Flirting by text

Wryly · 01-03-2012, 10:41 PM

I cannot flirt at all - by text, online or in person.
When I do try to flirt either the femme doesn't "get" that I'm flirting or I sound really strange.

Once I spent quite a bit of time with someone - apparenlty she started dating and broke up with someone during that time. *sigh* No luck at all!

Everyone who says to be a good flirter you should be yourself obviously aren't me!

lettertodaddy · 01-05-2012, 04:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Wryly

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Everyone who says to be a good flirter you should be yourself obviously aren't me!

Well said! I'm terrible at flirting.

smouldering · 01-05-2012, 04:36 PM

Most of the posts here have made me smile, I think flirting is great, its fun and heck its even healthy if you ask me.. I like that little dance of just having fun and getting to know people on all different levels..
However if we've only just said hello and haven't really known each other long and you send me a naughty pic? Im probably not going to be able to take you seriously and will back off.. just sayin, why be so quick to send a stranger pics of your bits? I can't help but wonder how many other people are getting a peek at your goods at the same time and if you're just whoring for attention and nothing more.
I am definitely far from a prude, just ask anyone who knows me lol.. but I can't imagine sending photos of my unmentionables to someone I didn't know.. could you just imagine how many others they could be forwarding my "stuff" too? YIKES

01-05-2012, 04:36 PM	#3
smouldering Member How Do You Identify?: Punky girly girl, glittery femme Preferred Pronoun?: she, her, etc. Relationship Status: Single, Recovering Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Ohio Posts: 1,288 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,306 Thanked 3,974 Times in 924 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Most of the posts here have made me smile, I think flirting is great, its fun and heck its even healthy if you ask me.. I like that little dance of just having fun and getting to know people on all different levels.. However if we've only just said hello and haven't really known each other long and you send me a naughty pic? Im probably not going to be able to take you seriously and will back off.. just sayin, why be so quick to send a stranger pics of your bits? I can't help but wonder how many other people are getting a peek at your goods at the same time and if you're just whoring for attention and nothing more. I am definitely far from a prude, just ask anyone who knows me lol.. but I can't imagine sending photos of my unmentionables to someone I didn't know.. could you just imagine how many others they could be forwarding my "stuff" too? YIKES __________________ ~~Smouldering~~ Suit the action to the word, the word to the action. ~William Shakespeare

01-03-2012, 10:41 PM	#1
Wryly Member How Do You Identify?: bemused butch Preferred Pronoun?: polite ones, please Relationship Status: single butch Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: my little butch house Posts: 988 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,789 Thanked 1,568 Times in 620 Posts Rep Power: 14094254	I cannot flirt at all - by text, online or in person. When I do try to flirt either the femme doesn't "get" that I'm flirting or I sound really strange. Once I spent quite a bit of time with someone - apparenlty she started dating and broke up with someone during that time. sigh No luck at all! Everyone who says to be a good flirter you should be yourself obviously aren't me!