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Sachita · 07-17-2011, 11:40 AM

speaking of fishing I think I'm going to grab the kayak and go drop a line. kisses see ya'll later.

WolfyOne · 07-17-2011, 11:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Sachita

awwww now you're talking! Polite, a little flirty but genuine. It keeps the doors of friendship open. You can flirt with me anytime love muffins and should you find yourself in my neck of the woods I'll even take you fishing. Don't count on my going to OK- never was on my list.

I'm still remembering, way back, you said you'd make a home cooked meal if I ever got your way
I like to flirt and have been told I can be charming
I enjoy mental stimulation with a like minded person
Learning something new every day is exciting, no matter how small
OK swept me up due to 2 women I was with in IL and both from OK
I moved here with the second one and stayed after the break up

Fishing, good eats and conversation...couldn't think of a better way to start a friendship in person

WolfyOne · 07-17-2011, 11:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Sachita

speaking of fishing I think I'm going to grab the kayak and go drop a line. kisses see ya'll later.

Tease me while I'm home slaving over laundry, lol

Catch something good enough to eat
Enjoy yourself on the lake

Sachita · 07-17-2011, 12:14 PM

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Originally Posted by WolfyOne

Tease me while I'm home slaving over laundry, lol

Catch something good enough to eat
Enjoy yourself on the lake

actually i'm too sleepy now. I looked at the kayak, it looked back at me and said, "its too hot Tamara- the fish are at the bottom of the lake."

So come do my laundry and bring me something to eat in bed. I'll find us a few good movies and we'll rub each others feet whilst we tell stories.

I'll cook next time. I am an awesome cook. I promise to make you melt with my good food and charming hospitality.

WolfyOne · 07-17-2011, 12:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Sachita

actually i'm too sleepy now. I looked at the kayak, it looked back at me and said, "its too hot Tamara- the fish are at the bottom of the lake."

So come do my laundry and bring me something to eat in bed. I'll find us a few good movies and we'll rub each others feet whilst we tell stories.

I'll cook next time. I am an awesome cook. I promise to make you melt with my good food and charming hospitality.

I agree, it's too hot to fish or kayak(never been in one)

I did my ex's laundry for all the years we were together
I'm anal about how my clothes get folded, much easier to do than hurt feelings
Besides I never mind doing laundry for anyone
Once again, if there wasn't this distance, food to go, movies and the foot rubs would be great, but I'd rather have my back scratched and scratched again. Can always get conversation out of me and hold my attention, lol.

Home cooked meal and 2 charmers in one place
Oh the conversation we could have <raises eyebrow>

*Anya* · 07-17-2011, 01:38 PM

I got this comment on my page but do not see it here. As it is another perspective, thought it was worth posting. Thanks popcorn, honesty always appreciated.

"Single Butches & Femmes... 07-17-2011 09:41 AM
no private communication/real time plans to meet= no interest"

Invictus · 07-17-2011, 04:53 PM

Self admitted 2x4 Butch

Maybe its just the Old Fashioned/Old School in me

MysticOceansFL · 07-17-2011, 05:52 PM

Hello , singles hope everyone had a great week end!!

WolfyOne · 07-17-2011, 05:53 PM

A friend shared this with me today
Thought this would be a good place to share with others

http://positive-thoughts.typepad.com...r-purpose.html

bigbutchmistie · 07-17-2011, 07:04 PM

So who wants coffee and who wants frappuccino's? Let me know. Im here to serve coffee...

How is everyone's Sunday going?

Delish · 07-18-2011, 05:39 AM

Good morning everyone! I hope y'all had a fabulous weekend. It's beautiful here. Think I'm going to take my babies for a long walk Have a great day!!!

Sachita · 07-18-2011, 07:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Invictus

Self admitted 2x4 Butch

Maybe its just the Old Fashioned/Old School in me

How's that working for you? I'm serious. Is there a reason why? are you shy? Tell us how it works. I really want to know as I am sure many femmes here wanna know.

You can't blame it on old school because it has nothing to do with old school. I've been queer a long long time, at least 25 years and in the past old school dykes did approach femmes and make a plan to woooo them.

Sachita · 07-18-2011, 07:30 AM

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Originally Posted by bigbutchmistie

So who wants coffee and who wants frappuccino's? Let me know. Im here to serve coffee...

How is everyone's Sunday going?

awwww you're such a sweet boi. Java made in the press pot

WolfyOne · 07-18-2011, 11:41 AM

Popping in to say hey
My work day is over since it starts at 6am
Going to do a few chores and hunker down with a book afterwards

Hope everyone is having a good start to their work week

Invictus · 07-18-2011, 04:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Sachita

How's that working for you? I'm serious. Is there a reason why? are you shy? Tell us how it works. I really want to know as I am sure many femmes here wanna know.

You can't blame it on old school because it has nothing to do with old school. I've been queer a long long time, at least 25 years and in the past old school dykes did approach femmes and make a plan to woooo them.

Perhaps I should have been more specific, 2x4 when it comes to online chat. It is very difficult for someone to catch tone and the subtleties of speech, while reading someones post. When we read, we tend to hear our own voice in our head, and therefore emphasis where it be misinterpreted, or missed completely, until the receiver has a clearer understanding of the sender. For example... in the following phrase, how much money do have?

twenty two dollar bills

Communication, where the sender and receiver are speaking, is much easier to understand.

Invictus · 07-19-2011, 06:56 AM

Good morning everyone

Sweet_Amor_Taino · 07-19-2011, 07:11 AM

The top of the morning to everyone

Sachita · 07-19-2011, 07:14 AM

I wish I could hold someone and slow dance for a long time. No talking, no conversation.... just holding and swaying to some soft R&B.

Good morning

Inked_Trinity · 07-19-2011, 07:17 AM

Morning everyone! Feeling a bit more myself today after getting knocked out in the ring this weekend. Vision is pretty much back to normal. Ready to take the world on again!

*Anya* · 07-19-2011, 07:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Sachita

I wish I could hold someone and slow dance for a long time. No talking, no conversation.... just holding and swaying to some soft R&B.

Good morning

Slow dancing can be the sexiest, hottest, ever! Totally agree

07-17-2011, 11:40 AM	#41
Sachita Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Alpha Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Goddess Relationship Status: Completely in love Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Southern Virginia Posts: 3,225 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,564 Thanked 8,994 Times in 2,247 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	speaking of fishing I think I'm going to grab the kayak and go drop a line. kisses see ya'll later. __________________ You either like me or you don't. It took me Twenty-something years to learn how to love myself, I don't have that kinda time to convince somebody else. ~ Daniel Franzese

07-17-2011, 01:38 PM	#46
Anya Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Lesbian non-stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her Relationship Status: Committed to being good to myself Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: West Coast Posts: 8,258 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 39,306 Thanked 40,459 Times in 7,283 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Telling it like it is I got this comment on my page but do not see it here. As it is another perspective, thought it was worth posting. Thanks popcorn, honesty always appreciated. "Single Butches & Femmes... 07-17-2011 09:41 AM no private communication/real time plans to meet= no interest" __________________ ~Anya~ Democracy Dies in Darkness ~Washington Post "...I'm deeply concerned by recently adopted policies which punish children for their parents’ actions ... The thought that any State would seek to deter parents by inflicting such abuse on children is unconscionable." UN Human Rights commissioner

07-17-2011, 05:52 PM	#48
MysticOceansFL Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch, Preferred Pronoun?: People call me by my nic name. Relationship Status: Not Single, Not Desperate. Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Florida Posts: 3,833 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,645 Thanked 4,033 Times in 1,720 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	Hello , singles hope everyone had a great week end!! __________________ Faith is not belief without proof, but trust without reservation. It is said, " Some lives are linked across time..... Connected by an ancient calling that echoes through the ages "......

07-17-2011, 05:53 PM	#49
WolfyOne Magically Delicious How Do You Identify?: Gentle Butch Relationship Status: Single and content Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Minnesota Posts: 6,558 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,052 Thanked 15,397 Times in 4,140 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	A friend shared this with me today Thought this would be a good place to share with others http://positive-thoughts.typepad.com...r-purpose.html __________________ Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength; loving someone deeply gives you courage --- Lao Tzo

07-18-2011, 05:39 AM	#51
Delish Member How Do You Identify?: Queen of our castle Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: She put a ring on it and the date is set :) Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Missouri...in her arms :) Posts: 1,089 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,279 Thanked 834 Times in 427 Posts Rep Power: 3888561	Good morning everyone! I hope y'all had a fabulous weekend. It's beautiful here. Think I'm going to take my babies for a long walk Have a great day!!! __________________

07-17-2011, 04:53 PM	#47
Invictus Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Butch Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Las Vegas Posts: 298 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 140 Thanked 344 Times in 165 Posts Rep Power: 1681235	Self admitted 2x4 Butch Maybe its just the Old Fashioned/Old School in me

07-17-2011, 07:04 PM	#50
bigbutchmistie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Since You Need A Label. Butch Relationship Status: Still Dreaming Of My Happily Ever After Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Arlington Texas Posts: 4,009 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,950 Thanked 5,364 Times in 1,941 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	So who wants coffee and who wants frappuccino's? Let me know. Im here to serve coffee... How is everyone's Sunday going?

07-18-2011, 11:41 AM	#54
WolfyOne Magically Delicious How Do You Identify?: Gentle Butch Relationship Status: Single and content Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Minnesota Posts: 6,558 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,052 Thanked 15,397 Times in 4,140 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Popping in to say hey My work day is over since it starts at 6am Going to do a few chores and hunker down with a book afterwards Hope everyone is having a good start to their work week __________________ Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength; loving someone deeply gives you courage --- Lao Tzo

07-19-2011, 06:56 AM	#56
Invictus Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Butch Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Las Vegas Posts: 298 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 140 Thanked 344 Times in 165 Posts Rep Power: 1681235	Good morning everyone

07-19-2011, 07:11 AM	#57
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07-19-2011, 07:14 AM	#58
Sachita Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Alpha Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Goddess Relationship Status: Completely in love Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Southern Virginia Posts: 3,225 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,564 Thanked 8,994 Times in 2,247 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	I wish I could hold someone and slow dance for a long time. No talking, no conversation.... just holding and swaying to some soft R&B. Good morning __________________ You either like me or you don't. It took me Twenty-something years to learn how to love myself, I don't have that kinda time to convince somebody else. ~ Daniel Franzese

07-19-2011, 07:17 AM	#59
Inked_Trinity Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: BadAss! / Sarcastic Bastard! Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Earth Posts: 2,352 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,507 Thanked 6,926 Times in 1,818 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Morning everyone! Feeling a bit more myself today after getting knocked out in the ring this weekend. Vision is pretty much back to normal. Ready to take the world on again! __________________ Tell me I can't do it.. then stand back and watch me amaze you.