what NOT to do in a relationship....... - Page 29

spritzerJ · 10-20-2012, 10:25 AM

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Originally Posted by thedivahrrrself

Had to learn this one the hard way:

Don't try to talk about anything of substance while football is on.

Yes learning that lesson helped me know.... next one wasn't going to be a football fanatic. I just couldn't help myself and no need to frustrate anyone needlessly.

cinnamongrrl · 10-31-2012, 12:47 PM

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Originally Posted by spritzerJ

Yes learning that lesson helped me know.... next one wasn't going to be a football fanatic. I just couldn't help myself and no need to frustrate anyone needlessly.

The ironic thing about this is.... in this relationship I AM more of a football fanatic!! But we aren't home on Sundays anyhow....so it does no harm

Teddybear · 10-31-2012, 01:25 PM

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Originally Posted by cinnamongrrl563

The ironic thing about this is.... in this relationship I AM more of a football fanatic!! But we aren't home on Sundays anyhow....so it does no harm

we like 2 different teams. i havent lived close to a store that sells falcon things like she lives close to where damm near every store sells something with the patriots logo on it.

i have to remind her OFTEN that we are undefeated this yr.

i know that she loves her team so much and i really love how passionate she is about that. i hope that she gets her wish and they make it to the playoff however if they play us we will WIN

PurpleQuestions84 · 10-31-2012, 04:57 PM

Dont let the relationship die by moving 2 slow

kittygrrl · 10-31-2012, 05:18 PM

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Originally Posted by thedivahrrrself

Had to learn this one the hard way:

Don't try to talk about anything of substance while football is on.

hey, don't forget the Feverrrrrrrr too!

<<<<<<<my costume tonight

Ginger · 10-31-2012, 05:19 PM

Don't give up too soon, or stay too long.

(And just when you think you know where those two points of demarkation lie, the rules will change—so consider this advice useless!)

Soon · 10-31-2012, 05:22 PM

Don't avoid discussing difficult topics

Don't be a conflict avoider

Soon · 10-31-2012, 05:35 PM

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Originally Posted by IslandScout

Don't give up too soon, or stay too long.

(And just when you think you know where those two points of demarkation lie, the rules will change—so consider this advice useless!)

Ha! You write SUCH truth within the parentheses!

LadyRieinAL · 10-31-2012, 05:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Teddybear

we like 2 different teams. i havent lived close to a store that sells falcon things like she lives close to where damm near every store sells something with the patriots logo on it.

i have to remind her OFTEN that we are undefeated this yr.

i know that she loves her team so much and i really love how passionate she is about that. i hope that she gets her wish and they make it to the playoff however if they play us we will WIN

it is so wonderful to hear someone back their partner in their passion about something like football - BIG hugs to both of you!

Darbonaire · 10-31-2012, 10:07 PM

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Originally Posted by LadyRieinAL

it is so wonderful to hear someone back their partner in their passion about something like football - BIG hugs to both of you!

Really?...LOL.....amazing.......

Medusa · 11-01-2012, 07:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Darbonaire

Really?...LOL.....amazing.......

Darbonaire-

You want to know what is really amazing? That I have advised you about this kind of behavior once before and warned you of the consequences and you still are unable or unwilling to control yourself.

Just to be clear, this type of post and following your ex around the site in order to fuck with her is patently against the Terms of Service.

You are now on a 30-day time-out.

During your time-out, you are not to access the site in any way or contact the Admins or Moderators. Failure to comply with this request will result in a permanent ban.

Thanks,
Medusa

TruBlu · 11-01-2012, 07:59 AM

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Originally Posted by IslandScout

Don't give up too soon, or stay too long.

(And just when you think you know where those two points of demarkation lie, the rules will change—so consider this advice useless!)

And always hold her hand and tell her you love her....... 😊

Talon · 11-01-2012, 08:23 AM

Make her feel like she's on the same level with every other chick that you know. Make her feel like she's a priority....special...and then she will likely return that to you. If you don't, then don't expect her to.

~ocean · 11-01-2012, 09:15 AM

Dont talk about all the ex lovers (just the ones u need to discuss)
Dont make promises you cant keep
Always kiss eachother good night & good morning regardless what went down
Keep your appearence up .. being a frump is a turnoff
Let hym (her) talk .. listen

~ocean · 11-02-2012, 02:15 PM

~ never let your past become your future ~

txdoc · 11-02-2012, 02:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Soon

Don't avoid discussing difficult topics

Don't be a conflict avoider

True, but at the same time, strike a balance and don't overanalyze and alienate.

girl_dee · 11-02-2012, 03:50 PM

don't sweat the small stuff

sometimes being right doesn't make you the winner.

ruffryder · 11-28-2012, 07:18 PM

"Relation SHIPS sink when they have too many passengers."

girl_dee · 12-28-2012, 07:54 PM

don't become someone you aren't to make it fit.

don't try to compete with others that came before you

have goals and plans for yourself, and don't sell yourself short by giving them up.

listen to your gut.

sylvie · 12-28-2012, 08:26 PM

Don't forget to laugh, have fun & enjoy one another's company.
Don't forget to appreciate the small things, take notice & compliment! It feels good!
Don't worry about other people's back yards - embrace joy & happiness & focus on the love in front of you, don't lose sight of what's important.

10-31-2012, 04:57 PM	#564
PurpleQuestions84 Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Super Girly Preferred Pronoun?: Miss.Lady ;) Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: So.cal U.S.A Posts: 62 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 53 Thanked 153 Times in 43 Posts Rep Power: 1365539	Dont let the relationship die by moving 2 slow __________________ It takes courage to grow up and become who you really are. ~e.e. cummings "if you end up a life you never wanted because u listened to your parents, your priest, your friends, and your spouse, you deserve it." PurpleQuestions84 AKA Barbie Dyke

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Talon Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Divine Feminine Preferred Pronoun?: . Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: . Posts: 4,921 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,246 Thanked 10,223 Times in 3,305 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Don't.. Make her feel like she's on the same level with every other chick that you know. Make her feel like she's a priority....special...and then she will likely return that to you. If you don't, then don't expect her to.

12-28-2012, 08:26 PM	#580
sylvie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Mr Mtn's babygirl Preferred Pronoun?: girly, she Relationship Status: fiercely protected ♥ Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Moving home in OR with Him VERY soooon !! Posts: 2,548 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,834 Thanked 7,501 Times in 1,850 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Don't forget to laugh, have fun & enjoy one another's company. Don't forget to appreciate the small things, take notice & compliment! It feels good! Don't worry about other people's back yards - embrace joy & happiness & focus on the love in front of you, don't lose sight of what's important. __________________ my Mantra: i am letting go of angers, continuing to find forgiveness, welcoming inner peace & deserving of it all. my facebook weight loss page: http://www.facebook.com/asyllyjourney

10-31-2012, 05:19 PM	#566
Ginger Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme lesbian Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: East coast Posts: 2,416 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,829 Thanked 12,296 Times in 2,057 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Don't give up too soon, or stay too long. (And just when you think you know where those two points of demarkation lie, the rules will change—so consider this advice useless!)

10-31-2012, 05:22 PM	#567
Soon Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Relationship Status: attached Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: . Posts: 6,896 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,046 Thanked 13,094 Times in 3,386 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Don't avoid discussing difficult topics Don't be a conflict avoider

11-01-2012, 09:15 AM	#574
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11-02-2012, 02:15 PM	#575
~ocean Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme blows a kiss off my finger tips * Preferred Pronoun?: ~ hey girl ~ Relationship Status: ~ single & content ~ Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Massachusetts ~coastal Posts: 7,905 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,958 Thanked 16,025 Times in 4,727 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	~ never let your past become your future ~

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11-28-2012, 07:18 PM	#578
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12-28-2012, 07:54 PM	#579
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,833 Times in 13,908 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	don't become someone you aren't to make it fit. don't try to compete with others that came before you have goals and plans for yourself, and don't sell yourself short by giving them up. listen to your gut.