Butches: How do you like to be romanced?

xxzalciaiomenxx · 10-24-2011, 07:07 PM

I love when I miss a call from my girl, not because I didn't want to talk to her, but because 9 times out of 10 she will leave me a loving, adoring message that lights up my heart...and I save all of these messages until my carrier will delete them...sometimes she sings to me on the messages and no matter what my mood, how I am feeling I can't help but feel all warm and mushy inside when I hear her sexy voice singing just for me. I love when she writes me little notes and gives them to me. I love the way she just tells me I'm beautiful, sexy, etc. She is the only woman to have ever given me flowers. On my Birthday this past year I got called to the front office and there was a vase full of flowers and a big ol Happy Birthday Balloon! She sends me text messages telling me how she misses me, or is thinking of me. Everymorning I get a message from her when she first wakes up...usually saying "good morning" "I love you" or "I miss you".

This past summer, she was on vacation, and everyday she sent me a post card telling me her feelings for me. It was the sweetest thing ever.

I love when she plays with my hair, or brushes up against me just to feel me next to her. The way she takes my fingers in her own when we are walking, even if for just a second. I love the way she holds me when I am sad, the way she cradles my head in her arms and kisses me lightly on the forehead, just to say "I'm here"

I have never been treated more kindly by a woman before, no one before her has taken the time to make me feel loved, and everything that she does for me is romantic. I truly am blessed to have this amazingly perfect woman in my lifer!!!

bigbutchmistie · 10-24-2011, 08:40 PM

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Originally Posted by xxzalciaiomenxx

I love when I miss a call from my girl, not because I didn't want to talk to her, but because 9 times out of 10 she will leave me a loving, adoring message that lights up my heart...and I save all of these messages until my carrier will delete them...sometimes she sings to me on the messages and no matter what my mood, how I am feeling I can't help but feel all warm and mushy inside when I hear her sexy voice singing just for me. I love when she writes me little notes and gives them to me. I love the way she just tells me I'm beautiful, sexy, etc. She is the only woman to have ever given me flowers. On my Birthday this past year I got called to the front office and there was a vase full of flowers and a big ol Happy Birthday Balloon! She sends me text messages telling me how she misses me, or is thinking of me. Everymorning I get a message from her when she first wakes up...usually saying "good morning" "I love you" or "I miss you".

This past summer, she was on vacation, and everyday she sent me a post card telling me her feelings for me. It was the sweetest thing ever.

I love when she plays with my hair, or brushes up against me just to feel me next to her. The way she takes my fingers in her own when we are walking, even if for just a second. I love the way she holds me when I am sad, the way she cradles my head in her arms and kisses me lightly on the forehead, just to say "I'm here"

I have never been treated more kindly by a woman before, no one before her has taken the time to make me feel loved, and everything that she does for me is romantic. I truly am blessed to have this amazingly perfect woman in my lifer!!!

You are one lucky dude!

xxzalciaiomenxx · 10-25-2011, 03:41 AM

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Originally Posted by bigbutchmistie

You are one lucky dude!

Oh but I knw iu am! She is my heart and soul, and with her by my side I am all but invincible.

Stitch · 10-25-2011, 05:12 AM

I like being kissed on the cheek
I like being woken up by a phone call in the morning
And I also like sweet little random notes.

I'm pretty simple.

Now how come I can't find a femme.

Nurse Darlin · 10-24-2011, 08:49 PM

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Originally Posted by xxzalciaiomenxx

I love when I miss a call from my girl, not because I didn't want to talk to her, but because 9 times out of 10 she will leave me a loving, adoring message that lights up my heart...and I save all of these messages until my carrier will delete them...sometimes she sings to me on the messages and no matter what my mood, how I am feeling I can't help but feel all warm and mushy inside when I hear her sexy voice singing just for me. I love when she writes me little notes and gives them to me. I love the way she just tells me I'm beautiful, sexy, etc. She is the only woman to have ever given me flowers. On my Birthday this past year I got called to the front office and there was a vase full of flowers and a big ol Happy Birthday Balloon! She sends me text messages telling me how she misses me, or is thinking of me. Everymorning I get a message from her when she first wakes up...usually saying "good morning" "I love you" or "I miss you".

This past summer, she was on vacation, and everyday she sent me a post card telling me her feelings for me. It was the sweetest thing ever.

I love when she plays with my hair, or brushes up against me just to feel me next to her. The way she takes my fingers in her own when we are walking, even if for just a second. I love the way she holds me when I am sad, the way she cradles my head in her arms and kisses me lightly on the forehead, just to say "I'm here"

I have never been treated more kindly by a woman before, no one before her has taken the time to make me feel loved, and everything that she does for me is romantic. I truly am blessed to have this amazingly perfect woman in my lifer!!!

All because I love you!!!!!!!!!!

bkisbutchenuff · 04-07-2012, 05:47 PM

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Originally Posted by xxzalciaiomenxx

I love when I miss a call from my girl, not because I didn't want to talk to her, but because 9 times out of 10 she will leave me a loving, adoring message that lights up my heart...and I save all of these messages until my carrier will delete them...sometimes she sings to me on the messages and no matter what my mood, how I am feeling I can't help but feel all warm and mushy inside when I hear her sexy voice singing just for me. I love when she writes me little notes and gives them to me. I love the way she just tells me I'm beautiful, sexy, etc. She is the only woman to have ever given me flowers. On my Birthday this past year I got called to the front office and there was a vase full of flowers and a big ol Happy Birthday Balloon! She sends me text messages telling me how she misses me, or is thinking of me. Everymorning I get a message from her when she first wakes up...usually saying "good morning" "I love you" or "I miss you".

This past summer, she was on vacation, and everyday she sent me a post card telling me her feelings for me. It was the sweetest thing ever.

I love when she plays with my hair, or brushes up against me just to feel me next to her. The way she takes my fingers in her own when we are walking, even if for just a second. I love the way she holds me when I am sad, the way she cradles my head in her arms and kisses me lightly on the forehead, just to say "I'm here"

I have never been treated more kindly by a woman before, no one before her has taken the time to make me feel loved, and everything that she does for me is romantic. I truly am blessed to have this amazingly perfect woman in my lifer!!!

I love it...awesome. You have a keeper!

Julien · 04-07-2012, 06:28 PM

I love it when my Lady shows me her romantic side. I appreciate and admire what she does for herself, the hair, the make-up, the nails, the clothes, and her erotic perfume. I'd like to think she does these things for me as well. I can feel her grab my hand and squeeze. Touch is so important to me and the look in her eyes when she looks at me. The way she looks at me, oh how I love it. It tells me so much about her. To romance me is to show me her confidence in herself and how she feels about us. I fall for her all over again.

Ginger · 04-07-2012, 07:16 PM

It makes me happy to read this thread. In many different ways, the posts seem to be about communication—people are saying, Here is my language. Do you know it?

When I focus on a person, they feel bathed in a warm light. The butch women I've loved, felt truly seen; not exposed, but gently observed. I don't think about it, it just happens, if someone interests me. And I don't presume to think I understand a person after just a short time, but in the process of honoring their boundaries and what is unspoken, I've seen the most amazing people emerge.

10-24-2011, 07:07 PM	#1
xxzalciaiomenxx Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Her/She/sugarbear! Relationship Status: In a relationship with the love of my life Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: wv Posts: 46 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 42 Thanked 190 Times in 27 Posts Rep Power: 1205267	I love when I miss a call from my girl, not because I didn't want to talk to her, but because 9 times out of 10 she will leave me a loving, adoring message that lights up my heart...and I save all of these messages until my carrier will delete them...sometimes she sings to me on the messages and no matter what my mood, how I am feeling I can't help but feel all warm and mushy inside when I hear her sexy voice singing just for me. I love when she writes me little notes and gives them to me. I love the way she just tells me I'm beautiful, sexy, etc. She is the only woman to have ever given me flowers. On my Birthday this past year I got called to the front office and there was a vase full of flowers and a big ol Happy Birthday Balloon! She sends me text messages telling me how she misses me, or is thinking of me. Everymorning I get a message from her when she first wakes up...usually saying "good morning" "I love you" or "I miss you". This past summer, she was on vacation, and everyday she sent me a post card telling me her feelings for me. It was the sweetest thing ever. I love when she plays with my hair, or brushes up against me just to feel me next to her. The way she takes my fingers in her own when we are walking, even if for just a second. I love the way she holds me when I am sad, the way she cradles my head in her arms and kisses me lightly on the forehead, just to say "I'm here" I have never been treated more kindly by a woman before, no one before her has taken the time to make me feel loved, and everything that she does for me is romantic. I truly am blessed to have this amazingly perfect woman in my lifer!!! __________________ Love seeketh not itself to please, Nor for itself hath any care, But for another gives its ease, And builds a Heaven in Hell's despair. -WILLIAM BLAKE

04-07-2012, 06:28 PM	#7
Julien Member How Do You Identify?: TG/GenderQueer Preferred Pronoun?: I'm flexible, but only up to a point. Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Alabama, Gulf Coast area Posts: 1,007 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,247 Thanked 2,702 Times in 737 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I love it when my Lady shows me her romantic side. I appreciate and admire what she does for herself, the hair, the make-up, the nails, the clothes, and her erotic perfume. I'd like to think she does these things for me as well. I can feel her grab my hand and squeeze. Touch is so important to me and the look in her eyes when she looks at me. The way she looks at me, oh how I love it. It tells me so much about her. To romance me is to show me her confidence in herself and how she feels about us. I fall for her all over again. __________________ Julien “Self-plagiarism is style.” Alfred Hitchcock Formerly known as Graphiteta2s

10-25-2011, 05:12 AM	#4
Stitch Member How Do You Identify?: Sweetest Soft Butch you don't know yet Preferred Pronoun?: She, Hy, Relationship Status: Solo Artist Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Vancouver, Canada Posts: 191 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16 Thanked 305 Times in 111 Posts Rep Power: 2008424	I like being kissed on the cheek I like being woken up by a phone call in the morning And I also like sweet little random notes. I'm pretty simple. Now how come I can't find a femme.

04-07-2012, 07:16 PM	#8
Ginger Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme lesbian Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: East coast Posts: 2,416 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,829 Thanked 12,296 Times in 2,057 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	It makes me happy to read this thread. In many different ways, the posts seem to be about communication—people are saying, Here is my language. Do you know it? When I focus on a person, they feel bathed in a warm light. The butch women I've loved, felt truly seen; not exposed, but gently observed. I don't think about it, it just happens, if someone interests me. And I don't presume to think I understand a person after just a short time, but in the process of honoring their boundaries and what is unspoken, I've seen the most amazing people emerge.