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Power Femme
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Married to a wonderful horse girl Join Date: Oct 2009
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Let me be clear, I do not care if any given white person hates me because I'm black. I really do not give a damn what any particular white person thinks of me. What I *do* give a damn about is whether or not that white person can make their racism my problem. Calling me the 'n-word' makes it my annoyance but not my problem. Refusing to treat me fairly in an interview, refusing to grant me credit, not taking me seriously in class or in the workplace, passing me over for promotion or paying me less than my colleagues--even those who have less experience than I do--IS making it my problem and THAT I expect my society to put quite a bit of energy into doing something about. The same applies for men and for straight people. Don't care. Genuinely don't. As long as they cannot *legally* make it my problem, what someone carries in their own head neither picks my pocket nor breaks my leg, to use Jefferson's memorable phrasing. As long as I have a legal recourse then that is as good as I think any society will do. The above, by the way, explains why I have said on numerous occasions that where we are today--right here, right now--in America is probably the best any of us can expect as far as racial harmony is concerned, notwithstanding all of the genuflecting about white privilege and talk of unpacking of knapsacks. I don't expect anything to get noticeably better in my lifetime *because* you can't legislate away prejudice. I choose to work on eliminating those things you *can* legislate away--like it being legal to fire someone for no better reason than that they are queer. Or it being legal to harass someone at work or school because they are queer. Or it being legal to refuse to rent to someone because they are queer, etc. etc. Cheers Aj
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Proud member of the reality-based community. "People on the side of The People always ended up disappointed, in any case. They found that The People tended not to be grateful or appreciative or forward-thinking or obedient. The People tended to be small-minded and conservative and not very clever and were even distrustful of cleverness. And so, the children of the revolution were faced with the age-old problem: it wasn’t that you had the wrong kind of government, which was obvious, but that you had the wrong kind of people. As soon as you saw people as things to be measured, they didn’t measure up." (Terry Pratchett) |
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