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It was not meant to be harsh, I am rarely harsh. I am however, realistic. Your above comments, seem to be to be much more realistic than those in your original post. (that is my view and again not trying to be harsh) Also, you started your post with: "Do you ever wonder if that perfect relationship exists?" I am not trying to argue with you just clarify. I did not say sacifice passion for compatability and commitment. However I have a adult daughter and if you want long term commitment and a child, passion often does not die, there simply is not as much time for it. At that point the 2 c's is what gets people through everyday life till they have time for passion. I truly hope you find everything you are looking for
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03-09-2010, 07:11 PM
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perfect moments are like orgasms. If I wait for someone else to give them to me, I am shifting the responsibility to the wrong person. I can share them with someone else but by god, you betcha I am not going to wait around for the magic to come from someone else...
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I'm not going to give you relationship advice. I am not qualified to do that.
However, let me just share this thought, for what it is worth. Scrap the grand plan. In my view, life cannot be planned. Life happens. You can't plan it. You can't schedule it. You just have to deal with how it comes at you. In my opinion, having a grand plan just continually sets you up for disappointment. Live in the moment, or at least try to. Jake |
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Im learning to let love come to me, im letting them chase me for once
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Fair enough. I think, though, you will reach a place in your life when you realize the plan is not grand nor important. As I have aged, I have learned a few things, especially in the last few years. Life is, in general, an unpredictable mess, a journey during which sometimes your luggage is lost. Forgiveness is an art, and forgiving yourself is the hardest thing to do. The only thing I ever hope to walk away with -- from anything -- is my self-respect and maybe a lesson learned. And saying three little words -- "I am sorry" is a lot harder to say for most people than "I love you." Ok, now it sounds like I am pontificating. I don't mean to. I am just speaking from the "me" place. Jake |
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