Femme Led Relationships and Trans/Butch/Femme Bottoms

Sachita · 08-31-2011, 09:32 PM

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Originally Posted by softness

I dont expect anyone to treat me like a Goddess except me. I take that role upon myself. I spoil me and indulge me and meet my own needs, especially if its by finding the right people to be around me. As for foot rubs or having my porch painted, those are negotiable items. I ask for nothing I would not be extremely appreciative of. None of it is ever expected out of foolish whimsical "show me you love me" shit. I dont need to be loved. Seriously. When you love yourself well, like I have discovered to do, you dont need to have anyone prove their love to you. When someone is in my life, they are there because I want them to be there. Very very few people are there for any other reason. And those are mostly non social contacts.

I understand your point. It's not a question of need for me. Truth is I don't really need anyone and I love myself. It's not proof I require but an expectation or standard I've acquired and it sooooooo enhances the dynamic.

I'm happy for you. You totally deserve it

Gentle Tiger · 08-31-2011, 11:14 PM

Can I just say I am really enjoying this thread? Ok, good.
I am enjoying this thread.

Makes you think. And critical thinking, contrary to popular belief is a good thing.

Martina · 08-31-2011, 11:29 PM

But doncha just love it when you can make Her feel like a god?

i am in a femme-led poly D/s relationship. i like it that i am the only one in Her life who can help Her feel THAT particular way.

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