Ask a trans person!

[Linus]

Hey everyone...

I just received this from CNN:

Hi there,

Since you previously contributed to our Transgendered Stories assignment on CNN iReport, I thought you’d like to know about a new assignment that just launched. To coincide with the CNN documentary “Her Name Was Steven,” we’re looking for transgendered, transsexual or questioning individuals to share a message with the world. What would you like others to know about you and your experience?

The assignment is simple: Just put a message that you would like others to know about you on a sign and take a self-portrait holding it up.
You can find the assignment here: http://www.ireport.com/ir-topic-stor...topicId=417959

We’re accepting submissions until April 9. Please feel free to pass the word along! We look forward to seeing your submissions.

Best,
Katie Hawkins-Gaar

p.s. “Her Name Was Steven” airs on CNN this Saturday and Sunday at 8 and 11 p.m. ET. You can find out more here: http://www.cnn.com/CNN/Programs/presents/

So, I'm working on what I'll post up but if you want to post your own picture with a message, do so. It'd be nice to see so many positive and supportive options out there.

[Linus]

So I upload my pix and comments. You can see them here: http://www.ireport.com/docs/DOC-418506

[Jet]

Originally Posted by Linus

So I upload my pix and comments. You can see them here: http://www.ireport.com/docs/DOC-418506

I just took a look. Very nice.

[Linus]

Thanks for all the comments everyone. Weirdly enough, I got an email from the same editor this morning asking me further about my iReport and would I be ok with my real name being used and what phone number to call me at if they have further questions.

[Greyson]

Originally Posted by Linus

Thanks for all the comments everyone. Weirdly enough, I got an email from the same editor this morning asking me further about my iReport and would I be ok with my real name being used and what phone number to call me at if they have further questions.

Nice job Linus. I like your well chosen message, words. I see you. I am a better person for having seen you, your words these past few years.

[EthanGaBoy]

Linus, you are awesome man. Thank you for being that brave!

ETHAN

Originally Posted by Linus

So I upload my pix and comments. You can see them here: http://www.ireport.com/docs/DOC-418506

[Corkey]

Tonight on CNN a documentary called "Her name was Steven" 8 PM eastern.

[Soon]

Originally Posted by Corkey

Tonight on CNN a documentary called "Her name was Steven" 8 PM eastern.

Thanks--it's on now here and is very interesting.

[The Oopster]

Originally Posted by Corkey

Tonight on CNN a documentary called "Her name was Steven" 8 PM eastern.

For those that missed that showing it is on at other times so just search for it if you can ... it is showing at 11pm pacific today, sat and i did notice atleast one showing tomorrow, Sunday

[Thinker]

Originally Posted by The Oopster

For those that missed that showing it is on at other times so just search for it if you can ... it is showing at 11pm pacific today, sat and i did notice atleast one showing tomorrow, Sunday

It's on again on Sunday at 8 pm (eastern time) and 11 pm (eastern time). They may run it again a time or two after that.

Remember that tonight/tomorrow morning is time change: spring forward.

[Linus]

And whatever you do, don't go to CNN and check out the article on it (or rather the comments to the article). They are vile and hurtful.

[SFFemmePrincess]

So as a follow up to Logic's post... First thank you Linus for that link, we checked it out, and while their mission statement says they are open to people of all gender presentations, they seem to me more geared toward TransWomen. But I did do a little research and found a couple of clinics. Does anyone in the bay area have any experience with the Trans services at the Tom Waddell Clinic, The Lyon Martin clinic, or with New Leaf counseling? I do have a friend that goes to New Leaf and he is really getting a lot out of it, but any other insight would be great. Also, I have done a lot of reading, but am I correct in that the first step he should take in the actual process would be finding a therapist? Are we on the right track?

[Thinker]

Originally Posted by Rainbowchick07

but am I correct in that the first step he should take in the actual process would be finding a therapist? Are we on the right track?

I think that is the best first step. That'll help him get his thoughts in order and gain some perspective, and it will also be invaluable down the road if/when he pursues medical and/or surgical intervention.

Good luck!

[Soft*Silver]

tyra's show today is on transgendered children...

[Logicaly]

See, here is the issue im running in to. I work for a very small company, maybe 30 employees max. We have no HR, and the owner does basically what he wants and feels is right, even if it is not. My co-workers, not an issue, some of them already know of my desire and are totally okay with it. My biggest fear at this point for me, is that my boss can find a way to fire me.

[Andrea]

Originally Posted by Logicaly

See, here is the issue im running in to. I work for a very small company, maybe 30 employees max. We have no HR, and the owner does basically what he wants and feels is right, even if it is not. My co-workers, not an issue, some of them already know of my desire and are totally okay with it. My biggest fear at this point for me, is that my boss can find a way to fire me.

A good resource is www.transgenderlawcenter.org. It is free and they are wonderful about responding to questions.

Andrea

[Greyson]

Originally Posted by Rainbowchick07

Also, I have done a lot of reading, but am I correct in that the first step he should take in the actual process would be finding a therapist? Are we on the right track?

Hi Rainbow and Logically. We met at the Winter Ball dance. I live in the East Bay and have been through this process. I have used private insurance and out of pocket for my transition. To my knowledge New Leaf is a decent resource. New Leaf is one of the newer resources in the Bay Area and it is specific to the East Bay. Most of the resources are in the City. A few months back the Pacific Center in Berkeley started a peer support group for Transmen that meets on Wednesday evening.

If you like, send me a pm here with you contact information and we can talk some more. Good luck.

[Leigh]

I wanted to come in and say hi to all of My fellow trans brothers, not only to see how everyone is doing but also to give a quick update on how things are doing. I came out to My parents and didn't realize that My mom was going through alot, so whatever few days of silence that occured had nothing to do with Me so everything now is all good

I found out from a trans friend here that a place called Klinic, a community health care center, has a trans clinic with a doctor who deals with all trans patients. I called and talked to them, and got an intake appointment with the doctor's assistant in April to see if I can get in to be this guy's patient. His name is Dr. Whetter and if all goes well not only could he become My family doctor but he could also help Me to begin My transition. I'm optimistic about things but once the intake is done (April 16th) then I will see how things go ........ I'll make sure to keep everyone updated when things happen, and what he says

[Linus]

Glad to hear it turned out well in the end, Braedon.

I got a surprise call today. CNN called to talk to me further about my iReport! I called the intern back so we'll see where, if anywhere, it leads but I gotta admit.. kinda exciting.

[Leigh]

I am too Linus