Bringing It Up: Describe The Butch You Are

[alexri]

I am myself...

I know how to treat a lady right and be there for her, without treating her like a damsel in distress. I know when to take charge and when to let her lead. I know when to top and when to let myself be topped (and I will enjoy it too). I know the little things matter, like cleaning the snow off her car before she has to go to work, doing the chores she hates the most, or making sure her favorite food or drink is always in the house. I know the big things matter too, like giving her the freedom and independence she would need while also making sure we have quality time together. I'm strong and protective, yet I also let myself be taken care of when I need it.

I am a warrior. I have to be. My whole life I have been put down, whether it's for the way I look, dress, act or express myself. I've been to hell and back and I'm still standing. I release my pressures in the gym or in a race.

I know what I do want, and what I don't want, and there are certain things I won't compromise on.

To me my body is just the vessel I was born in. I won't shy away from having my female organs pleased because it feels good and I am not to deny myself the pleasure of intimacy. But in my mind I'm visualizing things a little differently.

[Glenn]

I am a lifelong stone butch who is a beautiful balance of male/female, baby boi/ daddi, domn/sub, alpha and beta. I've never done fantasy role play. This is all very heavy karma I've take on to improve myself. There are femme's here who are more butch than I in their little finger lol, and most butches here look and act more masculine than I. If I was stranded in Hotel Iran, they'd never know I was a stone butch lol, I have'nt worn an article of stereotypical feminine clothes in 45 years. My exwife of over thirty years was also a rare bird who perfectly balanced me. She was femme, babygirl/momma, domina/sub, whore/madonna, alpha/beta, etc. lol! Seriously,everyone is different, and all that really matters through it all, is enjoying making sweet love to each other and giving each other uninterrupted peace of mind.

[jac]

The butch that I am is the butch she saw in me and accepted whole-heartedly. I am a female, a daughter, sister, mother, boobeh (grandmother), aunt, a friend… I dream and love and cherish deeply. I have passions, hopes and aspirations and I have the ability to make them come true and be successful at it. I am a fighter, a lover, a peace keeper. I am rough around the edges and firm in my beliefs. I am quiet and shy and I cry when my heart is touched. I respect others, have morals, live by integrity and I do what I can to make another person feel noticed. I defend the underdog, give up a seat to an elderly person, I help that single mom get her things gathered while she holds her child. I am moody, get irritable, lose my temper… I am human and I have emotions; good and not so good. I make mistakes. I do my best to right my wrongs. I have grown as a person over the years and I have grown as a butch. I am proud of the person I have become but by no means have I stopped working on that individual I strive to be. I play and have fun. I’m a kid at heart. I enjoy picnics, flying kites, blowing bubbles… I sing in the shower and at karaoke. I dance when my knees are forgiving and allow me to do so. I thoroughly enjoy supporting, pampering, complimenting and doing for my lover. I am a protector, her protector and I will always support her in whatever she believes in. I would never give up being the person that I am and I would not expect that from her either. I am a great hugger. A good lover. I am a dork at times. I am fierce. I am a hard worker. I am all gy. I am her gy. I have fears, I get scared but I am strong when I need to be. I give everything my all… to completion!

I am me. I am Stoney. I am Jack. I am hy… Yes I am butch!

[rocky 781]

I am quiet and shy but once I know you all bets are off. I am very old school and chivalry is not dead with me. I am a southern gentleman and romantic. I am domesticated in that I love to cook, bake, smoke meat, clean house, do laundry (because I have more clothes and shoes than most femmes) and good at fixing things. I am an activist politically and otherwise. I am strong in mind and body, I am a care giver, I am trusting until someone makes it clear they can't be trusted. I am slow to anger but I am a true Leo in every sense of the word. I have a dry and wacky sense of humor.I enjoy sports (go Redskins and Notre Dame) and a good cigar. But most of all I am her DADDY and to furbabies as well, her Top/Dom, I am her protector, her comforter, her best friend. I am the one she can come to vent and keeper of her secrets. I am her rock but most of all I her lover.

[Tuff Stuff]

Describe the butch I am? For me it's the body i was born in,the energy,the spirit,the soul,stop me if you heard this one before,the attraction I feel for all things femme or anything super feminine.I get it that i'm masculine looking and all that and have been mistaken for a man a thousand times but I don't see myself as a man.I don't even see myself as gay or lesbian.I tell others that we are a 'straight' couple but to no avail.Even other couples in our own community don't think its possible for us to be seen as a straight couple.So i have given up trying to describe myself as a straight butch woman.She gets it and that's all that matters to me.

[wahya]

I am a protector. I think that is instilled in me due to having a daughter & two grand kids.

[JrzyButch]

For me, I 'am kinda layed back with a dry sense of humor....also, goodhearted...compassionate & sensitive, these traits I inherited from my mom who is also a good person...God bless her..
I am the type, If Iam in a relationship with someone,,and I am passing a card store, or gift shop... Ill stop in and buy a card, or a trinket for her, cuz I was thinking bout her..or just for the hellva it...that's just me, old fashion hopeless romantic...
I don't do it cuz I want it back in return...I do it cuz It's coming from my heart..
I am not at all a material person...that I dislike very much ..material people...'
when I date someone who is very close to my heart...she is going to know how important she is in my life...

That sums it up for me..

[o'queery]

love this thread <3

[okieblu]

I'd really like to respond, talk about the kind of butch I am, but I dont think now is probably a good time.