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10-24-2012, 05:40 PM
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Ask her out. You already have something in common (the charity group, yes?) You have her contact info. Trust me, your lips will not fall off your face if you open you mouth and say, "Hey, I really enjoyed chatting with you the other day. It seems we have a few things in common and I would like to get to know you better. Would you like to go out *on a date* next...(blah, blah...fill in the blank as to where/when)". Also, please use the word "date." I have 3 charities I am involved with plus some serious hobbies. If someone asks me to "get together" at an event involving one of those things I assume it is because they are interested in the charity/hobby as well, not because they are angling for a date. As to the whole B-F who should ask whom....if you are confident and comfortable initiating the date and the Butch in question finds that a turn-off...well, they weren't the one for you and best find out now. Good luck...and remember, sometimes the biggest risk of all is not taking one. Katniss~~ |
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10-24-2012, 05:49 PM
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Non-threatening.....ask her if you can meet & maybe discuss in more depth the group she has......ask her to tell you more about it.....if the group interests you & she runs it then....perhps a good friendship can begin....moving from friendship to a "possible" dating scenaroi often takes care of itself.....
There is nothing "forward" about a coffee date.....who knows what questions & answers will come up over that cappuccino?....lol....you may find out you really would prefer a frienship & then again...<slow grin>.... Allow the powers that be to flow though you, & enjoy the journey....& the coffee...LOL Jonathan |
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10-24-2012, 05:57 PM
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I believe that people are brought into your life in various ways & ALL are good. I met my wonderful ex-wife on the old aol B/F chat room....never knew that a few years later we would meet again on line & then meet in person. 10 really good years.....i have also met people on blind dates in my past & currently I am meeting folks in r/t & geting to know some on line...so....explore...it's all good !!!
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10-24-2012, 06:02 PM
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