whats your style

clay · 07-30-2011, 07:00 AM

Hunter, definitely! Must be that Leo in me! <wink>

07-30-2011, 07:18 AM

Predator

bigbutchmistie · 07-30-2011, 07:29 AM

Its the shyness that I have. So I would say I am the prey. I need to be pursued..

jelli · 07-30-2011, 08:00 AM

I will pursue enough to make sure that I am the prey.

luv2luvgirls · 07-30-2011, 08:03 AM

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Originally Posted by jelli

I will pursue enough to make sure that I am the prey.

LOL I like that answer thanks

luv2luvgirls · 07-30-2011, 08:02 AM

I tend to be the hunter...but im not gonna lie I dont mind a femme hunting me for a change lol...

So Incubus, Lady Snow and Claybaby..in life are you a go getter and competitive? I tend to get gungho at work and in games lol

Bigbutchmistie....so do you think its because you are shy you dont persue?

clay · 07-30-2011, 08:06 AM

Yes ma'am....competitive to a degree....in affairs of the heart....not so much! I want someone to WANT to be with me....if competition is involved...I am "walk away, Jo"...<wink>

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Originally Posted by luv2luvgirls

I tend to be the hunter...but im not gonna lie I dont mind a femme hunting me for a change lol...

So Invitucus, Lady Snow and Claybaby..in life are you a go getter and competitive? I tend to get gungho at work and in games lol

Bigbutchmistie....so do you think its because you are shy you dont persue?

luv2luvgirls · 07-30-2011, 08:09 AM

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Originally Posted by claybabytwo

Yes ma'am....competitive to a degree....in affairs of the heart....not so much! I want someone to WANT to be with me....if competition is involved...I am "walk away, Jo"...<wink>

couldnt have said it better dude!!

clay · 07-30-2011, 08:11 AM

Thanks, dude!!!!

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Originally Posted by luv2luvgirls

couldnt have said it better dude!!

bigbutchmistie · 07-30-2011, 10:27 AM

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Originally Posted by luv2luvgirls

I tend to be the hunter...but im not gonna lie I dont mind a femme hunting me for a change lol...

So Incubus, Lady Snow and Claybaby..in life are you a go getter and competitive? I tend to get gungho at work and in games lol

Bigbutchmistie....so do you think its because you are shy you dont persue?

Yes, its because I am shy that I dont pursue...

The_Lady_Snow · 07-30-2011, 10:32 AM

I don't think I'm competitive at least that's not how I carry that natural ability to want to be successful or attain things I may want or desire. It's just is what it is..

tiggs · 07-30-2011, 10:49 AM

I am definitely the prey, I wouldn't have it any other way. If I am interested in someone I will let them know with coy flirting, smiles and the like but I will not initiate at all, guess I am old fashioned that way. That and the dominant, alpha personality thing is so dang sexy *fans self*. lol

luv2luvgirls · 07-30-2011, 10:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Violette

Yes, I think it does. I am shy when it comes to pursuing/being pursued. Professionally, not shy at all.

I too, wonder if the shyness around romance is socialized in me as well. Or maybe not being out for very long has something to do with my shyness. Don't know, seems the older I get the more shy I am. Oddly, though, the older I get the more confident I am as a person. Okay, I don't have a clue (or, perhaps too many).

I appreciate it when someone shows interest. I try to show some interest by making direct eye contact and smiling. If the person doesn't show any interest back (maybe playing it cool, or just not interested, or doesn't know I am gay) then I back the heck off.

I don't know, how does a femme let someone know they are gay? Do we even register on the gaydar??

hmmm good point,yeah if you try and they play it cool or just dont notice which is what happens with me TBH lol I dont keep trying
Femmes show up on my gaydar just sayin

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Originally Posted by weatherboi

i don't consider myself shy. i am prey. i have been attracting predators since I was little!!!

you know that is what happens to me..and usually it feels like its outta the blue

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Originally Posted by The_Lady_Snow

I don't think I'm competitive at least that's not how I carry that natural ability to want to be successful or attain things I may want or desire. It's just is what it is..

Im only competitive in life not in romance at all..but I do find I am not shy in the least.
I do find its a natural ability to me as well...it just happens to be I am good at a lot of things I try

07-30-2011, 07:00 AM	#1
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luv2luvgirls Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Asshole Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Kentucky/Austin/Wherever Posts: 2,310 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,387 Thanked 5,470 Times in 1,827 Posts Rep Power: 0	I tend to be the hunter...but im not gonna lie I dont mind a femme hunting me for a change lol... So Incubus, Lady Snow and Claybaby..in life are you a go getter and competitive? I tend to get gungho at work and in games lol Bigbutchmistie....so do you think its because you are shy you dont persue? Last edited by luv2luvgirls; 07-30-2011 at 08:09 AM. Reason: did I really say the wrong username smh

07-30-2011, 10:32 AM	#11
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07-30-2011, 10:49 AM	#12
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bigbutchmistie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Since You Need A Label. Butch Relationship Status: Still Dreaming Of My Happily Ever After Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Arlington Texas Posts: 4,009 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,950 Thanked 5,364 Times in 1,941 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Its the shyness that I have. So I would say I am the prey. I need to be pursued..