What attracts you to Ftms ......

[femmsational]

Originally Posted by The_Lady_Snow

Isn't it ironic that when a Femme steps and says hey. stop it. with your isms.


She's painted out as a "mean girl"


You never see this happen with butch/trans/masculine folk


Matter of fact one of the masculine folk came in here and accused the folks who are in here of attacking the submissive Femmes..


Yanno julie, I'll be honest.

That shit is old. Tiring. It's deflection.

I hope you realize I am not saying I believe you, or anyone, at this moment is being a "mean girl" cause I've never thought that. I have seen the "mean girl" but not here and not on this site. I didn't use mean girl as a way to narrow it down to gender. It's a common way of describing a specific pattern. It could be a girl or a guy.

I think Gemme made a great point in her last post. There do seem to be two discussions going on at the same time. Confusing to say the least.

I'm not trying to say that I feel anyone is right or wrong, just that there are two ways to look at things and it makes it easier for ME to try to see things from both sides. Then I don't get my feelings hurt and take things personally.

I agree this shit is old. Which is why I said something in the first place.


j