How about butch and butch?

DamonK · 10-22-2011, 11:44 PM

Ask MBE.

I don't date girls.

I love the male energy.

But now that I have a girl, I like that too. It was a 10 year lesson.

Butch/butch is hot. FTM/FTM is hot and I'm involved in one of those as well.

The energy is different, but equally intense.

Gemme · 10-23-2011, 08:15 AM

Like Sparx mentioned, the couples are out there, but the acceptance is not. To be brutally honest, seeing butches with butches gets me going more than femmes with femmes. But that's just how my cuppa flows.

clay · 10-23-2011, 08:29 AM

I am accepting of anyone loving anyone..so long as it is of age, consenting adults..."live and let live" is how I try to be....and I don't judge anyone for whom they love, or how they identify....while I may not always "understand " all the different dynamics, I DO respect them! I agree with Gemme & some others...it is HOT! People loving people!!! Yayyyyy

musicman · 10-23-2011, 08:37 AM

For me personally, I am a butch who loves and adores femmes.As the saying goes, It takes all kinds to make this world of ours go around.

If you really think about it, butch on butch or femme on femme is the truest form of the definition of same sex.

DapperButch · 10-23-2011, 08:40 AM

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Originally Posted by musicman

If you really think about it, butch on butch or femme on femme is the truest form of the definition of same sex.

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DapperButch · 10-23-2011, 08:43 AM

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Originally Posted by musicman

If you really think about it, butch on butch or femme on femme is the truest form of the definition of same sex.

I would suggest it is the same gender, not the same sex. There are female/woman identified butches and most femmes identify as female/women (in my experience). < tipping hat>

untangle · 10-23-2011, 01:20 PM

I have always told myself that you fall in love with whom you fall in love with regardless of their gender. So far, the people I have fallen in love with have been female. While I have dated both sides of the butch/femme spectrum, I do have a preference for more of the butch side. I don’t really like to identify myself as a soft butch, but it’s what people tell me. From what I have seen before, it seems butch/butch relationships are almost considered taboo in the LGBT community.
So, with that, I think this is another awesome thread!

WingsOnFire · 10-23-2011, 09:33 PM

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Originally Posted by DamonK

Ask MBE.

I don't date girls.

I love the male energy.

But now that I have a girl, I like that too. It was a 10 year lesson.

Butch/butch is hot. FTM/FTM is hot and I'm involved in one of those as well.

The energy is different, but equally intense.

I have to say that this energy is something I have never witnessed before Damon and is the most erotic and sensual thing I have ever seen. It is the very essence of Damon's core. Do I feel threatened by that? absolutely not. It is definitely something I would never ask Damon to live without. I know that I can not fulfill every single part of him. I wouldnt want to take that part away from him.

Besides, I agree with Gemme, butch/butch, FTM/FTM is hot. And.... well.... I have always said I benefit from the sexual energy that Damon gets from that dynamic.

the girl who is sleepy and headed to bed.

10-23-2011, 08:15 AM	#2
Gemme Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Queer Stone Femme Girl of the Unicorn Variety Preferred Pronoun?: She, as in 'She's a GEM' Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: The roads are narrow here Posts: 36,631 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 182,498 Thanked 107,893 Times in 25,664 Posts Rep Power: 21474889	Like Sparx mentioned, the couples are out there, but the acceptance is not. To be brutally honest, seeing butches with butches gets me going more than femmes with femmes. But that's just how my cuppa flows. __________________ Gemme's Journal I'm misunderestimated.

10-23-2011, 08:29 AM	#3
clay Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Butch (Silver Fox) Dom Daddi Preferred Pronoun?: 50 Shades of Clay Darker & Deeper Relationship Status: married to my forever Join Date: May 2011 Location: salt air & sandy beaches Posts: 13,136 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 97,020 Thanked 31,661 Times in 7,748 Posts Rep Power: 21474864	I am accepting of anyone loving anyone..so long as it is of age, consenting adults..."live and let live" is how I try to be....and I don't judge anyone for whom they love, or how they identify....while I may not always "understand " all the different dynamics, I DO respect them! I agree with Gemme & some others...it is HOT! People loving people!!! Yayyyyy __________________ To find someone who will love you for no reason, and to shower that person with reasons, that is the ultimate happiness. ~Robert Brault

10-23-2011, 08:37 AM	#4
musicman Member How Do You Identify?: NA Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: NA Posts: 209 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 195 Thanked 429 Times in 125 Posts Rep Power: 3610464	My thoughts For me personally, I am a butch who loves and adores femmes.As the saying goes, It takes all kinds to make this world of ours go around. If you really think about it, butch on butch or femme on femme is the truest form of the definition of same sex.

10-22-2011, 11:44 PM	#1
DamonK Senior Member How Do You Identify?: . Preferred Pronoun?: . Relationship Status: . Join Date: May 2010 Location: . Posts: 2,199 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,527 Thanked 7,762 Times in 1,881 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Ask MBE. I don't date girls. I love the male energy. But now that I have a girl, I like that too. It was a 10 year lesson. Butch/butch is hot. FTM/FTM is hot and I'm involved in one of those as well. The energy is different, but equally intense.

10-23-2011, 01:20 PM	#7
untangle Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Queer Preferred Pronoun?: whatever works Relationship Status: single Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: Arizona Posts: 14 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 34 Thanked 48 Times in 12 Posts Rep Power: 918102	I have always told myself that you fall in love with whom you fall in love with regardless of their gender. So far, the people I have fallen in love with have been female. While I have dated both sides of the butch/femme spectrum, I do have a preference for more of the butch side. I don’t really like to identify myself as a soft butch, but it’s what people tell me. From what I have seen before, it seems butch/butch relationships are almost considered taboo in the LGBT community. So, with that, I think this is another awesome thread!