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lettertodaddy · 09-10-2012, 08:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Tcountry

So is it the "slutty" perception or the lower self-esteem that makes her an "easy target"?

I think this is a large part of it. I think another big part of it is that a fat woman should be happy to get any sexual attention, even negative sexual attention. I can't tell you how many times guys have tried to chat me up only to have them call me a "fat ugly bitch" in the next breath when I turn them down. I'm happy no women have ever done this to my knowledge.

SingularNYCFemme · 09-10-2012, 10:01 PM

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Originally Posted by lettertodaddy

I think this is a large part of it. I think another big part of it is that a fat woman should be happy to get any sexual attention, even negative sexual attention. I can't tell you how many times guys have tried to chat me up only to have them call me a "fat ugly bitch" in the next breath when I turn them down. I'm happy no women have ever done this to my knowledge.

I don't believe I've ever encountered a woman with this point of view; if some have, they haven't indicated it in their behavior toward me. I could go on for a bit on this topic, but I'm sleepy and up past my bedtime. I'm glad we're here to support our fabulous sexy selves.

Spirit Dancer · 09-11-2012, 06:26 AM

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