Our Answers To Big Questions

Gemme · 02-08-2011, 07:58 PM

I got distracted while posting earlier and I forgot something about colors.

There's a strong influence with pride and colors. Red/white/blue have been taught to us to equal national pride. The colors of one's flag of origin usually brings forth pride. With the superbowl as an example, there's even a song on the radio RIGHT NOW depicting the link between color and pride...."Black and yellow"...about the Steelers and Pittsburgh pride.

Blade · 02-27-2011, 11:17 AM

Question 2/27

What's the fine line between seeing that your needs are met and being selfish?

princessbelle · 02-27-2011, 11:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Blade

Question 2/27

What's the fine line between seeing that your needs are met and being selfish?

Wow great question. My honest answer is I don't know.

I think i probably struggle with this one. I tend to be on the "oh i'm ok, no problems" side rather than risk appearing selfish. But in doing that it is also performing an injustice to myself.

I agree it is a fine line and I admit i need to work on this one.

Thanks for the question!!!!

weatherboi · 02-27-2011, 11:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Blade

Question 2/27

What's the fine line between seeing that your needs are met and being selfish?

I am not sure if that fine line can be identified because it seems both those things would be in a constant state of relativity with each other. I guess finding a balance between both would be a start.

Blade · 02-27-2011, 07:37 PM

Not sure I know the answer to this either. I've seen good times and hard times. Usually my hard times were my own fault and my good times were due to my hard work. Though I have had times that were hard that were beyond my control.

I guess what I'm saying is it selfish to have all my needs met and have 3 motorcycles, 4 trucks, 2 cars, a camper, a house and land and contribute to charity and have money in the bank. I don't think so not when you work for it. Would it be selfish if I saw someone in need and not help them, knowing I had everything I needed and much more, sure it would.

I think sometimes we think we need more than we actually do. Why have 4 trucks? Well I bought them all new and paid for them and didn't trade them, they were mine and they weren't eating anything. Did I need them NO, but I was glad to have them when other people needed something to drive, due to various reasons.

So I'm on the fence on this question. shrugs....

Soft*Silver · 02-27-2011, 07:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Blade

Question 2/27

What's the fine line between seeing that your needs are met and being selfish?

this is an easy one. Being selfish is when you put your needs above all others. Getting your needs met is simply standing in line...

Gemme · 03-10-2011, 05:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Blade

Question 2/27

What's the fine line between seeing that your needs are met and being selfish?

The two are not necessarily related. You can be one and not the other or have both circumstances at the same time. I'm not exactly sure how to answer this one.

Blade · 03-11-2011, 07:50 PM

QUESTION 3/11

Would you like to know the precise date of your death?
Why or why not??

Gemme · 03-11-2011, 09:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Blade

QUESTION 3/11

Would you like to know the precise date of your death?
Why or why not??

Absolutely. If I was the only one who knew. I'm not as squicked out by death as many people are. It would give me freedom to actually live my life, I think, and the time to plan things just so, in order to make sure that I get done what I need to get done before I go. The planner and list maker in me would just go bananas with this information. I would see it as a personal challenge to see if I can do everything I want and need to do before the bell dings.

Soft*Silver · 03-11-2011, 10:17 PM

oh no. I remember holding onto the knowledge that my dad had terminal liver cancer before we shared it with him. That knowledge ate a hole in my heart, even tho it gave me an opportunity to take advantage of every precious moment left to enjoy with him. It also made every moment passing an incredible loss.

I want to just live my life as tho I wouldnt regret it if I didnt wake up tomorrow. I have had one of the most colorful and adventuresome lives I have heard of. Few compare. I have had my share of mistakes but I have also done great strides to correct them. Right now I am in a low zone but trust me, 3 years out of 54 is a short cycle. (smiling brightly) what a wonderful life I have and will continue to have! I dont want a finish line looming anywhere out there ....

Venus007 · 03-12-2011, 08:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Blade

QUESTION 3/11

Would you like to know the precise date of your death?
Why or why not??

I would want to know so it would be clearly out there and I could plan accordingly as well as ready myself emotionally for it (insomuch as one can ready ones self for the end of being). Not to mention it would take the pressure off about oh say worrying about parachuting or base jumping or simply driving in Houston rush hour traffic. I don't think I would want anyone to know my date but me until it got close because it would cause a change in the dynamic of the relationship.

weatherboi · 03-12-2011, 10:33 AM

I would love to know then I can plan not to show up that day.

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QUESTION 3/11

Would you like to know the precise date of your death?
Why or why not??

CrankyOldGuy · 03-12-2011, 11:39 AM

not sure i'd like to know when. it's more like how?

Gemme · 03-12-2011, 08:05 PM

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I would love to know then I can plan not to show up that day.

Unfortunately, that never works, Grant. Have you seen any of the Final Destination movies?

Blade · 03-16-2011, 01:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Blade

QUESTION 3/11

Would you like to know the precise date of your death?
Why or why not??

Not sure I'd like to know how or when. I think that would change the dynamics of many of my relationships. Especially my relationship with me.

meridiantoo · 03-10-2013, 12:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Blade

QUESTION 3/11

Would you like to know the precise date of your death?
Why or why not??

Personally, I would focus too much on that if I knew. I like to live knowing my time is limited, in a way that this may be my last day. But, if I knew exactly when, I would live differently, I think, and not necessarily in a positive way.

Soft*Silver · 09-08-2013, 06:02 PM

I wish Blade would ask big questions...

Smiling · 09-08-2013, 08:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Blade

QUESTION 3/11

Would you like to know the precise date of your death?
Why or why not??

I think the "correct" reply would be to say no; because I already live each day as though it were my last. However, that would be disingenuous. [I do try to be mindful, though!].

So, yes; I would absolutely like to know the day, but not the how. Having an exact date has a way of putting everything into proper perspective. I believe it would give me the strength to say and do the things I need to but cannot bring myself to for whatever reason....

Gemme · 09-10-2013, 03:21 PM

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So, yes; I would absolutely like to know the day, but not the how.

Yeah, it would be a total bummer to know that you're gonna get smashed to smithereens by a flaming toilet seat.

Smiling · 09-11-2013, 12:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Gemme

Yeah, it would be a total bummer to know that you're gonna get smashed to smithereens by a flaming toilet seat.

lmao; you're not kidding!

02-08-2011, 07:58 PM	#1
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02-27-2011, 11:17 AM	#2
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02-27-2011, 07:37 PM	#5
Blade Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: TG Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: once in a while someone amazing comes along...and here I am! Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Down on the farm Posts: 5,501 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,855 Thanked 14,413 Times in 4,058 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Not sure I know the answer to this either. I've seen good times and hard times. Usually my hard times were my own fault and my good times were due to my hard work. Though I have had times that were hard that were beyond my control. I guess what I'm saying is it selfish to have all my needs met and have 3 motorcycles, 4 trucks, 2 cars, a camper, a house and land and contribute to charity and have money in the bank. I don't think so not when you work for it. Would it be selfish if I saw someone in need and not help them, knowing I had everything I needed and much more, sure it would. I think sometimes we think we need more than we actually do. Why have 4 trucks? Well I bought them all new and paid for them and didn't trade them, they were mine and they weren't eating anything. Did I need them NO, but I was glad to have them when other people needed something to drive, due to various reasons. So I'm on the fence on this question. shrugs.... __________________ Yeah so what if I'm triple dipped in awesome sauce? The best way to predict the future, is to create it.

03-11-2011, 07:50 PM	#8
Blade Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: TG Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: once in a while someone amazing comes along...and here I am! Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Down on the farm Posts: 5,501 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,855 Thanked 14,413 Times in 4,058 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	QUESTION 3/11 Would you like to know the precise date of your death? Why or why not?? __________________ Yeah so what if I'm triple dipped in awesome sauce? The best way to predict the future, is to create it.

03-11-2011, 10:17 PM	#10
SoftSilver Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: rose cottage Posts: 5,592 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,948 Thanked 15,894 Times in 4,062 Posts Rep Power*: 21474857	oh no. I remember holding onto the knowledge that my dad had terminal liver cancer before we shared it with him. That knowledge ate a hole in my heart, even tho it gave me an opportunity to take advantage of every precious moment left to enjoy with him. It also made every moment passing an incredible loss. I want to just live my life as tho I wouldnt regret it if I didnt wake up tomorrow. I have had one of the most colorful and adventuresome lives I have heard of. Few compare. I have had my share of mistakes but I have also done great strides to correct them. Right now I am in a low zone but trust me, 3 years out of 54 is a short cycle. (smiling brightly) what a wonderful life I have and will continue to have! I dont want a finish line looming anywhere out there .... __________________ Pole bachit, a lis chuye. The field sees, the forest hears

03-12-2011, 11:39 AM	#13
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09-08-2013, 06:02 PM	#17
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