our lives that will make us believe in abstract concepts and fairy dust.

05-01-2011, 07:59 AM	#7
little_ms_sunshyne Senior Member How Do You Identify?: . Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: . Posts: 3,312 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,339 Thanked 12,241 Times in 2,541 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	I didnt use to believe in soulmates or fairytales. I didnt like how what I thought was "love" felt. When I first met T, something happened. We hadnt even met yet and there was this ridiculous connection. A connection that scared me. The day came when T stood outside my home and as I appoached all of a sudden the world felt as if it stopped! We were frozen! It was unlike anything I had experienced before. T, the skeptic, stood there silent for quite a bit. I tell hym all the time that hy looked at me as if though a Smurf was approaching lol Everything just seemed to fit into place. A true moment of Serendipity. Now, anytime hy has to leave I feel like a piece of me is missing. Anytime my day is at its worst, my phone rings and it is hym calling. Hy understands me like no one else does. WE ARE OPPOSITES! But what is opposite about one only seems to compliment the other even more. It may not always be a lover that is your soulmate. Perhaps it is a best friend or a companion. Perhaps, soulmates don't exist. But if they don't, I dont want to know. lol I take comfort in knowing that there is someone out there for everyone that brings them this type of happiness.

05-01-2011, 06:25 AM	#8
storyofmylife Member How Do You Identify?: silly femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Truly,Madly,Deeply Engaged ♥♡ Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: garden state Posts: 636 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,057 Thanked 808 Times in 350 Posts Rep Power: 2559043	I enjoyed reading everyone's feedback! For me......... spending almost or a lifetime and in some case,sadly , till death do us part with unconditional devotions and to know that our love was a gift from God above.