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Old 08-24-2011, 09:36 AM   #1
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I have been to this thread a couple of times, I am bbw and I still cant accept it.
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I have been to this thread a couple of times, I am bbw and I still cant accept it.

Can you accept part of it?

I know for me, personally, I still cannot accept my stomach but I've gotten better with everything else. I started with my breasts, luckily they get a lot of attention and i added to that by agreeing to be a shot girl, where they get to be front and center. I was nervous and thought it was too much, but after I got over that, I realized that i had at least one part of me that was super hot. Then i thought, "well, if i have one good part, maybe I have more". From there I started trying to be nicer to myself when looking at my butt. I started looking at other butts and realizing that it's hard to get such a nice round curve! There was something I could do that others couldn't, so I praised myself for it.

Little by little I'm working on accepting the things that others tell me are wrong. it takes time, and lots of repetition, and sometimes you have good and bad days, but you can do it. I know you can. I believe in you.
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Can you accept part of it?

I know for me, personally, I still cannot accept my stomach but I've gotten better with everything else. I started with my breasts, luckily they get a lot of attention and i added to that by agreeing to be a shot girl, where they get to be front and center. I was nervous and thought it was too much, but after I got over that, I realized that i had at least one part that was super hot. From there I started trying to be nicer to myself when looking at my butt. I started looking at other butts and realizing that it's hard to get such a nice round curve! There was something I could do that others couldn't, so I praised myself for it.

Little by little I'm working on accepting the things that others tell me are wrong. it takes time, and lots of repetition, and sometimes you have good and bad days, but you can do it. I know you can. I believe in you.

Lord knows its not my boobs, they are great the way they are... its my stomach everything else is portioned right....
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Lord knows its not my boobs, they are great the way they are... its my stomach everything else is portioned right....
grrrrrrrrl, your stomach is just fine!!! you have awesome boobs and a cute butt! What are you doing worrying about a little belly?

It's good to have a tummy because it gives your butch someplace comfy to put their head while you run your fingers through their hair.
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grrrrrrrrl, your stomach is just fine!!! you have awesome boobs and a cute butt! What are you doing worrying about a little belly?

It's good to have a tummy because it gives your butch someplace comfy to put their head while you run your fingers through their hair.

Okay so I know I just quoted a bunch of things but I HAD to quote this too because, well, damnit I just had to

I would rather go for a girl with awesome boobs and a cute butt anyday, all I can say is yummy yummy **drooooooooooooooool**

And I will admit I'm a BIG time sucker for somewhere to lay My head, between a nice comfy set of boobs and a soft stomach I'd say thats being spoiled to Me but I digress **sigh**
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hahaha you are only saying that because i dated you lol silly goose
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hahaha you are only saying that because i dated you lol silly goose

Its the truth honey, yes I am biased but I don't care lol I'm damn proud of the fact that we dated and I know just how beautiful you are so I can brag all I want
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Thank you so much for the link! Do you follow Adipositivity at all? I'm a fan of her work. And if you click on my photo gallery, you'll see I'm already a fan of bbws in photo shoots. They're freaking empowering and, in my case, help me think better about myself. I encourage everyone to try it out!
I'm sure others have done it before but I would *love* to get into photography to be able to take beautiful pictures of big femmes, butches, FTM's and anyone else bbw who would want to take part in it .......... I think big bodies are simply beautiful and should be shown off at every opportunity

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I have been to this thread a couple of times, I am bbw and I still cant accept it.
I am proud to say here that you are a beautiful woman, all of you, and I know you have a hard time accepting it but honey your *perfect* exactly as you are

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Can you accept part of it?

I know for me, personally, I still cannot accept my stomach but I've gotten better with everything else. I started with my breasts, luckily they get a lot of attention and i added to that by agreeing to be a shot girl, where they get to be front and center. I was nervous and thought it was too much, but after I got over that, I realized that i had at least one part of me that was super hot. Then i thought, "well, if i have one good part, maybe I have more". From there I started trying to be nicer to myself when looking at my butt. I started looking at other butts and realizing that it's hard to get such a nice round curve! There was something I could do that others couldn't, so I praised myself for it.

Little by little I'm working on accepting the things that others tell me are wrong. it takes time, and lots of repetition, and sometimes you have good and bad days, but you can do it. I know you can. I believe in you.
I know I'm a bigger guy and believe Me, I have quite alot of weight issues too but I'm slowly learning to accept Myself for who I am and its very empowering. Having been made fun of by people about My weight and having dealt with constant teasing during all of My school years it caused Me to close up and build a wall around Me that protected Me against that hurt (which is alot of why I'm so shy and reserved). I'm getting more okay all the time with being big, now all I have to do is get top surgery to get rid of these "man boobs" and I'll officially be all set

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Lord knows its not my boobs, they are great the way they are... its my stomach everything else is portioned right....
Yes those boobs are great, and so is the rest of you darlin
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