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Old 09-02-2012, 12:26 PM   #1
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LOL Words. Well if I do get married I will be the groom and wearing a tuxedo. So you never can tell.
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LOL Words. Well if I do get married I will be the groom and wearing a tuxedo. So you never can tell.
That's what I mean, you should never assume

BTW - congrats on the anniversary!

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That's what I mean, you should never assume

BTW - congrats on the anniversary!

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Thank you! It is not a wedding anniversary but very meaningful for us.
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Old 09-02-2012, 12:46 PM   #4
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LOL Words. Well if I do get married I will be the groom and wearing a tuxedo. So you never can tell.
Just wanted to quote that and swoon again.

But in regards to asking the father before the bride....

My view is what other's have said. It reminds me of the time that the women had no say about who they married or when. A bio man asked the father, they shook on it and there may have been a dowry in the works and that was that. It had as much to do with money as it did the girl, IMO. Next thing the girl was told she was getting married. End of story. Sounds horrible.


On the flip side though, i do believe it is sorta ok to tell the parents or family prior to asking the wife. Key word is "tell or inform". That's my view on it though.

I mean to each his/hys/her own, but that would be creepy to me. My father is deceased, but if he were still alive, i don't think i would like that at all.


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