For anyone who has ever had a LDR

katsarecool · 10-30-2010, 08:48 PM

Beautiful and well written. I have had more than my share of LDRs. I would never do it again. It was too painful. A few women and I remain friends to this day but it took awhile to get to that point. The ones who were completely false; oh I won't risk it again. Learned my lesson.

Julie · 10-30-2010, 09:43 PM

They can be amazing and beautiful...
They can be lonely and sad...
They will work or they will not...
They are Hard!

But as so many have said... Those that work have great rewards - those that haven't - have been lessons learned.

They are Hard and if you plan on getting involved in one... Know they take WORK - so much work, especially if they are an airplane away or a continent (lol). Work and Communication.

Blade · 11-26-2010, 07:33 PM

None for me thanks. I need regular skin to skin contact, be it a hug, holding hands, sex or whatever might make our skin touch. 200 miles is the most anyone has lived from me, that's not real far. Long as we can at least meet in between regularly.

LipstickLola · 11-26-2010, 07:42 PM

It's hard, it sucks, and honestly? if you'd told me ten years ago I would be in one? I'd have laughed hysterically in your face.....(wipes spittle from face standing in front of me.....)
But? one cannot help with whom one falls in love with......

Kätzchen · 03-12-2011, 05:04 PM

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Originally Posted by MsW8ing

Thank you so much for sharing with me. I appreciate your thoughts and opinions.

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] ... [/COLOR]Can’t you see me for who I am.
I stand here in the corner invisible to everyone ...

*Hi, MsW8ing*

I happened to be here today reading your poetry and felt led to lift a single line from your poem because over the years in my life, I've felt that - who I am & how I present - as a Femme, caused me to feel as if no one could see me for me; that I was 'invisible.' It's only been since the past summer that I was able to internalize that by being who I am, as I present myself (here online or in everyday life itself), that I am visible: I have come to learn that when I am true to myself and express myself in all the myriad ways I identify; my doing so causes another to notice me and find me (so to speak). I enjoyed your poetry today and thanks for sharing your talent in our online community!

msW8ing · 04-10-2011, 12:15 AM

Thank you for sharing that part about yourself ALovelyKiss. It is much appreciated.I'm so glad that you found yourself so to speak. Self esteem and pride in ourself is so important I hope that everyone can find thiers.

T4Texas · 04-10-2011, 01:35 AM

I was in a LDR that recently ended for nearly two years. It was an 800 mile distance and while that might not seem a lot to people that commute from other countries, it seemed like an ocean to us. We tried to meet every couple months and sometimes met halfway in places like New Orleans which was always a lot of fun, but I always felt constantly frustrated by the distance , the logistics involved and the fact I really wanted to spend a lot of real time with this woman and not just be on the phone. My job did not allow for a lot of time off and hers became less flexible later on. When starting the relationship, I tried to keep a lot of space in it because I did not see it as something permanent and that fact probably didn't help the situation to grow either. We spent a lot of good times over those two years, and I do not regret one minute of it. I loved the girl and would have liked to have it turn into something more permanent, but it didnt and the distance problem was a part of the reason. So consequently, I will not ever do another relationship of that type. Relationships with people are hard enough to maintain without adding additional obstacles.

msW8ing · 04-10-2011, 01:02 PM

T4Texas unfortuneatly thats the bittersweet of the internet and meeting people from all over the world. We cannot control our hearts or emotions no matter how hard we try. And although I know couple that lived states and even countries apart that have made it work for them. I celebrate thier love and thier solid relationships. But, personally for me it never does. I'm with you in that I don't think I would do another LDR. Thank you for your response I do appreciate it. Have a great Sunday.

msW8ing · 04-10-2011, 05:49 PM

Passionatley exploring my body, gently nibbling my breast,
Running my hands softly along the hard muscles of Hys shoulders and chest,
Penetrating my soul with every aggressive, deep, thrust,
O/our bodies entwining deeply, in a love filled lust,
My body, my mind, my heart, my soul, everything about me is Hys.
The way Hy fills me so completely in each and every way, the world ceasing to exist in Hys presence,
Hy slowly slips out of me, sadly, painfully ripping apart my soul,
i feel Hym enter me, once again, i am whole,
i wish for Hym never to stop, begging Hym with my entire being, please, please no.
Wrapping my legs tightly around Hys waist, never wanting to let Hym go.
Gazing deeply into my eyes, as W/we climax together, making O/our two souls complete as one,
To spend eternity by Hys side, tending to Hys every need, Hy is my love, my soul, Hy is my Stone.

10-30-2010, 08:48 PM	#1
katsarecool Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, Woman Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Between Athens and Atlanta, Georgia Posts: 1,236 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,849 Thanked 1,765 Times in 734 Posts Rep Power: 323367	Beautiful and well written. I have had more than my share of LDRs. I would never do it again. It was too painful. A few women and I remain friends to this day but it took awhile to get to that point. The ones who were completely false; oh I won't risk it again. Learned my lesson. __________________

10-30-2010, 09:43 PM	#2
Julie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Angel * Femme * Lesbian * Girl * Woman * Slut * Bitch * Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: No longer a Virgin Bride to Dreamer ~ May 17th, 2014 Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: New York Posts: 4,674 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 17,676 Thanked 18,160 Times in 3,633 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	They can be amazing and beautiful... They can be lonely and sad... They will work or they will not... They are Hard! But as so many have said... Those that work have great rewards - those that haven't - have been lessons learned. They are Hard and if you plan on getting involved in one... Know they take WORK - so much work, especially if they are an airplane away or a continent (lol). Work and Communication. __________________ “Sometimes only one person is missing and the whole world seems depopulated.” ~ Alphonse de Lamartine - 1790-1869 http://i374.photobucket.com/albums/o...ps4d9fb6c0.jpg I Love You ~ I Love Us May 17, 2014

11-26-2010, 07:33 PM	#3
Blade Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: TG Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: once in a while someone amazing comes along...and here I am! Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Down on the farm Posts: 5,501 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,855 Thanked 14,412 Times in 4,058 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	None for me thanks. I need regular skin to skin contact, be it a hug, holding hands, sex or whatever might make our skin touch. 200 miles is the most anyone has lived from me, that's not real far. Long as we can at least meet in between regularly. __________________ Yeah so what if I'm triple dipped in awesome sauce? The best way to predict the future, is to create it.

04-10-2011, 12:15 AM	#6
msW8ing Member How Do You Identify?: multi-faceted gem, femme, submissive babygirl if the chemistry is there. Preferred Pronoun?: lady Relationship Status: working on myself Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Lewiston, Idaho Posts: 920 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,700 Thanked 2,497 Times in 654 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Thank you for sharing that part about yourself ALovelyKiss. It is much appreciated.I'm so glad that you found yourself so to speak. Self esteem and pride in ourself is so important I hope that everyone can find thiers. __________________ *Don't judge me by my past..I don't live there anymore* A lady who knows the ropes..will never be bound. ~Mae West

04-10-2011, 01:35 AM	#7
T4Texas Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Relationship Status: Ready to play again! Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 233 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 436 Thanked 647 Times in 167 Posts Rep Power: 6739722	LDR's I was in a LDR that recently ended for nearly two years. It was an 800 mile distance and while that might not seem a lot to people that commute from other countries, it seemed like an ocean to us. We tried to meet every couple months and sometimes met halfway in places like New Orleans which was always a lot of fun, but I always felt constantly frustrated by the distance , the logistics involved and the fact I really wanted to spend a lot of real time with this woman and not just be on the phone. My job did not allow for a lot of time off and hers became less flexible later on. When starting the relationship, I tried to keep a lot of space in it because I did not see it as something permanent and that fact probably didn't help the situation to grow either. We spent a lot of good times over those two years, and I do not regret one minute of it. I loved the girl and would have liked to have it turn into something more permanent, but it didnt and the distance problem was a part of the reason. So consequently, I will not ever do another relationship of that type. Relationships with people are hard enough to maintain without adding additional obstacles. __________________ Chivalry is when you meet a woman you would rather die for, than live with.

11-26-2010, 07:42 PM	#4
LipstickLola Member How Do You Identify?: Happy Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: planet Earth Posts: 682 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,679 Thanked 1,597 Times in 433 Posts Rep Power: 5678218	It's hard, it sucks, and honestly? if you'd told me ten years ago I would be in one? I'd have laughed hysterically in your face.....(wipes spittle from face standing in front of me.....) But? one cannot help with whom one falls in love with......

04-10-2011, 01:02 PM	#8
msW8ing Member How Do You Identify?: multi-faceted gem, femme, submissive babygirl if the chemistry is there. Preferred Pronoun?: lady Relationship Status: working on myself Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Lewiston, Idaho Posts: 920 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,700 Thanked 2,497 Times in 654 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	T4Texas unfortuneatly thats the bittersweet of the internet and meeting people from all over the world. We cannot control our hearts or emotions no matter how hard we try. And although I know couple that lived states and even countries apart that have made it work for them. I celebrate thier love and thier solid relationships. But, personally for me it never does. I'm with you in that I don't think I would do another LDR. Thank you for your response I do appreciate it. Have a great Sunday. __________________ *Don't judge me by my past..I don't live there anymore* A lady who knows the ropes..will never be bound. ~Mae West

04-10-2011, 05:49 PM	#9
msW8ing Member How Do You Identify?: multi-faceted gem, femme, submissive babygirl if the chemistry is there. Preferred Pronoun?: lady Relationship Status: working on myself Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Lewiston, Idaho Posts: 920 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,700 Thanked 2,497 Times in 654 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	my Stone Passionatley exploring my body, gently nibbling my breast, Running my hands softly along the hard muscles of Hys shoulders and chest, Penetrating my soul with every aggressive, deep, thrust, O/our bodies entwining deeply, in a love filled lust, My body, my mind, my heart, my soul, everything about me is Hys. The way Hy fills me so completely in each and every way, the world ceasing to exist in Hys presence, Hy slowly slips out of me, sadly, painfully ripping apart my soul, i feel Hym enter me, once again, i am whole, i wish for Hym never to stop, begging Hym with my entire being, please, please no. Wrapping my legs tightly around Hys waist, never wanting to let Hym go. Gazing deeply into my eyes, as W/we climax together, making O/our two souls complete as one, To spend eternity by Hys side, tending to Hys every need, Hy is my love, my soul, Hy is my Stone. __________________ *Don't judge me by my past..I don't live there anymore* A lady who knows the ropes..will never be bound. ~Mae West