Big Butch Love

Miss Scarlett · 01-11-2011, 05:56 AM

Here is what this Femme notices (in order of importance):

1 - eyes

2 - mouth, including smile

3 - hands

...

99 - body size

Miss Scarlett · 01-11-2011, 07:23 AM

There's so much more to us all than that number on the scale or the tags in our clothes. A short list of things that matter to me are:

1 - even tempered;

2 - mature, well-mannered, respectful and polite;

3 - personal appearance - as in well groomed;

4 - employed;

5 - emotionally secure/confident - no need to prove themselves to anyone or for any reason;

6 - sense of humour and loves to laugh;

7 - understands the difference between breaking and curbing this high spirited femme;

8 - loves conversation/discussion;

9 - loves animals; and

10 - not hung up on an ex (or exes) and/or will not let an ex move back back in, tell me after the fact and expect me to be OK with it all.

stepfordfemme · 01-11-2011, 10:06 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Miss Scarlett

Here is what this Femme notices (in order of importance):

1 - eyes

2 - mouth, including smile

3 - hands

...

99 - body size

Not me!
If I see a big tall handsome (linebacker to use Cody's word

) I'm done! I'm so in. Its the first thing I notice. Its just the presence and the way they can carry themselves. I love butches that are taller in particular. And if they look like a big farm boi or football player....I'm like melted butter. Broad shoulders are always a plus.Big strong arms & a tummy that I can use like a pillow when cuddling on the couch. Aww sure is nice to dream!

Love to all the big butches!

Leigh · 01-11-2011, 11:35 PM

Its women like all of you that makes butches and guys like us keep fighting to be ourselves because we know that someone out there, somewhere, will love us for who we are ............. thank you

storyofmylife · 01-15-2011, 03:52 AM

Big Butch Love

Leigh · 01-21-2011, 04:41 PM

I love this thread

AnaLee · 02-09-2011, 12:29 AM

Hi all you sweet butches - just dropping in to give you some LOOOOOVE!!!

You handsome hunks are FINE by me.
Sweet thoughts,
ANA

chai~ · 01-19-2012, 02:18 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by stepfordfemmeyyc

Not me!
If I see a big tall handsome (linebacker to use Cody's word

) I'm done! I'm so in. Its the first thing I notice. Its just the presence and the way they can carry themselves. I love butches that are taller in particular. And if they look like a big farm boi or football player....I'm like melted butter. Broad shoulders are always a plus.Big strong arms & a tummy that I can use like a pillow when cuddling on the couch. Aww sure is nice to dream!

Love to all the big butches!

Oh, I am swooning over your description of a tall big butch!

halla~lou~yer!!!!!

*fannin self*

Love to be able to sit on a lap that won't buckle. Arm draped around strong shoulders, eye level....and kiss level~

SugarFemme · 01-19-2012, 03:18 AM

For me, I REALLY like a butch who is comfortable in hys or her own BIG skin. That they don't try and make themselves smaller or invisible due to size. That they take up as much "space" as they need. That they revel in their size. That I am only 5'1" and they are taller and bigger, helps me with that emotional illusion that they can "protect" me if needed. It also fuels my "Daddy" needs. Especially if they are a lot taller than myself. It fulfills me physically to feel that large presence looming over me. Nothing sexier than a big ole confident butch. How yummy is it to feel all that enveloping my being. For me, now that's power.

chai~ · 01-19-2012, 03:51 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by OneOfAKind

For me, I REALLY like a butch who is comfortable in hys or her own BIG skin. That they don't try and make themselves smaller or invisible due to size. That they take up as much "space" as they need. That they revel in their size. That I am only 5'1" and they are taller and bigger, helps me with that emotional illusion that they can "protect" me if needed. It also fuels my "Daddy" needs. Especially if they are a lot taller than myself. It fulfills me physically to feel that large presence looming over me. Nothing sexier than a big ole confident butch. How yummy is it to feel all that enveloping my being. For me, now that's power.

ditto and such a delicious way to put it!
I am all of 5 foot myself, so really, it doesn't take much to be taller than me!

It's really a turn on to still have to look up while wearing heels!

smouldering · 01-20-2012, 05:49 AM

Peekin in to say hello to all the sexy big butches and other admirers

I am not so petite hehe I am 5'7 and have been taller then all but one of my partners.. but i don't mind so much about height.

Everyone keeping warm who are in the wintry areas?

chai~ · 01-20-2012, 09:14 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by smouldering

Peekin in to say hello to all the sexy big butches and other admirers

I am not so petite hehe I am 5'7 and have been taller then all but one of my partners.. but i don't mind so much about height.

Everyone keeping warm who are in the wintry areas?

Cold here on the west coast of Canada, but we are a hearty bunch!

I've always wanted to be 5'6, always thought that was "just perfect", in the middle of short and tall.

Wasn't gifted that way, but my feet do reach the ground!

Happy Friday!!!!

01-11-2011, 11:35 PM	#4
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,024 Times in 4,784 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	Its women like all of you that makes butches and guys like us keep fighting to be ourselves because we know that someone out there, somewhere, will love us for who we are ............. thank you __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"

01-21-2011, 04:41 PM	#6
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01-20-2012, 05:49 AM	#11
smouldering Member How Do You Identify?: Punky girly girl, glittery femme Preferred Pronoun?: she, her, etc. Relationship Status: Single, Recovering Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Ohio Posts: 1,288 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,306 Thanked 3,974 Times in 924 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Peekin in to say hello to all the sexy big butches and other admirers I am not so petite hehe I am 5'7 and have been taller then all but one of my partners.. but i don't mind so much about height. Everyone keeping warm who are in the wintry areas? __________________ ~~Smouldering~~ Suit the action to the word, the word to the action. ~William Shakespeare

01-11-2011, 05:56 AM	#1
Miss Scarlett Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Relationship Status: . Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: . Posts: 5,530 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,478 Thanked 12,947 Times in 3,419 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Here is what this Femme notices (in order of importance): 1 - eyes 2 - mouth, including smile 3 - hands ... 99 - body size

01-11-2011, 07:23 AM	#2
Miss Scarlett Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Relationship Status: . Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: . Posts: 5,530 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,478 Thanked 12,947 Times in 3,419 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	There's so much more to us all than that number on the scale or the tags in our clothes. A short list of things that matter to me are: 1 - even tempered; 2 - mature, well-mannered, respectful and polite; 3 - personal appearance - as in well groomed; 4 - employed; 5 - emotionally secure/confident - no need to prove themselves to anyone or for any reason; 6 - sense of humour and loves to laugh; 7 - understands the difference between breaking and curbing this high spirited femme; 8 - loves conversation/discussion; 9 - loves animals; and 10 - not hung up on an ex (or exes) and/or will not let an ex move back back in, tell me after the fact and expect me to be OK with it all.

01-15-2011, 03:52 AM	#5
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02-09-2011, 12:29 AM	#7
AnaLee Junior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she's a femme, dawg! Relationship Status: one toe in Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: downriver Posts: 23 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3 Thanked 33 Times in 12 Posts Rep Power: 985	Hi all you sweet butches - just dropping in to give you some LOOOOOVE!!! You handsome hunks are FINE by me. Sweet thoughts, ANA

01-19-2012, 03:18 AM	#9
SugarFemme Member How Do You Identify?: Fierce Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Singular Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: Southwest Posts: 1,029 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 650 Thanked 4,458 Times in 854 Posts Rep Power*: 21474851	For me, I REALLY like a butch who is comfortable in hys or her own BIG skin. That they don't try and make themselves smaller or invisible due to size. That they take up as much "space" as they need. That they revel in their size. That I am only 5'1" and they are taller and bigger, helps me with that emotional illusion that they can "protect" me if needed. It also fuels my "Daddy" needs. Especially if they are a lot taller than myself. It fulfills me physically to feel that large presence looming over me. Nothing sexier than a big ole confident butch. How yummy is it to feel all that enveloping my being. For me, now that's power.