what NOT to do in a relationship.......

atomiczombie · 10-23-2010, 05:43 PM

Don't wait till its too late to say "I love you".

Rockinonahigh · 10-23-2010, 06:14 PM

When u meet someone then start talking to them,weather its on the phone/puter or what have you,take your time in geting to know them ..give them time to know u as well.Then if its dosent work out be courtious enough to just not drop them like a hot potato and leave them wondering what happened.
Another thing ..dont judge them by how others have treated you in the past.You may well miss the diamond in the rough just waiting to be polished up.

bigbutchmistie · 10-23-2010, 07:18 PM

Do not make your ex priority over your partner

tuffboi29 · 10-23-2010, 07:24 PM

If we have gone over this little tid-bit...I would like to re-enforce it.

DO NOT blow up the following with messages...email..voice mail..text messaging..."hoo" messenger (or anything therein related)..and of course mutual friend's messaging systems.

Thank you

Apocalipstic · 10-25-2010, 01:28 PM

If your beloved does not answer the phone immediately, do not call 6 times, then try their home phone, texts and any other phone with might be near them. Give them a chance to get back with you.

and...this one is important!

Under NO circumstances call their PARENTS or EXES looking for them.
EVER, I don't care if there is an earthquake....E.V.E.R.

If you call me 3 times in a row..somebody better be DEAD or on fire.

Apocalipstic · 10-25-2010, 01:30 PM

Do not go though your beloved's phone and demand to know who each person in the address book is.

Do not read their texts.

Do not go through their stuff.

and.....

Do not go through their emails.

If you even tempted, you are too insecure for me and probably to ever be in a successful relationship with anyone normal.

Apocalipstic · 10-25-2010, 01:33 PM

Never cash a check for your beloved through your bank account.

LipstickLola · 10-25-2010, 01:38 PM

If you wanna be friends, fine, but do NOT keep rubbing in my face how awesomely in love with your new schmoopie pie you are, K?

FlowerFem · 11-23-2010, 11:06 PM

Don't treat me nice when no one is around, then use me as the butt of your jokes when we are with your friends. Then tell me to lighten up ,it's just a joke. Don't tell me what you think I want to hear when we first start dating. That's not fair to me. Because I am forming my opinion and my assessments of you will be skewed. Not to mention my disappointment when I final figure out you misrepresented yourself.
Don't be irresponsible and then wonder why I don't trust you. Don't come over my house when you have had too much to drink and then want to be intimate.
When you say and do things that destroy my trust and diminish and discount our relationship, don't call me a cold hearted bitch, because my heart is broken and my guard is up.

10-23-2010, 05:43 PM	#1
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10-23-2010, 07:24 PM	#4
tuffboi29 Member How Do You Identify?: Queer..in the queer deffinition of the queer meaning of the queer word... Preferred Pronoun?: Mr. SuperTuff Relationship Status: Things happen... Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: somewhere over the rainbow Posts: 483 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 894 Thanked 684 Times in 293 Posts Rep Power: 93006	If we have gone over this little tid-bit...I would like to re-enforce it. DO NOT blow up the following with messages...email..voice mail..text messaging..."hoo" messenger (or anything therein related)..and of course mutual friend's messaging systems. Thank you __________________ "Today we would pass through the scenes of our youth like travelers. We are burnt up by hard facts; like tradesmen we understand distinctions, and like butchers, necessities. We are no longer untroubled - we are indifferent. We might exist there; but, should we really live there?" ~Erich Maria Remarque "All Quiet on the Western Front" http://a6.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphot..._4605968_n.jpg

10-25-2010, 01:28 PM	#5
Apocalipstic Pink Confection How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, Ma'am Relationship Status: Dating Myself Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Nashville Posts: 4,266 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 17,195 Thanked 11,362 Times in 2,838 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	If your beloved does not answer the phone immediately, do not call 6 times, then try their home phone, texts and any other phone with might be near them. Give them a chance to get back with you. and...this one is important! Under NO circumstances call their PARENTS or EXES looking for them. EVER, I don't care if there is an earthquake....E.V.E.R. If you call me 3 times in a row..somebody better be DEAD or on fire. __________________

10-25-2010, 01:30 PM	#6
Apocalipstic Pink Confection How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, Ma'am Relationship Status: Dating Myself Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Nashville Posts: 4,266 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 17,195 Thanked 11,362 Times in 2,838 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Do not go though your beloved's phone and demand to know who each person in the address book is. Do not read their texts. Do not go through their stuff. and..... Do not go through their emails. If you even tempted, you are too insecure for me and probably to ever be in a successful relationship with anyone normal. __________________

10-25-2010, 01:33 PM	#7
Apocalipstic Pink Confection How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, Ma'am Relationship Status: Dating Myself Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Nashville Posts: 4,266 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 17,195 Thanked 11,362 Times in 2,838 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Never cash a check for your beloved through your bank account. __________________

10-23-2010, 06:14 PM	#2
Rockinonahigh Senior Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: makes no diffrence,I know who I am. Relationship Status: single,maybe looking if the right person comes along. Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: shreveport,Louisiana Posts: 4,907 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,682 Thanked 14,933 Times in 3,938 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	When u meet someone then start talking to them,weather its on the phone/puter or what have you,take your time in geting to know them ..give them time to know u as well.Then if its dosent work out be courtious enough to just not drop them like a hot potato and leave them wondering what happened. Another thing ..dont judge them by how others have treated you in the past.You may well miss the diamond in the rough just waiting to be polished up.

10-23-2010, 07:18 PM	#3
bigbutchmistie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Since You Need A Label. Butch Relationship Status: Still Dreaming Of My Happily Ever After Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Arlington Texas Posts: 4,009 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,950 Thanked 5,364 Times in 1,941 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Do not make your ex priority over your partner

10-25-2010, 01:38 PM	#8
LipstickLola Member How Do You Identify?: Happy Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: planet Earth Posts: 682 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,679 Thanked 1,597 Times in 433 Posts Rep Power: 5678217	If you wanna be friends, fine, but do NOT keep rubbing in my face how awesomely in love with your new schmoopie pie you are, K? __________________ Happiness......it's a choice!!

11-23-2010, 11:06 PM	#9
FlowerFem Member How Do You Identify?: femm Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: dating Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Illinois Posts: 107 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 128 Thanked 163 Times in 51 Posts Rep Power: 286410	laugh Don't treat me nice when no one is around, then use me as the butt of your jokes when we are with your friends. Then tell me to lighten up ,it's just a joke. Don't tell me what you think I want to hear when we first start dating. That's not fair to me. Because I am forming my opinion and my assessments of you will be skewed. Not to mention my disappointment when I final figure out you misrepresented yourself. Don't be irresponsible and then wonder why I don't trust you. Don't come over my house when you have had too much to drink and then want to be intimate. When you say and do things that destroy my trust and diminish and discount our relationship, don't call me a cold hearted bitch, because my heart is broken and my guard is up.