A look at Polygamy - Future Family Model

[Sachita]

Hey Sassy I want to come live with you guys. Can I be the Mommy? We'd have a problem with the bathroom tho. But I'm a hell of an angler, great cook, gardener and outdoors woman.

[Apocalipstic]

I liked the question you asked about family...people living together sharing everything and not having sex....would that be poly?

I don't know for me. Maybe it would work and maybe that is something to consider.

I am the Momi too. For I long time I thought I might be a Femme Daddy, but I do know for sure now that I am a Momi. I am not submissive at all, but like having Daddy energy around in a Momi/Daddy kind of way and I like to have a baby or girl or pool boi..etc..who is submissive to me. Even if I have a one on one relationship with someone, I like having a sidekick to do stuff with or for me. I am a handful lol.

I am jealous when lied to and manipulated, but if all info is out on the table I am really not.

Jealousy is a horrible, mind killing thing....getting past it is beautiful.

I can see where this would work well logistically with a farm, but in city life it works well too. More income, another set of hands, more love, more fun....less pressure to be the perfect daughter in law....

It takes very very confident people to live this I can tell.

Thank all of you so much for sharing, I look forward to reading more!

[girl_dee]

More input:

I know it's just a reality show but the show Sister Wives on TLC opened my eyes to a LOT of things.

The wives have their own very solid relationship outside of the husband (butch in our case)

One is a outside the home worker who brings in a financial income, that is how she serves the family. When she gets home her kids have done their homework, dinner is ready for family. She gets to enjoy them !

Second also works outside the home, she also does lots of household stuff too, this feeds her soul and she is the typical soccer mom.

Third wife, the first wife is the domesticated wife. She loves to stay home, get the house clean and wait for kids to come home from school.

My point? Each has a place and they operate like a well oiled machine.

I am the domesticated wife, who also feeds her soul with healing and bringing in some financial support.

My Sister runs a very successful clinic in which she serves this family and others everyday. I make sure she has a wonderful love filled lunch and we have a family dinner everynight, that feeds my soul.
Is it perfect? No. Is it heaven? yes.

[Sachita]

Originally Posted by sassy_girl

More input:

I know it's just a reality show but the show Sister Wives on TLC opened my eyes to a LOT of things.

The wives have their own very solid relationship outside of the husband (butch in our case)

One is a outside the home worker who brings in a financial income, that is how she serves the family. When she gets home her kids have done their homework, dinner is ready for family. She gets to enjoy them !

Second also works outside the home, she also does lots of household stuff too, this feeds her soul and she is the typical soccer mom.

Third wife, the first wife is the domesticated wife. She loves to stay home, get the house clean and wait for kids to come home from school.

My point? Each has a place and they operate like a well oiled machine.

I am the domesticated wife, who also feeds her soul with healing and bringing in some financial support.

My Sister runs a very successful clinic in which she serves this family and others everyday. I make sure she has a wonderful love filled lunch and we have a family dinner everynight, that feeds my soul.
Is it perfect? No. Is it heaven? yes.

It would need to be a well oiled machine and everyone doing what inspires them in that dynamic. Some domestic, others not. If I had to do housework and laundry I think I'd get resentful and be a grumpy girl. But I am a good provider, good managing things and great at running a household as long as someone cleans.

I like Sister Wives but think they have too many damn kids!

[Apocalipstic]

I want to make clear that I am looking at Polyamory, not Polygamy. I did not read closely enough.

[WolfyOne]

Interesting thread and I'm enjoying the read while I wait for the dryer to stop, so I can fold sheets

Every day I learn something new whether I think I do or not
Today Sassy has brought words with definitions to this thread that I was clueless about

[girl_dee]

There is also a difference between and open poly relationship and a closed one.
We are CLOSED lol. We don't venture outside this marriage or invite others in.
I think Syr has her hands full anyway


Sachita you would love having a very domesticated wife. I LOVE being the more domesticated wife!! my Sister is very domesticated but 1) She does not love housework like I do and 2) She runs a business outside the home, the girl is spread so thin now! She also runs a yoga/dance class once a week, lots of stuff to keep her busy and enjoy life!


I was given the domestic duties once I came here to stay for a while, I LOVE IT!!!!! *Kisses Syr's boots* for giving me this. Now everyone can relax and leave that mess in the sink because it's dee's job to take care of. I love giving this back to people that have done everything in the world for me!

We run a farm here, Syr runs the farm, I help. It's neverending chores, especially in the summer...Sister runs her clinic, I will be joining her very soon as I do bodywork too, so we will connect on that level at her clinic too! How blessed I am!

I am the one who makes sure everyone has a good meal to eat, the groceries are stocked, shirts are ironed (YUM), the house is clean, the dogs are fed and well, etc etc. I like that they come into a fairly clean house while they are out making this place happen. Our nightly family dinner is the highlight of my day. Meals are not on the run and we have quality time together to talk about our day.

As Syr's slave and *housewife* I have received an allowance for the work I do here, soon I will be generating somewhat of an income but for now how lucky I am! They actually want to pay me for what I do! LOL it's such a joy I can't even imagine ....

[Sachita]

Originally Posted by apocalipstic

I liked the question you asked about family...people living together sharing everything and not having sex....would that be poly?

I don't know for me. Maybe it would work and maybe that is something to consider.

I am the Momi too. For I long time I thought I might be a Femme Daddy, but I do know for sure now that I am a Momi. I am not submissive at all, but like having Daddy energy around in a Momi/Daddy kind of way and I like to have a baby or girl or pool boi..etc..who is submissive to me. Even if I have a one on one relationship with someone, I like having a sidekick to do stuff with or for me. I am a handful lol.

I am jealous when lied to and manipulated, but if all info is out on the table I am really not.

Jealousy is a horrible, mind killing thing....getting past it is beautiful.

I can see where this would work well logistically with a farm, but in city life it works well too. More income, another set of hands, more love, more fun....less pressure to be the perfect daughter in law....

It takes very very confident people to live this I can tell.

Thank all of you so much for sharing, I look forward to reading more!

I think living collectively would be a type of commune. I think this is cool too and see myself living with a group of people. But I also think the concept of poly, people sharing intimate lives is really wonderful. I don't know what degree of this is for me. I'm just curious and you never know!

[girl_dee]

Originally Posted by Sachita

Hey Sassy I want to come live with you guys. Can I be the Mommy? We'd have a problem with the bathroom tho. But I'm a hell of an angler, great cook, gardener and outdoors woman.

LOL hahah.. oh my......