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			since I am puter ignorant and can't do it in this post........... 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			I uploaded a picture of a herd of longhorns on a friend of mines ranch outside Midland TX. go to my gallery 
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			This afternoon at the Disabled Arts Studio, a new comer gave me a big hug as she was leaving.  She told me she likes me because I’m soft, cuddly, laugh a lot and have a proper body.  I had to fight back the tears… 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			*Hankie please... 
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			I am not around any fat positive people that I know of per se, but I would say that now new  roomies I have are not fat prejudiced. So this is a good start. I feel accepted, not judged on a daily basis. I am still working on feeling sexy at this weight, and liking how my body looks. Thank you all for the help, I really appreciate it.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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    It makes a big difference (no pun intended, lol!) when we BBWs are accepted for who we are and not how others believe we should be, and we have the support of other BBWs. It’s very positive that you are gently working on feeling sexy and liking how your body looks as a BBW is a very sensuous and seductive feeling from within. This radiates outwards and people will see you as a ray of sunshine! I hope we see more of you in this thread.   
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			oh gracious! I love this phrase! Imma gonna use it! 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			I have not been around because My chrissy has hit his head and given himself a concussion. He is deathly afraid of hospitals and combined with his symptoms of personality change and confusion, I have been beside myself. No work was done on the store except for some forms I created while in the house watching and observing him so he didnt die on me. 
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			Hi everyone, just wanted to come in and say hi  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	 
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			It's great, isn't it?  That phrase has been whirling around my head ever since the young Lady said it to me, lol!  
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			ok today was a better day. Chrissy is himself again and I can relax. He wont go to a Dr damn him! He was traumatized as a youth by some Drs so he has cause for his anxiety but still.... 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			my landlord broke the toilet in the store. (rolls eyes and laughs) of course he did! Little things that are driving me crazy! I set up a 2 week time period to accept consignments. I had one women contact me, who is obviously very poor, and she told me how awful it was for someone her size to try to find clothes cheap in thrift stores. She is excited about my Helping Bin, where I am going to put harder worn clothes in there, for 25 cents to a $1, proceeds going to 4 different charities I will support locally. Its all she can afford she says to me. I tell her, honey, introduce yourself when you come in, cuz I have some 50% off coupons for my store, that I will let YOU use on the Helping Bin clothes. She squealed, she was so excited! This store is going to be so good for my heart.... 
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			I LOVE this quote...but change "flaw" to something more positive. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	 
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			Oooh! I musta missed this forum earlier. So glad I found it!  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			![]() This fat chick today decided to get serious about checking something off her bucket list...eventually. I signed up for a 10K walk/run this summer! I will likely be walking it, but it's the first step towards participating in a triathalon *and* the STP bike series (It's a 200-mile bike ride between Seattle and Portland). Am I crazy? Perhaps. But I'm sooo excited!     ![]()  
		
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