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Old 08-25-2011, 07:42 PM   #1
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Old 08-25-2011, 08:02 PM   #2
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Ummm where do you get I am "partnered". I still sleep alone every night...one does NOT need to be "partnered" to be wonderfully "blissful". So now I am "singing in the rain"...and still single!!!! <smile>
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I'm having a thought......... I'm thinking femmes outnumber butches on this site (and in real life). Anybody else feel this way? Does anyone else think it makes femme friendships harder to form since there's this kind of "competition for resources" thing going on?
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I'm having a thought......... I'm thinking femmes outnumber butches on this site (and in real life). Anybody else feel this way? Does anyone else think it makes femme friendships harder to form since there's this kind of "competition for resources" thing going on?
I personally do not feel "competitive" with other femmes. My friendships and connections with femmes are very important to me.

Do I occasionally feel a twinge because I am not 35-40 any more, yes, I would have to be honest about that and say yes but I feel that way about younger butches as well as femmes.

Actually, where I work, there is the cutest damn butch ever, just her young face gives her away as a girl. Whenever we go up in the elevator together I have a mantra in my head: god, if I was only 20 years younger! She is just that cute
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Andy..of course femme's outnumber butches in the gay community..just as in the hetro community women outnumber men...well except in Alaska lol...no I don't feel any kind of competition because my taste is not the same as my friends..we hunt for one another because we know one anothers taste lol...I know here in Phoenix you can't throw a dead rat without hitting a femme lol ....but I'm not just your usual run of the mill femme..my friends classify me as an ultimate femme lmao. And Anya no you may not be in your 30's anymore but doll...every year you age so do they..lol..there are many older butches and I'm thankful for that. Older is so hawt lol.
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Wow... really? Here it is mostly a lot of tweeners and butches. I am one of a very few femmes. Unfortunatley the butches here are either not interested in me, or I in them. Sooooo.. looking outside my scope of friends to see what happens. Although, that can be a scary thing. Taking it easy, if it happens, it happens, if it doesn't ... I'll just be patient.

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...I know here in Phoenix you can't throw a dead rat without hitting a femme lol ....
REALLY??? Cause that hasn't been my experience since I've lived here, nor has it been the experience of other butches and femmes that I've spoken with that live or have lived here. They have expressed, and I agree, that the butch/femme community is almost non-existent in and around Phoenix. There is a HUGE lesbian population, but I've encountered less than a handful of women that identify as "femme".

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Hello Everone

I hope everyone is having a wonderful weekend so far So much going on here in Big D this weekend. We have the Texas State Fair going on, Texas And Oklahoma at the Cotton Bowl, Dallas Stars started their season this weekend and the Texas Rangers are playing in the first game of ALCS today

Last weekend I ventured out and went to the Pride Picnic for Fort Worth. I had a blast but didnt see or meet anyone I would have remotely been interested in. I see a trend going on here in Dallas Fort Worth. Its Femme/Femme Butch/Butch... I saw a handful of butch/femme couples and was there all day long.

I guess I will have to continue to be patient. I am sure my "Belle" is out there somwhere....
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