Baby Butch Journey

blucollargrl · 01-05-2012, 04:25 PM

hugs are awesome!! Thanks!

UofMfan · 01-05-2012, 04:28 PM

I agree with Corkey.

Sometimes even when great advice is given, if it is not what we want to hear, we go ahead and do what we want to do anyway.

Some lessons we need to learn for ourselves.

Don't beat yourself over it, just learn and grow from it.

Corkey · 01-05-2012, 04:36 PM

I'd like to put some emphasis on the heal part. Take some time to understand what happened and the why of it, including your part in it. Folks make the worst mistakes by jumping into relationships they just aren't ready for because they haven't taken the time to learn from the last one. . Its human nature to want to be paired up, in some form and fashion. Growing from the healing is so much easier and the lessons tend not to have to be repeated.
My.05

01-05-2012, 04:25 PM	#1
blucollargrl Junior Member How Do You Identify?: butch Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: never find another like her Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: seattle Posts: 13 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 59 Thanked 52 Times in 9 Posts Rep Power: 1573154	hugs are awesome!! Thanks! __________________ :

01-05-2012, 04:36 PM	#3
Corkey Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Human Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Very Married Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Where I want to be Posts: 8,155 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 47,491 Thanked 29,270 Times in 6,637 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	I'd like to put some emphasis on the heal part. Take some time to understand what happened and the why of it, including your part in it. Folks make the worst mistakes by jumping into relationships they just aren't ready for because they haven't taken the time to learn from the last one. . Its human nature to want to be paired up, in some form and fashion. Growing from the healing is so much easier and the lessons tend not to have to be repeated. My.05 __________________ "Many proposals have been made to us to adopt your laws, your religion, your manners and your customs. We would be better pleased with beholding the good effects of these doctrines in your own practices, than with hearing you talk about them". ~Old Tassel, Chief of the Tsalagi (Cherokee)

01-05-2012, 04:28 PM	#2
UofMfan Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Relationship Status: A very happy Mr. Grumpy Cat Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Neither here or there Posts: 7,987 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 27,733 Thanked 18,937 Times in 4,705 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	I agree with Corkey. Sometimes even when great advice is given, if it is not what we want to hear, we go ahead and do what we want to do anyway. Some lessons we need to learn for ourselves. Don't beat yourself over it, just learn and grow from it.