It's ever so lonely..

Strappie · 02-28-2010, 11:39 AM

The one thing I tell myself about long distance relationships is. If and when you decide to move, don't move directly in with each other. Try and find a place where you can at least date for 6 months. Being able to see that person once in awhile is still the honeymoon stage and well honestly the first 6 month even year is the honeymoon stage. Things are always still cute and fun. People don't show their true colors right away.

Talking on the phone is "not" enough to know who they are and going to visit on wknds or a few days is fun, but do you really get to know them?

I'm sorry that things didn't work out for anyone that has move clear across the US or even just to another city for the one they love. This will only make you stronger and wiser next time!!

luciddreamer · 02-28-2010, 11:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Strappie

The one thing I tell myself about long distance relationships is. If and when you decide to move, don't move directly in with each other. Try and find a place where you can at least date for 6 months. Being able to see that person once in awhile is still the honeymoon stage and well honestly the first 6 month even year is the honeymoon stage. Things are always still cute and fun. People don't show their true colors right away.

Talking on the phone is "not" enough to know who they are and going to visit on wknds or a few days is fun, but do you really get to know them?

I'm sorry that things didn't work out for anyone that has move clear across the US or even just to another city for the one they love. This will only make you stronger and wiser next time!!

Hell yeah !!!!

Strappie · 02-28-2010, 11:51 AM

To be alone I think is a test to ourselves...

If we can't be by ourselves how the hell will we be able to be with someone else! Those times we are alone are the times we need to reflect and think about ourselves how things in our lives have changed. I always seem to find the reasons as to why I wasn't meant to be with that person! Then I also figure out what it is I did wrong and the things I need to change to get ready for my life partner.

Blade · 02-28-2010, 11:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Strappie

The one thing I tell myself about long distance relationships is. If and when you decide to move, don't move directly in with each other. Try and find a place where you can at least date for 6 months. Being able to see that person once in awhile is still the honeymoon stage and well honestly the first 6 month even year is the honeymoon stage. Things are always still cute and fun. People don't show their true colors right away.

Talking on the phone is "not" enough to know who they are and going to visit on wknds or a few days is fun, but do you really get to know them?

I'm sorry that things didn't work out for anyone that has move clear across the US or even just to another city for the one they love. This will only make you stronger and wiser next time!!

Aint that the damn truth

morningstar55 · 02-28-2010, 12:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Strappie

The one thing I tell myself about long distance relationships is. If and when you decide to move, don't move directly in with each other. Try and find a place where you can at least date for 6 months. Being able to see that person once in awhile is still the honeymoon stage and well honestly the first 6 month even year is the honeymoon stage. Things are always still cute and fun. People don't show their true colors right away.

Talking on the phone is "not" enough to know who they are and going to visit on wknds or a few days is fun, but do you really get to know them?

I'm sorry that things didn't work out for anyone that has move clear across the US or even just to another city for the one they love. This will only make you stronger and wiser next time!!

.. omg........ this is soo right on..
even when meeting someone in person....... as i had this experience recently . meeting someone out here and NOT on line.... well we just did the dating thing.. since well..... we met last july didnt even date until sept.. i think... and ended it into just friends only.. early this month..
and it was for the best..... for both of us.. heh.

i agree with a lot of what strappy posted here....... i like the .. IN person dating thing for a wwhile.. its the best way I feel you can get to know someone.

jenniferjade30 · 05-10-2015, 02:15 PM

Hello I am from Michigan do any of you still communicate on here? I just found this website.

homoe · 05-10-2015, 04:45 PM

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Originally Posted by jenniferjade30

Hello I am from Michigan do any of you still communicate on here? I just found this website.

Jen, are you in lower MI or the UP if I may ask?

05-10-2015, 02:15 PM	#6
jenniferjade30 Junior Member How Do You Identify?: bi Join Date: May 2015 Location: michigan Posts: 1 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 0 Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post Rep Power: 0	Has the "From Michigan" thread died? Hello I am from Michigan do any of you still communicate on here? I just found this website.

02-28-2010, 11:39 AM	#1
Strappie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: I know who I am... Doesn't matter Relationship Status: It's a new day.... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Mpls, MN Posts: 3,283 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,813 Thanked 4,945 Times in 1,350 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	The one thing I tell myself about long distance relationships is. If and when you decide to move, don't move directly in with each other. Try and find a place where you can at least date for 6 months. Being able to see that person once in awhile is still the honeymoon stage and well honestly the first 6 month even year is the honeymoon stage. Things are always still cute and fun. People don't show their true colors right away. Talking on the phone is "not" enough to know who they are and going to visit on wknds or a few days is fun, but do you really get to know them? I'm sorry that things didn't work out for anyone that has move clear across the US or even just to another city for the one they love. This will only make you stronger and wiser next time!!

02-28-2010, 11:51 AM	#3
Strappie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: I know who I am... Doesn't matter Relationship Status: It's a new day.... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Mpls, MN Posts: 3,283 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,813 Thanked 4,945 Times in 1,350 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	To be alone I think is a test to ourselves... If we can't be by ourselves how the hell will we be able to be with someone else! Those times we are alone are the times we need to reflect and think about ourselves how things in our lives have changed. I always seem to find the reasons as to why I wasn't meant to be with that person! Then I also figure out what it is I did wrong and the things I need to change to get ready for my life partner.