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10-06-2012, 08:41 AM
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I absolutely love to dance and slow dancing is my favorite. I think it can be so hot.
I can pretty much follow anyone but have to watch my tendency to lead. I find butches don't like that much...
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10-06-2012, 08:48 AM
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I, like others, would love to learn. Also like others, not much is offered around here. There's also the dilemma of finding someone to learn with....even if it's just a friend.
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10-06-2012, 09:17 AM
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several years ago there was a class being taught in my community...it was held every friday and offered up something for those of us that do not enjoy the bar scene. I took this class so i could dance at my daughter's wedding, suffice it to say, i had no one to dance with at her wedding so the classes i think were more for me ...i learned a lot.
just dance  partner dancing is beautiful
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10-06-2012, 09:22 AM
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Needless to say, I LOVE dancing, couples dancing with a strong lead in particular. Once my life settles just a bit I'm going to start taking lessons even if I don't have a regular partner - Dancing has saved my life more than once and it still nourishes my soul in ways that nothing else can, even if I'm just dancing by myself.
There is a dance festival in NY every year that is very gay-friendly that I've wanted to go to for years. One of these days I'll make it there! |
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10-06-2012, 09:29 AM
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DWM. Which festival are you thinking of?
The one I've talked to you about before? We have a large traditional dance community here and one of the cool parts of it is a lot of gender bending. Not necessarily about being attracted to the same sex, but that it's a place where the even some of the most traditional men bust out their skirts and dresses and dance with each other and the women dance with each other wearing whatever they want and taking turns leading how they please. One of my closest friends and I were both partnered for years to soft butches who would not go dancing with us. We both loved the OFOS atmosphere at the traditional dances here, and would leave our partners at home and go dance with the men, snickering about it a lot, but having fun with the dancing part of it all. Too bad we never had any of the OFOS butches come to the dances but maybe someday there will be an infusion! |
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10-06-2012, 02:27 PM
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10-06-2012, 04:25 PM
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It's mid-February. Come!
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10-06-2012, 04:25 PM
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Heck, let's have a reunion right there?
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10-06-2012, 09:56 AM
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I love to lead my beautiful handsome Pete around the dance floor.
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10-06-2012, 10:14 AM
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10-06-2012, 10:27 AM
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Believe it or not there are allot of dance studios that teach same sex couples:
Locations: New York, Ohio, Mass, Many along the coast of California, Dallas, Chicago, Baltimore, DC, FL, CT, RI, PA, KS and many more. some don't even require you to bring a partner*shrugs* seems its a growing thing here in the states...and more and more competitions are popping up every year. of course for me it's just about dancing and having fun |
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10-06-2012, 10:15 AM
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10-06-2012, 10:39 AM
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My first girl-friend, the femme (pre-butches), always had me lead and it is tough to let that go! It is always my first inclination.
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