Flirting by text

Kent · 01-03-2012, 10:22 PM

I have never rehearsed or even thought of rehearsing to flirt with a beautiful woman. It just happens. We either feel each other's energy or we don't. I'm just not one to rehearse flirting. It flows or it doesn't.

So, go ahead and be yourself and take a chance. The world is at your fingertips and you might just get the girl or guy of your dreams.

I realize some may want to rehearse and go over all their moves before hand and that is perfectly okay. Do what you like. Do what feels good and right. Believe me the person on the other end of the text will either reciprocate or not. It's not the end of the world if they don't respond the way you want. The point is to at least try. Lighten up and flirt a little. It may just be the best thing you've ever done.

Let the flirting continue.. rehearsed or off the cuff...

Random · 01-03-2012, 10:29 PM

I think my best flirt went like this...

*I know you took my keys, I don't know what kind of game you are playing, but I need my keys back... I can't afford to replace the keys to my apt and the building... I'm NOT even kidding!!!!*

followed up with...

*I found my keys... I'm the psycho not you... you want to go out again?*

Worked like a charm..

*Cheesey Grin*

Random · 08-18-2017, 11:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Random

I think my best flirt went like this...

*I know you took my keys, I don't know what kind of game you are playing, but I need my keys back... I can't afford to replace the keys to my apt and the building... I'm NOT even kidding!!!!*

followed up with...

*I found my keys... I'm the psycho not you... you want to go out again?*

Worked like a charm..

*Cheesey Grin*

Nine years later and it still working...

FireSignFemme · 08-19-2017, 02:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Random

Nine years later and it still working...

Happy nine years later.

betenoire · 01-03-2012, 10:29 PM

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Originally Posted by UofMfan

2. If I ever have to Google a flirt I would officially ask Bete to shoot me first.

Stop flirting with me, UofMean!

BullDog · 01-04-2012, 08:49 AM

LOL, I never knew there were rules to flirting. Something thought out ahead of time that then ends up in a text could be quite nice indeed, as well as spontaneity. It's all in the delivery and the dance for me.

Jett · 01-04-2012, 09:05 AM

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Originally Posted by BullDog

LOL, I never knew there were rules to flirting. Something thought out ahead of time that then ends up in a text could be quite nice indeed, as well as spontaneity. It's all in the delivery and the dance for me.

FRESH! *slap*

... oh... I'm sorry buddy I thought you were flirting with me. I'll get some ice for that...

BullDog · 01-04-2012, 09:07 AM

Will flirt for cupcakes.

smouldering · 01-04-2012, 09:16 AM

I am a natural flirt, I like to make people feel good and even smile sometimes.. heck i even enjoy making people blush

If i flirt it probably means i like ya, but don't worry it doesn't mean i want to marry you :P.

I think the one problem that i have from time to time, especially when it comes to online or via texting is my just being nice or supportive being confused with flirting.. :S

1QuirkyKiwi · 01-04-2012, 11:16 AM

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Originally Posted by smouldering

I think the one problem that i have from time to time, especially when it comes to online or via texting is my just being nice or supportive being confused with flirting.. :S

This ALWAYS happens to me online…. I’m naturally supportive and caring of everyone in my life and that includes all the forums I’m a regular member off, too. It gets frustrating sometimes when rumours fly around by people who have never met me in person or even taken the time to get to know me online, yet, I’m pre-judged by my posts or the odd PM/Email.

If people really want to get to know the real me, then they will take the time too do so and not assume that I’m flirting with all and sundry just because I’m naturally chatty and friendly.

Quintease · 01-04-2012, 06:20 PM

I always plan my flirts, or not-flirts. By 'plan' I don't mean I write them down for days and analyse them, but I put some thought into what I say (by not-flirts I mean the flirts you're not doing because someone inappropriate is trying to flirt with you). I've flirted with everything from boys to girls and I don't feel the need to change my flirting style for identity, rather for the person.

Wryly · 01-03-2012, 10:41 PM

I cannot flirt at all - by text, online or in person.
When I do try to flirt either the femme doesn't "get" that I'm flirting or I sound really strange.

Once I spent quite a bit of time with someone - apparenlty she started dating and broke up with someone during that time. *sigh* No luck at all!

Everyone who says to be a good flirter you should be yourself obviously aren't me!

lettertodaddy · 01-05-2012, 04:09 PM

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Everyone who says to be a good flirter you should be yourself obviously aren't me!

Well said! I'm terrible at flirting.

smouldering · 01-05-2012, 04:36 PM

Most of the posts here have made me smile, I think flirting is great, its fun and heck its even healthy if you ask me.. I like that little dance of just having fun and getting to know people on all different levels..
However if we've only just said hello and haven't really known each other long and you send me a naughty pic? Im probably not going to be able to take you seriously and will back off.. just sayin, why be so quick to send a stranger pics of your bits? I can't help but wonder how many other people are getting a peek at your goods at the same time and if you're just whoring for attention and nothing more.
I am definitely far from a prude, just ask anyone who knows me lol.. but I can't imagine sending photos of my unmentionables to someone I didn't know.. could you just imagine how many others they could be forwarding my "stuff" too? YIKES

01-03-2012, 10:22 PM	#1
Kent Member How Do You Identify?: Male Relationship Status: Single Tournaments Won: 2 Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: TX Posts: 1,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,564 Thanked 2,058 Times in 720 Posts Rep Power: 19241327	Off the top of my head flirting: I have never rehearsed or even thought of rehearsing to flirt with a beautiful woman. It just happens. We either feel each other's energy or we don't. I'm just not one to rehearse flirting. It flows or it doesn't. So, go ahead and be yourself and take a chance. The world is at your fingertips and you might just get the girl or guy of your dreams. I realize some may want to rehearse and go over all their moves before hand and that is perfectly okay. Do what you like. Do what feels good and right. Believe me the person on the other end of the text will either reciprocate or not. It's not the end of the world if they don't respond the way you want. The point is to at least try. Lighten up and flirt a little. It may just be the best thing you've ever done. Let the flirting continue.. rehearsed or off the cuff... __________________ Kent

01-03-2012, 10:29 PM	#2
Random Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: back in the land of trees and snow Posts: 2,072 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,017 Thanked 5,326 Times in 1,378 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	I think my best flirt went like this... I know you took my keys, I don't know what kind of game you are playing, but I need my keys back... I can't afford to replace the keys to my apt and the building... I'm NOT even kidding!!!! followed up with... I found my keys... I'm the psycho not you... you want to go out again? Worked like a charm.. Cheesey Grin __________________ ~Volunteer~ "It gets in your blood"

01-04-2012, 08:49 AM	#6
BullDog Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Dominant Stone Butch Daddy Preferred Pronoun?: She Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: In A Healing Place Posts: 5,371 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 18,160 Thanked 22,637 Times in 4,462 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	LOL, I never knew there were rules to flirting. Something thought out ahead of time that then ends up in a text could be quite nice indeed, as well as spontaneity. It's all in the delivery and the dance for me. __________________ Love consists in this, that two solitudes protect and touch and greet each other. - Rainer Maria Rilke

01-04-2012, 09:07 AM	#8
BullDog Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Dominant Stone Butch Daddy Preferred Pronoun?: She Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: In A Healing Place Posts: 5,371 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 18,160 Thanked 22,637 Times in 4,462 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Will flirt for cupcakes. __________________ Love consists in this, that two solitudes protect and touch and greet each other. - Rainer Maria Rilke

01-04-2012, 09:16 AM	#9
smouldering Member How Do You Identify?: Punky girly girl, glittery femme Preferred Pronoun?: she, her, etc. Relationship Status: Single, Recovering Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Ohio Posts: 1,288 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,306 Thanked 3,974 Times in 924 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I am a natural flirt, I like to make people feel good and even smile sometimes.. heck i even enjoy making people blush If i flirt it probably means i like ya, but don't worry it doesn't mean i want to marry you :P. I think the one problem that i have from time to time, especially when it comes to online or via texting is my just being nice or supportive being confused with flirting.. :S __________________ ~~Smouldering~~ Suit the action to the word, the word to the action. ~William Shakespeare

01-04-2012, 06:20 PM	#11
Quintease Member How Do You Identify?: Rainbow femme Preferred Pronoun?: princess Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 514 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 508 Thanked 1,817 Times in 417 Posts Rep Power: 10560327	I always plan my flirts, or not-flirts. By 'plan' I don't mean I write them down for days and analyse them, but I put some thought into what I say (by not-flirts I mean the flirts you're not doing because someone inappropriate is trying to flirt with you). I've flirted with everything from boys to girls and I don't feel the need to change my flirting style for identity, rather for the person. __________________ It is not worth an intelligent person's time to be in the majority. By definition, there are already enough people to do that.

01-03-2012, 10:41 PM	#12
Wryly Member How Do You Identify?: bemused butch Preferred Pronoun?: polite ones, please Relationship Status: single butch Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: my little butch house Posts: 988 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,789 Thanked 1,568 Times in 620 Posts Rep Power: 14094255	I cannot flirt at all - by text, online or in person. When I do try to flirt either the femme doesn't "get" that I'm flirting or I sound really strange. Once I spent quite a bit of time with someone - apparenlty she started dating and broke up with someone during that time. sigh No luck at all! Everyone who says to be a good flirter you should be yourself obviously aren't me!

01-05-2012, 04:36 PM	#14
smouldering Member How Do You Identify?: Punky girly girl, glittery femme Preferred Pronoun?: she, her, etc. Relationship Status: Single, Recovering Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Ohio Posts: 1,288 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,306 Thanked 3,974 Times in 924 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Most of the posts here have made me smile, I think flirting is great, its fun and heck its even healthy if you ask me.. I like that little dance of just having fun and getting to know people on all different levels.. However if we've only just said hello and haven't really known each other long and you send me a naughty pic? Im probably not going to be able to take you seriously and will back off.. just sayin, why be so quick to send a stranger pics of your bits? I can't help but wonder how many other people are getting a peek at your goods at the same time and if you're just whoring for attention and nothing more. I am definitely far from a prude, just ask anyone who knows me lol.. but I can't imagine sending photos of my unmentionables to someone I didn't know.. could you just imagine how many others they could be forwarding my "stuff" too? YIKES __________________ ~~Smouldering~~ Suit the action to the word, the word to the action. ~William Shakespeare