Stone--Personal Definitions

~ocean · 05-21-2012, 07:05 PM

pillow princess>> waste of femmine energy >> empty w/out passion.

Gemme · 05-21-2012, 07:16 PM

I've heard the term used to describe someone who takes but doesn't give, so in that simplistic definition, your ex could fit into that category, rusted.

HOWEVER

There is never one set definition of anything when it comes to how we identify. We are far too complex to reduce our experiences, lives and love into a few sentences.

Random · 05-21-2012, 07:19 PM

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Originally Posted by ~ocean

pillow princess>> waste of femmine energy >> empty w/out passion.

Could you elaborate on what you are saying here?

Are you stating that the term pillow princess means waste of femmine energy and empty w/out passion?

or are you giving stating that this is the negitive image of what people think of when they hear pillow princess?

I'm asking for clarification, because I don't want to misunderstand what I'm reading...

~ocean · 05-21-2012, 07:22 PM

no misunderstanding at all.. i could care less what others think ..its what i think i go by.

Random · 05-21-2012, 07:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ~ocean

no misunderstanding at all.. i could care less what others think ..its what i think i go by.

Ok.. so you are saying that you think someone who is a pillow princess is a waste of femmine energy >> empty w/out passion.

So is a Top femme who only gives and doesn't receive the same thing?

Speaking as someone who has been both in her life, I have to say that you are wrong on both counts... nothing wasted and in no way passionless...

How sad to be so judgemental and selfish...

Apparently you have never inspired passion in someone who only receives if your experience leads you to this conclusion..

I've been more fortunate and my experience lead me to the conclusion that it's hot as hell for someone to give me the pleasure of pleasing them and vise versa...

Medusa · 05-21-2012, 07:57 PM

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Originally Posted by ~ocean

pillow princess>> waste of femmine energy >> empty w/out passion.

~ocean-

The post above feels super judgmental and goes against the part of our TOS about Intolerance where we ask people not to shame others about who they are.

Everyone on this site gets to individually decide how they like to fuck, who they want to fuck, and why they want to fuck. That means that every single person here is PERFECT exactly the way they are and if that means they want to lay on a pillow and get their moan on until the cows come home, it's OK!

It does NOT make people less passionate, less Feminine, or less of ANYTHING simply by fucking differently than you do. It just makes their style of fucking different. Period on that sentence.

I want everyone here to be super careful about imposing their idea of what is ok in bed on other people.

This is where we repeat my favorite mantra: "Other people's orgasms are none of your business."

Thanks,
Medusa
(lover of pillows, being on top, being on bottom, sideways, hanging from the ceiling, doing in in my socks, doing it in a box, and sundry other ways of fucking)

~ocean · 05-21-2012, 08:01 PM

im sry for offending .. i;m not referring to a top femme at all.. .. i'll refrain my opinons

sry again..

barnes · 05-21-2012, 09:12 PM

ok for me stone means i dont want to be touched in a feminine way on my chest nor seen as thou i have em !
i dont want to be penetrated vag wise ! i could barely type the word even lol ! oh or in the ass too had to toss that in lol !
stone femme to me means a femme that likes stone butches as she doesnt like to eat pussy ! so they fit . but she likes to be penetrated and such and loves her boobs to be boobs unless they just hurt her back ! i personally dance the stone /transgender line most importantly to me im ruff very ruff so id as a hard core butch ! i love that word butch its meaning is diverse ! i like takin the time to get to know folks and they let me know what it means to them ! it is such an odd ice breakin convo i truly must admit ! i love lables in the old days we were just lesbians and that was way too broad ! we need a concenses and a dictionary lol now who will be the aurthor dont all raise u hand at once lol !
and as for emotions id never heard that stone meant cold so to speak ! i cry too much myself lol ! ima giver emotionally financially spiritually and physically and sexually ! i always thought a pillow princess was a high femme that likes to keep her hair and makeup nice at night lol ! using silk pillowcases as to not mess her hair as tangled lol ! idk lol! and thank god we arent all the same its the diversity that makes us all the more interesting !

rustedrims · 05-22-2012, 05:28 AM

I didnt mean my question about a "Pillow Princess" to get "heated"..
I just wanted to understand the term..It is i believe taking and not giving..Always thought that because that is the way she was with me..I could go on but i will stop there..
Thanks for all the comments..I did learn something..

StoneOne · 05-23-2012, 11:33 AM

and tagging for later read
Thanks for sharing

shiagirl · 05-30-2012, 01:00 AM

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Originally Posted by StoneOne

and tagging for later read
Thanks for sharing

Following Stone and tagging too for later reading.

imperfect_cupcake · 10-09-2012, 06:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rustedrims

I didnt mean my question about a "Pillow Princess" to get "heated"..
I just wanted to understand the term..It is i believe taking and not giving..Always thought that because that is the way she was with me..I could go on but i will stop there..
Thanks for all the comments..I did learn something..

actually, for me, no. I'm not stonefemme but I can be an utter pillow princess at times: I love getting "done" and give by gripping, being loud, squirting, panting, adoring, losing myself in it, etc... but I do also give back by enacting sexually on others (sucking, fisting, mouth on flesh "blowjobs" etc) in the ways they require so I can't call myself stonefemme. But I am a serious pillowqueen/bottom for a good chunk of my bedroom life (I do switch it up happily when asked, but happy to respect boundaries too). I'm proud to be one and love it. And never had a single complaint.

those of us who like to "be on our backs" but aren't strictly stone... it's a useful term. or at least I find it to be so.

05-21-2012, 07:16 PM	#2
Gemme Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Queer Stone Femme Girl of the Unicorn Variety Preferred Pronoun?: She, as in 'She's a GEM' Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: The roads are narrow here Posts: 36,631 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 182,498 Thanked 107,925 Times in 25,666 Posts Rep Power: 21474887	I've heard the term used to describe someone who takes but doesn't give, so in that simplistic definition, your ex could fit into that category, rusted. HOWEVER There is never one set definition of anything when it comes to how we identify. We are far too complex to reduce our experiences, lives and love into a few sentences. __________________ Gemme's Journal I'm misunderestimated.

05-21-2012, 09:12 PM	#8
barnes Member How Do You Identify?: butch tg Preferred Pronoun?: he Relationship Status: single Join Date: May 2011 Location: kentucky Posts: 752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,704 Thanked 559 Times in 188 Posts Rep Power: 6001835	stone ok for me stone means i dont want to be touched in a feminine way on my chest nor seen as thou i have em ! i dont want to be penetrated vag wise ! i could barely type the word even lol ! oh or in the ass too had to toss that in lol ! stone femme to me means a femme that likes stone butches as she doesnt like to eat pussy ! so they fit . but she likes to be penetrated and such and loves her boobs to be boobs unless they just hurt her back ! i personally dance the stone /transgender line most importantly to me im ruff very ruff so id as a hard core butch ! i love that word butch its meaning is diverse ! i like takin the time to get to know folks and they let me know what it means to them ! it is such an odd ice breakin convo i truly must admit ! i love lables in the old days we were just lesbians and that was way too broad ! we need a concenses and a dictionary lol now who will be the aurthor dont all raise u hand at once lol ! and as for emotions id never heard that stone meant cold so to speak ! i cry too much myself lol ! ima giver emotionally financially spiritually and physically and sexually ! i always thought a pillow princess was a high femme that likes to keep her hair and makeup nice at night lol ! using silk pillowcases as to not mess her hair as tangled lol ! idk lol! and thank god we arent all the same its the diversity that makes us all the more interesting !

05-22-2012, 05:28 AM	#9
rustedrims Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Northern Ohio close to Lake Erie and ice-cream places Posts: 445 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,125 Thanked 2,555 Times in 368 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Well..... I didnt mean my question about a "Pillow Princess" to get "heated".. I just wanted to understand the term..It is i believe taking and not giving..Always thought that because that is the way she was with me..I could go on but i will stop there.. Thanks for all the comments..I did learn something.. __________________ I don't want to be perfect because if I was then I will loose the ability to learn.

05-23-2012, 11:33 AM	#10
StoneOne Timed Out How Do You Identify?: StoneOne Preferred Pronoun?: SyrDamon Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: Washington State Posts: 462 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,965 Thanked 1,441 Times in 382 Posts Rep Power: 0	just reading and tagging for later read Thanks for sharing

05-21-2012, 07:05 PM	#1
~ocean Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme blows a kiss off my finger tips * Preferred Pronoun?: ~ hey girl ~ Relationship Status: ~ single & content ~ Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Massachusetts ~coastal Posts: 7,905 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,958 Thanked 16,015 Times in 4,724 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	pillow princess>> waste of femmine energy >> empty w/out passion.

05-21-2012, 07:22 PM	#4
~ocean Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme blows a kiss off my finger tips * Preferred Pronoun?: ~ hey girl ~ Relationship Status: ~ single & content ~ Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Massachusetts ~coastal Posts: 7,905 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,958 Thanked 16,015 Times in 4,724 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	no misunderstanding at all.. i could care less what others think ..its what i think i go by.

05-21-2012, 08:01 PM	#7
~ocean Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme blows a kiss off my finger tips * Preferred Pronoun?: ~ hey girl ~ Relationship Status: ~ single & content ~ Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Massachusetts ~coastal Posts: 7,905 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,958 Thanked 16,015 Times in 4,724 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	im sry for offending .. i;m not referring to a top femme at all.. .. i'll refrain my opinons sry again..