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Old 10-04-2011, 06:52 AM   #1
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the cold foot bath was something we read on the internet and thought it sounded fairly accurate. and it actually helped!
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the cold foot bath was something we read on the internet and thought it sounded fairly accurate. and it actually helped!
Hi CatalinaRose.......

I'm certainly not saying it doesn't work....it doesn't work for me. Cold accelerates neurapoathy for ME! Even if I am pretty warm, i/e like summer time warm...and walk into a/c....that will set it off. Dapper was saying cold sets his off too.

It seems to be different for every one.
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Hi CatalinaRose.......

I'm certainly not saying it doesn't work....it doesn't work for me. Cold accelerates neurapoathy for ME! Even if I am pretty warm, i/e like summer time warm...and walk into a/c....that will set it off. Dapper was saying cold sets his off too.

It seems to be different for every one.
I have a touch of neuropathy too (as well as periodic foot cramps so strong they'll bend my toes backwards, not fun)...from diabetes...and cold triggers it horribly. Warmth and massage help immensely.
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I have a touch of neuropathy too (as well as periodic foot cramps so strong they'll bend my toes backwards, not fun)...from diabetes...and cold triggers it horribly. Warmth and massage help immensely.
I have neuropathy from frostbite (so we are clear) They did microvascular surgery to seperate the good tissue from the bad. In fact, this is similar to how they treat the advanced diabetic cases. I was in treatment with and in PT with the diabetics. They told me neuropathy can be like fire (the cold water would make sense) it can be stinging and numbness. Sometimes my foot feels like a piece of wood (?) I totally understand why my feet would be subject to neuorpathy, but I don't understand my hands. They were not burn't as baddly as my feet and required no surgery. I buy alot of hand warmers in the summer (for use in the winter)....we are not suppose to use them! I squeeze them outside my gloves, and toss them back and forth between my hands. ~ remember the game, hot potatoe~

My Dr. suggested I wear therma-care heat wraps on my ankles if I am going to be outside. This will call for blood from your heart, and is such a
low dose request, it will not burn us.....it works too. (expensive remedy).
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Hi CatalinaRose.......

I'm certainly not saying it doesn't work....it doesn't work for me. Cold accelerates neurapoathy for ME! Even if I am pretty warm, i/e like summer time warm...and walk into a/c....that will set it off. Dapper was saying cold sets his off too.

It seems to be different for every one.
No cold for me either. I get cold and I just ache. Massage and heat for me. I am hoping that the pain gets better soon. I can't stand or walk for long, but it hasn't been long since my last chemo.
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Tomorrow I start daily radiation for 6 weeks. I keep hearing its not so bad, it just makes ya tired. I am still nervous.
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Tomorrow I start daily radiation for 6 weeks. I keep hearing its not so bad, it just makes ya tired. I am still nervous.

{{{Debby}}} No radiation here but my sister and bf both had it as part of their thyroid treatment protocols. We are having dinner with a chemo buddy on Saturday and she did radiation before starting chemo and said she really didn't notice any side effects at all.

I will say a prayer for you that all goes well. <3
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Tomorrow I start daily radiation for 6 weeks. I keep hearing its not so bad, it just makes ya tired. I am still nervous.
Big hugs to you Debby....I hope it all goes well.

Wanted to come in and give you all an update....

Mom is home (I know....surprise!), with lots of help including a visiting nurse daily, a CNA/home aide for 3 or 4 hours and a friend spending most of the rest of the time. She's glad to be out of the hospital after spending virtually the whole summer there...and even though it's temporary.

She's still waiting out the timeframe for the Avastin to clear her system...once it does they'll go look and see what this other mass is and make a determination about next steps. If no other procedure is needed, she'll come down to me in Florida at that point. If another surgery is needed, then she'll be back in the hospital for that and until she recovers.

They cut her loose since she was able to demonstrate the ability to manage her own TPN (which is in a backpack arrangement), and they're monitoring her blood pressure and hydration very closely. Her weight is up to 112....still very thin, but much better than the 96 in her clothes that got her admitted last time. And she's eating....all soft foods and in small quantities....but she's handling soups, yogurt, cooked cereals, soft fruit, etc.

In the meantime, chemo continues every 2 weeks, and will through the rest of the year.

She's decided to sell her house, and is home talking to realtors and boxing up things she wants to send to me, my sister and our kids. I'm glad she's come to this herself rather than being hustled into it by my sister....and she feels good about it rather than pressured and rushed. Her decision, come to with counseling....is that the remaining item on her "bucket list" is that she's always wanted to live in NYC, have a little apartment, and enjoy all of the cultural "stuff" that she enjoys so much when we've been there for short periods. So....assuming she recovers....she may transform herself into a snow bird, spending winters with me and the rest of the year in a short term furnished rental in NYC. It feels right to her, so that's the plan.
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JustJo,

This is good news. So glad she is doing well enough to be home, and to move on in her own terms. I am so glad she is able to talk about the future with you.
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Surgery update!

So my surgery has been moved from next Friday (the 21st) to tomorrow at 3:30. I've been in so much pain and have lost so much weight that my doctor doesn't want to wait any longer.

I'm off to begin the dreaded bowl-prep. Fun-Fun!
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