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|  05-04-2011, 07:44 AM | #1 | |
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|  05-04-2011, 08:38 AM | #2 | 
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			I am a closet quitter these days... Though Gaea knows! I watch and read about you all - so PROUD of you. I am two weeks today. I did the E-Cig for about 3 days and then just stopped. I have not gained any weight, though I have not lost any. BUT - my vocal chords are healing and my voice is not so raspy - so this is GOOD. That's all! Just wanted to share - YAY 
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 CONGRATULATIONS!!!! EXCELLENT JOB!!!! KEEP IT UP!!!!! 
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|  05-04-2011, 04:30 PM | #4 | |
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|  05-04-2011, 04:51 PM | #5 | |
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			Ami and I are working on 3 years. Yey us!
		 
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			Hey Dapper--I'll keep it short(if i can)  lol My son wrote me a persuasive letter that motivated me to start trying to quit. I went to a dr who put me on nicotine suckers and wellbutrion. that worked for about 3 days...Stress was a big factor in my life and smoking was my crutch so i went back to smoking for a couple yrs...in 2004 i again tried the patches WITH the gum....all that did was make me want to smoke more...fast forward to early 2008--i had to have a partial hysterectomy and vulvectomy and was gonna be off work for awhile--and my partner had gotten chantix so i thought i'd try one more time...within 10 days eveytime i lit up id get sick to my stomach..2 days after Mothers Day I woke up,tossed the rest of cigs in the trash and said " no more" i didnt say anytihng to my son bc i had already failed before so i was clean a month before i ever told him....the first 2 yrs i would get crazy cravings which were hard to fight,but i managed to keep busy(and my store was the cleanest store in the south  )  I still think about lighting up from time to time but i dont..   they say ur lung function increases drastically once you quit..altho my breathing has gotten better it is nowhere near where i would like it or i think it should be...the weight gain wasnt an issue til about a yr ago--perhaps when my taste buds recuperated completely...i was managing to keep it off till this latest back injury So much for keeping it short...lol. chantix was my saving grace...i know without it i would never had quit...all i can say to anyone trying to quit..NEVER GIVE UP!! it is a very powerful addiction,but you can beat it Good Luck to those trying! | 
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|  05-04-2011, 09:18 PM | #8 | |
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|  05-04-2011, 11:03 PM | #9 | 
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			Congrats to all who have quit and to those who are in the process of deciding to!  As of an hour ago, it has now been 4 months since I laid the smokes down and said, "I'm done smoking." I quit cold turkey with a pack and a half in the house. I did not find it really difficult but I was so ready to quit. At the time I quit, I was a 2 pack a day smoker and truly miss the hand to mouth thing more than the actual smoking. I occasionally use an electronic cig now when I experience cravings or just want the smoking sensation, but even then I use a nicotine free solution. It's odd, I have cravings but I absolutely have no desire to smoke a cig. I love that my house and clothing does not smell like an ashtray. I know some disagree and that's okay, but I definitely consider myself a non-smoker because I know my mindset and intentions. 
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|  05-05-2011, 07:48 AM | #10 | |
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|  05-05-2011, 08:42 AM | #11 | 
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			Gaea, I think if a person is consistently not smoking then they are a non-smoker. So if you are not smoking then I too consider you a non smoker! Congrats on quitting by the way! 
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|  05-06-2011, 06:54 AM | #12 | 
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			I had a moment last night a moment of self doubt that snuck in and old behavior the instinct to want a cigarette because i somehow allowed a belief that whatever was upsetting me couldn't be dealt with without the cigarette.. Oh yes they can those moments can be pushed through and gotten through. and although i stated the words " i want a cigarette" they were quickly taken back i don't want to ever smoke again a day in my life. now i get to learn to not allow my thoughts to upset me.... 
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|  05-04-2011, 07:39 PM | #13 | 
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			Oh, I only quit drinking all the beer I was drinking with my buddies.  I drink lots of water and an occasional Sobe pomegranite from time to time.   Giving up the beer made it easier for me to quit smoking since I started out only smoking when I drank. Now I can have a beer or two once in a while and not have a cig craving.   
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|  05-04-2011, 07:58 PM | #14 | 
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			beer was definitely something i had to give up when i quit...the 2 just went together....hell i just recently(in last few months) even tried to have a beer and i am proud to say i didnt even crave a smoke!
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