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10-19-2012, 03:38 PM
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1.) Wet. dear god. have a spine and and don't be afraid of confrontation
2.) I really would rather deal with many troublesome attributes and "difficult" people than someone who is so calm I find them to have no spark. I know many girls like the quiet strong types who are on an even keel. I'm glad there are people who like them. But it's not me. Laugh loud, live with bright colours and I'll put up with you being a pain in the ass. 3.) humour - as in sarcasm, irony, crusty and gritty warmth. |
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10-19-2012, 03:58 PM
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Love it !
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SO many people would rather have the easy, calm, nothing ruffles them types....LOL..I am SO not that...ask my ex...it drove her nuts !....Great list Honey! |
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10-19-2012, 07:09 PM
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heh. if someone can make an idiot of themselves to make me laugh, tease me, take the piss, argue with me in a fun way even thought they are frustrating as hell, I don't care if they can't do their paperwork. Can't change a light bulb. I don't mind slightly helpless in some ways - I need to feel useful too. But as long as they love to make me laugh, love to make me smile, like to show off for my attention, I'm a fabulous audience. And I don't mind a ranty temper (as long as it passes quick) as long as they love people and know how to suck up to me after. And I'd much rather have the high end sizzling chemistry that goes with all of that. I'm a passionate person and I like big colour  Just so long as it's not the mindf*ck off-on shit and they know how to cuddle a lot. |
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10-19-2012, 09:17 PM
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not too moody/morose/angry/cryptic. i groove off other people's moods so this does not work for me similarly, not someone who needs a long time alone when angry and holds anger. i'm too sensitive and too anxious to be with someone who is not adept at working it out pretty quickly and moving on or working it out over time but not while letting the problem color our days together not ambivalent about commitment doesn't cut me down while arguing makes me laugh has my back (that's a big one for me) ... luckily i'm describing BB, my partner, to a tee! Some of my non-negotiables I didn't know I needed until I found them in the relationship I'm in now. Just thinking out loud... |
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10-23-2012, 01:39 PM
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Another 3...lol
Drugs OR alchohol.....no way I'm going to be with you.....ever !
Cheating.....once will be the last time I assure you.... Lying...to me or to yourself..... sorry, not interested ! |
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10-23-2012, 03:10 PM
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exactly what Darbonaire said .. a marriage of 17 yrs ended for exactly those 3 reasons .. i wished and still wish hym well..
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02-28-2013, 10:05 AM
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Using me or others as an emotional punching bag Failure to follow through not accepting responsibility to self and others |
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